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robin1234 Feb 27th 2023 3:28 am

Re: Sense of humour differences
 

Originally Posted by tht (Post 13175943)
Surely an American would just pull their sidearm, shoot you and then tell you to “have a nice day”…

Not even. It’s usually just “have a nice rest of the day.” So as night draws on, they’re offering you less and less.

lansbury Feb 27th 2023 6:24 am

Re: Sense of humour differences
 

Originally Posted by tht (Post 13175943)
Surely an American would just pull their sidearm, shoot you and then tell you to “have a nice day”…

In Oregon 72% of CCLs are held by men over 46 years old. Useful to know before starting a fight here.

excpomea Feb 28th 2023 1:26 am

Re: Sense of humour differences
 

Originally Posted by lansbury (Post 13176016)
In Oregon 72% of CCLs are held by men over 46 years old. Useful to know before starting a fight here.

I think this 9 year old lives there too.
Don't mess with her, she has 36 guns herself lol.

https://www.youtube.com/@AutumnsArmory

BristolUK Feb 28th 2023 2:43 am

Re: Sense of humour differences
 

Originally Posted by excpomea (Post 13176188)
I think this 9 year old lives there too.
Don't mess with her, she has 36 guns herself lol.

https://www.youtube.com/@AutumnsArmory

This needs posting on the gun thread.

mum2mom23 Mar 1st 2023 3:29 am

Re: Sense of humour differences
 

Originally Posted by Nutmegger (Post 13174279)
Has every single British person you've come across in your life understood you perfectly? If so, you've been luckier than me! Some people "get" you, some people don't -- whatever country you are in -- whether we're talking about humor or just daily life. There's no need to stress about it. And there is so much British TV (comedy and otherwise) available over here now, that I think that has helped to broaden people's grasp of British vernacular. Over forty years ago I told a friend in NYC that I had been "really pissed" the night before. She took this to mean that I had been furious with someone, not having heard the other usage! To this day, she jokes about that language conflict.

Great points, thanks!

mum2mom23 Mar 1st 2023 3:30 am

Re: Sense of humour differences
 

Originally Posted by civilservant (Post 13174922)
I have totally suppressed by dry sense of humor. In the south people just think I'm being an asshole.

This is what I am worried about...

spouse of scouse Mar 1st 2023 3:50 am

Re: Sense of humour differences
 

Originally Posted by smithtranters (Post 13176554)
This is what I am worried about...

Try not to worry too much or you'll end up being scared to say anything!
Just be yourself. Unless you're a horrible person, then be someone else :D

Rete Mar 1st 2023 3:54 am

Re: Sense of humour differences
 

Originally Posted by smithtranters (Post 13176554)
This is what I am worried about...

Don't worry about it. We Americans think most people are A-H. :sarcasm:

Pulaski Mar 1st 2023 3:55 am

Re: Sense of humour differences
 

Originally Posted by civilservant (Post 13174922)
I have totally suppressed by dry sense of humor. In the south people just think I'm being an asshole.

Now I'm not sure if I have subconsciously suppressed my sense of humour, or if my skin is so thick that I don't notice how many people I have offended?

I am reasonably certain that my circle of friends, neighbours, and colleagues is not particularly savvy about British humour. :unsure:

Nutmegger Mar 1st 2023 5:46 am

Re: Sense of humour differences
 

Originally Posted by smithtranters (Post 13176554)
This is what I am worried about...


I have lived in the NE, where I understand you are headed, for decades, and have not experienced any problems associated with my somewhat off-beat sense of humor and outright sarcasm. If you have to explain something, explain it, it’s no big deal. Stop worrying!

robtuck Mar 1st 2023 6:10 am

Re: Sense of humour differences
 
There have been a few times down here in the South that I have had a puzzled look in response to something "funny" I have said, most of the time they get it though, especially those who hear my voice more than once. The only time I got in trouble was in San Fran in a bar, but I was drunk and I was almost certainly the arsehole in the comversation.

civilservant Mar 2nd 2023 9:29 pm

Re: Sense of humour differences
 

Originally Posted by robtuck (Post 13176593)
There have been a few times down here in the South that I have had a puzzled look in response to something "funny" I have said, most of the time they get it though, especially those who hear my voice more than once. The only time I got in trouble was in San Fran in a bar, but I was drunk and I was almost certainly the arsehole in the comversation.

That's Atlanta though, far more cosmopolitan than the the part just up I-85 where I am.

The 'good ol' boys' up here are set in their ways.....

Hiro11 Mar 3rd 2023 6:54 am

Re: Sense of humour differences
 

Originally Posted by robin1234 (Post 13175834)
OMG! Who knew? Thank god you came along, to contemptuously put the foreigners in their place - yet again!

Oh the irony of robin complaining about someone's "contemptuousness". Look in the mirror, or at least at your post history. Also, nothing in my post is "contemptuous" in the slightest.

Also, this thread is full of perfect examples of arrogant, patronizing, condescending expats trying to pass off their behavior as "a cultural difference". Maybe the problem is you?

BristolUK Mar 3rd 2023 7:09 am

Re: Sense of humour differences
 
Who shot Bambi?

:hysterical:

cheradenine Mar 3rd 2023 2:59 pm

Re: Sense of humour differences
 

Originally Posted by smithtranters (Post 13174120)
Hi all,

Is it unreasonable to be worried about the sense of humour differences between the US and UK? I’ve got a very dry sense of humour, and I am being told my friends that people in the US just won’t get it. I’m worried it will make me feel more alienated than normal. We are moving to NY/Connecticut so I wonder if the East Coast and bigger cities are a bit more similar to us here.

Does anyone have experiences they can share?

Thanks!

It's certain parts of the US that won't get us. I work with a guy from Boston that absolutely got my joke when he asked what brought me to America. My response was 'an airplane'. He laughed and admitted he walked right into that.


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