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Mar 11th 2013 | 8:19 pm

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passthevalium

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Re: Family differences

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Originally Posted by NZ4Now

Hi there

Yes I have never settled like really settled here in NZ we're in Auckland. Some days we both think hey lets wait around for Citizenship then move home and other days we are just like lets go now.

I think out of me and Andy I am the one who misses the UK the most, he has always been happy to crusie along here until whenever but he has always wanted to go back to the UK to live at some point.

Both of us knew when we came here 6 years ago this wasn't forever as we never truly settled.

We have now made the decision finally to move back in Oct as my Dad gave us a generous offer to help our move back

Which part of NZ are you in?

Georgina

We're in Wellington. I get the bit about never truly settled here and that's part of the problem for me. I think I said before that I have days when I just want to go there and then but there are other days when I feel ok. I never expected to feel so unsettled, I think it really began around Christmas. Maybe it will settle down again.

Mar 12th 2013 | 5:50 am

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NZ4Now

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From: Auckland

Re: Family differences

So sorry to hear this

I know from my own personal experience how awful this is to never truly feel settled, one day I feel fine next I want to move! We even brought a house here in AKL hoping that would help but it didn't!

Finally after 6 years I have firmly made the decision and I finally feel at ease!

Only you can tell if it would ever feel right

xxx