Are Americans really an different to us?
#76
Re: Are Americans really an different to us?
You won't find any anti-english people mate. They're just about the only people in the world that really like us. Most of them anyway.
You might get a few dick comments about kicking your ass in 1776 and you'd be speaking german if it wasn't for them. You'll have to work out a few comebacks for that. And if you do let me know because I still can't think of anything good.
You might get a few dick comments about kicking your ass in 1776 and you'd be speaking german if it wasn't for them. You'll have to work out a few comebacks for that. And if you do let me know because I still can't think of anything good.
As for come back comments, "No we wouldn't, we're as shit at languages are you are"...and "Thank the French, some one has too"...but it usually, again with the plastic paddies flies right over their heads
#77
Re: Are Americans really an different to us?
What about the Brits that argue with you? How are you going to get rid of them?
#78
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Re: Are Americans really an different to us?
Care to share your experiences on other forums? One in particular?
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#79
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Re: Are Americans really an different to us?
In september i will be moving to US for 6 months to 1 year. I basically want to know what Americans are like. I hear alot of stereotypes but im not sure i believe them. Are there any clear differences which are obvious??
i will be very lonely if i cannot make friends. I am quite a shy person but when people are very like me i can usually come out my shell. i like making a joke out of everything, i like 'taking the piss' out of my friends, i sort of like spontaniaty (sp) and self-depricating people. i find people who take themselves seriously quite intimidating.
do you think i will be liked? Is there any anti-english people there? does being english make you kind of stand out??
i will be very lonely if i cannot make friends. I am quite a shy person but when people are very like me i can usually come out my shell. i like making a joke out of everything, i like 'taking the piss' out of my friends, i sort of like spontaniaty (sp) and self-depricating people. i find people who take themselves seriously quite intimidating.
do you think i will be liked? Is there any anti-english people there? does being english make you kind of stand out??
Having said that, most Yanks are pretty friendly. The guys I've met from Virginia were all a bit redneck and proud of it.
#80
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Re: Are Americans really an different to us?
In England there would have been a roar of abuse and piss taking and I would never have heard the last of it for years and years
Here, they were all so polite and understanding and asking if I was ok and nobody mentioned it all evening.
It was eerie - a bit like religious freaks with that spaced out smile - rows and rows of white teeth
Now they are either nicer than Brits or real aliens have taken over their minds - I go for the latter
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Re: Are Americans really an different to us?
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/w...re/4367699.stm
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#82
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Re: Are Americans really an different to us?
What went wrong in your example is, (let's pretend I was your colleague).. I don't know you have a child, I don't know that you are not a painter, even a sucky painter. I just gave you a compliment (I like your painting) and you negate my comment, my taste and my friendly overture by your 'joke'.
The appropriate reply (especially in a work situation) is to thank the person and brag up your kid.
IN MY OPINION.
The appropriate reply (especially in a work situation) is to thank the person and brag up your kid.
IN MY OPINION.
#83
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Re: Are Americans really an different to us?
The Americans I've met are much more guarded about their true feelings than Europeans, I would say. It is easier for us to relate to people from Europe and Central/ South America despite the language barrier.
#84
Re: Are Americans really an different to us?
FYI this site welcomes people of all nationalities.
#85
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Re: Are Americans really an different to us?
It's not a question of right or wrong, but it is a cultural difference. Snappy quips are the norm in a British workplace, whereas the reply you gave as appropriate would maybe seem a bit 'square'. My attempts at humour are always taken seriously here, it's just very different.
Last week we watched fools and horses 'miami twice' - nothing
Even in the one where when damien appeared at the end of the bed and rodney said 'cassandra, i locked the door'
nothing
Even when the male midwife's wig dropped between her legs and delboy said 'I can see it's head'
nothing
I reckon the americans make the north korean army look like giggly school girls when it comes to british humour
#86
Re: Are Americans really an different to us?
I bought some little britain DVD's this week and we sat right through them without USC wifey laughing once - oh except at the disabled jokes
Last week we watched fools and horses 'miami twice' - nothing
Even in the one where when damien appeared at the end of the bed and rodney said 'cassandra, i locked the door'
nothing
Even when the male midwife's wig dropped between her legs and delboy said 'I can see it's head'
nothing
I reckon the americans make the north korean army look like giggly school girls when it comes to british humour
Last week we watched fools and horses 'miami twice' - nothing
Even in the one where when damien appeared at the end of the bed and rodney said 'cassandra, i locked the door'
nothing
Even when the male midwife's wig dropped between her legs and delboy said 'I can see it's head'
nothing
I reckon the americans make the north korean army look like giggly school girls when it comes to british humour
The only thing that makes me laugh on Little Britain is Andy too.
#87
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Re: Are Americans really an different to us?
Think of it as a girlie night out or a boys booze up - these groups like to be alone and to talk about the other lot sometimes
Or is that too PC and it doesn't happen in america ?
Yes people of all nationalities welcome as long as they don't become oppressive in squashing opinion of other nationals with heavy handedness and banding together an sending PM's to each other or to people who might support a poster against their wishes
1st amendment and all that you know
It's obvious to everyone by now that americans are incredibly sensitive to perceived slights against their country, and it deters the flow of people's experiences
Perhaps thats the biggest difference of all - Britons come from a quietly assured country whose long history has worked out many questions, whereas the US is a new born and still trying to find it's self image
Nothing more prickly making than a sense of insecurity
Britain had its civil war before the US
We had our bill of rights before the US
We had votes for women before the US
We banned slavery before the US
We had a woman head of government before the US
We halted public executions before the US
etc etc etc etc etc
The US is still finding its way as society and so the Brits should make allowances I suppose and compliment them all the time for what they have achieved in the way that we only compliment children and we don't point out their failures
...
Or is that too PC and it doesn't happen in america ?
Yes people of all nationalities welcome as long as they don't become oppressive in squashing opinion of other nationals with heavy handedness and banding together an sending PM's to each other or to people who might support a poster against their wishes
1st amendment and all that you know
It's obvious to everyone by now that americans are incredibly sensitive to perceived slights against their country, and it deters the flow of people's experiences
Perhaps thats the biggest difference of all - Britons come from a quietly assured country whose long history has worked out many questions, whereas the US is a new born and still trying to find it's self image
Nothing more prickly making than a sense of insecurity
Britain had its civil war before the US
We had our bill of rights before the US
We had votes for women before the US
We banned slavery before the US
We had a woman head of government before the US
We halted public executions before the US
etc etc etc etc etc
The US is still finding its way as society and so the Brits should make allowances I suppose and compliment them all the time for what they have achieved in the way that we only compliment children and we don't point out their failures
...
#88
Re: Are Americans really an different to us?
Yes people of all nationalities welcome as long as they don't become oppressive in squashing opinion of other nationals with heavy handedness and banding together an sending PM's to each other or to people who might support a poster against their wishes
1st amendment and all that you know
...
1st amendment and all that you know
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#89
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Re: Are Americans really an different to us?
So true. I have had more meaningful discussions with people I've met at the # 22 bus stop in Putney than I've had in 8 years here.
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Re: Are Americans really an different to us?