Letter for interview
Feb 26th 2006, 7:11 am
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Letter for interview
Hello! In October of 2003, I married my boyfriend (a citizen of India)
and we filed his petition based on marriage. Well soon after, he was
becoming more and more emotionally abusive, which he now attributes to
being at the lowest point in his life and he was not happy in general.
Well, whatever the case may be, we got divorced. He hired an attorney
and his employer decided to sponsor his H1B. Apparently last week he
received a letter from the Detroit field office saying we had an
interview on March 9th. We're confused because his attorney said the
previous petition shouldn't be a problem. Was this just sent in error
because they didn't get the information? What would be the thing to do
here?
and we filed his petition based on marriage. Well soon after, he was
becoming more and more emotionally abusive, which he now attributes to
being at the lowest point in his life and he was not happy in general.
Well, whatever the case may be, we got divorced. He hired an attorney
and his employer decided to sponsor his H1B. Apparently last week he
received a letter from the Detroit field office saying we had an
interview on March 9th. We're confused because his attorney said the
previous petition shouldn't be a problem. Was this just sent in error
because they didn't get the information? What would be the thing to do
here?
Feb 27th 2006, 5:22 pm
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Re: Letter for interview
Originally Posted by TheThigILove
Hello! In October of 2003, I married my boyfriend (a citizen of India)
and we filed his petition based on marriage. Well soon after, he was
becoming more and more emotionally abusive, which he now attributes to
being at the lowest point in his life and he was not happy in general.
Well, whatever the case may be, we got divorced. He hired an attorney
and his employer decided to sponsor his H1B. Apparently last week he
received a letter from the Detroit field office saying we had an
interview on March 9th. We're confused because his attorney said the
previous petition shouldn't be a problem. Was this just sent in error
because they didn't get the information? What would be the thing to do
here?
and we filed his petition based on marriage. Well soon after, he was
becoming more and more emotionally abusive, which he now attributes to
being at the lowest point in his life and he was not happy in general.
Well, whatever the case may be, we got divorced. He hired an attorney
and his employer decided to sponsor his H1B. Apparently last week he
received a letter from the Detroit field office saying we had an
interview on March 9th. We're confused because his attorney said the
previous petition shouldn't be a problem. Was this just sent in error
because they didn't get the information? What would be the thing to do
here?
Mar 2nd 2006, 5:05 am
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Re: Letter for interview
Well I suppose I have a bigger heart than what is necessary. He's
getting married in August and it's an arranged marriage, and
personally, I feel bad for the girl. It wasn't up to her who her
parents chose for her and I don't want things to be bad for her. I know
I don't even know her, but at the same time, I just don't think she
needs or deserves to be punished for any of it. She's a dentist and she
could be very successful here. I think she might actually deserve to be
here too. I know it sounds nuts for me to think or feel this way, but I
really don't begrudge anyone of happiness, even if it is him ;-)
getting married in August and it's an arranged marriage, and
personally, I feel bad for the girl. It wasn't up to her who her
parents chose for her and I don't want things to be bad for her. I know
I don't even know her, but at the same time, I just don't think she
needs or deserves to be punished for any of it. She's a dentist and she
could be very successful here. I think she might actually deserve to be
here too. I know it sounds nuts for me to think or feel this way, but I
really don't begrudge anyone of happiness, even if it is him ;-)
Mar 3rd 2006, 4:20 am
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Re: Letter for interview
[email protected] wrote:
> Well I suppose I have a bigger heart than what is necessary.
>He's getting married in August and it's an arranged marriage, and
> personally, I feel bad for the girl.
Then he can't get greencard through you. So withdraw your sponsor by
informing USCIS or don't go to the interview. You are required to
abandon the sponsor.
>It wasn't up to her who her parents chose for her and I don't want things to
>be bad for her.
What can you do about it?
>I know I don't even know her, but at the same time, I just don't think she
> needs or deserves to be punished for any of it. She's a dentist and she
> could be very successful here. I think she might actually deserve to be
> here too. I know it sounds nuts for me to think or feel this way, but I
> really don't begrudge anyone of happiness, even if it is him ;-)
Look, if he gets H1B, she can be his dependent. If she is not happy,
she will divorce and leave him or wait for gc and get a acreer
extablished and divorce. You don't know what's their plan is.
If you must, just tell her that she shouldn't marry just because her
parent said so. But she may be wanting to gte way from parents. But,
you can't get him a GC anymore. You are not married to him. Case
closed.
> Well I suppose I have a bigger heart than what is necessary.
>He's getting married in August and it's an arranged marriage, and
> personally, I feel bad for the girl.
Then he can't get greencard through you. So withdraw your sponsor by
informing USCIS or don't go to the interview. You are required to
abandon the sponsor.
>It wasn't up to her who her parents chose for her and I don't want things to
>be bad for her.
What can you do about it?
>I know I don't even know her, but at the same time, I just don't think she
> needs or deserves to be punished for any of it. She's a dentist and she
> could be very successful here. I think she might actually deserve to be
> here too. I know it sounds nuts for me to think or feel this way, but I
> really don't begrudge anyone of happiness, even if it is him ;-)
Look, if he gets H1B, she can be his dependent. If she is not happy,
she will divorce and leave him or wait for gc and get a acreer
extablished and divorce. You don't know what's their plan is.
If you must, just tell her that she shouldn't marry just because her
parent said so. But she may be wanting to gte way from parents. But,
you can't get him a GC anymore. You are not married to him. Case
closed.
