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Big_john Feb 16th 2007 2:26 am

Re: Why do people continue to knock Britain on this forum ??
 

Originally Posted by poollounger (Post 4412236)
Well I live down the road from Peckham. yes it is not good what's happening there. However the Rye is filled with picnicers in the summer, all the old shops are gone in the small centre and the fancy estate agents are increasing, more trees are being planted, and in spite of the shootings property prices are rocketing. I wouldn't choose to live in Preston, Birmingham or Brighton, nor rub shoulders with the Russian mafia in Eaton Square (even if I won the lottery), but I wouldn't condemn the whole of Britain. I shall comment further after I have visited my sister who is in the process of moving from the Midlands to the Isle of Skye.

Property prices will alway's rocket when you live on a small island with and increasing population and a diminishing land bank, that is obvious :rofl:

I would not wish either to live with Russians in London, nor the French either who have a few hundred thousand living in London and which the President of France say's is one of his capital cities, and he has to count on it for a great majority of his votes :rofl:

If you care to live on the Island of Skye you will have a wonderful time without any crime whatsoever but you will depending where you live on the island have a long way to go for a pint:rofl: .......but you can guarantee she will miss her curries :eek:

But I for one would have no wish to live in London especially south london with it's growing problems :eek:

leighbloke Feb 16th 2007 2:38 am

Re: Why do people continue to knock Britain on this forum ??
 

Originally Posted by Rixxy (Post 4412003)
Thats cos most of the 128 ARE british idiots drunk trying to cross over the motorways at night.

Should be added to the UK stats really :eek:

Very amusing - totally wrong, but amusing.

lcortez Feb 16th 2007 2:42 am

Re: Why do people continue to knock Britain on this forum ??
 
Agree with point about South London,it appears to be going further and further downhill,I was brought up there so wont go on about 'good old days',
its always been a dumpbut a dump with good people,not so nowadays.
Good point with the overcrowding,always feel hemmed in in the UK,with no real privacy!

poollounger Feb 16th 2007 2:43 am

Re: Why do people continue to knock Britain on this forum ??
 

Originally Posted by lcortez (Post 4412276)
Aaaah,now I understand didnt mean to infer you were a 70's hippy,just that everyone I know who bought an investment proerty was in it for the capital growth and planned on buying more to get rich!
It would appear however we are at cross purposes here,my outlook on materialism is much the same as yours!:)

Trouble is how one defines rich.....no matter how much you have , there is always someone with a lot more and someone else with a lot less. I don't decry ambition, a luxurious lifestyle, good food, champagne (well mostly Cava) but I couldn't give a hoot about peer pressure. If I cannot afford the pool and the villa, I would prefer to camp on the beach, as I once did for a whole week at Zahara de los Atunes in my youth. I think that is what is missing in Britain is that we threw out values from the 50's and 60's (thankfully) went through a perio0d in the 70s and 80s of thinking that peace and love could solve everything, a bit like born again Christians, but have, on the whole, never given the current generation of young people anything to replace it with. My mothers generation talk about how sexually restricted they were, compared with todays young people. And heaven forbid a return to Victorian hypocrisy...but we have never replaced it with anything halfway in between. As for most of the TV discussions they are abysmal. Only Tricia seems to get anywhere near.
We still have a nudge nudge seaside postcard attitude to sex, all page three but never any really open discussion..hence the highest rate of teenage pregnancy in Europe. Similarly with material values. We are better off now than we ever were..even the humblest home will have a washing machine and a fridge..luxuries are now essentials, central heating is the norm, but we don't appreciate it. Interestingly my Spanish friends are now commenting on the Spanish 'Nouveau Riche' who are adopting different values.I hope we don't end up like Christian Fletcher and the mutineers in the south seas. They thought they had found paradise, but introduced veneral disease, jealousy and murder. I hope we don't taint the Spanish ideals in a similar way.

pjj Feb 16th 2007 2:50 am

Re: Why do people continue to knock Britain on this forum ??
 

Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 4412076)
good post :)

i have no idea except to say they are immature people with small minds who cannot see the whole picture. if life was so good in their new country why are they spending time on a forum whinging, probably because they've always been whingers and always will be :p perhaps they couldn't make a success of life in the uk for whatever reason, who knows and really who gives a flying fu(k .....best solution poollounger don't reply to them nor open their threads, let them whinge away :D

WE ALL GOING TO HAVE BIG LAUGH ON THIS FORUM NOW ! IMMATURE WITH SMALL MINDS COULDNT MAKE SUCCESS OF THERE LIFE IN UK WHAT A LOAD OFF SHIT SAYS MR TRUE BRIT WHO LIVES IN HOUSTON TEXAS !

lcortez Feb 16th 2007 2:57 am

Re: Why do people continue to knock Britain on this forum ??
 
Totally agree with 'depends on how one defines rich',virtually all of the people I mentioned who are attempting to get rich are constantly comparing themselves to others,sand dont seem to have any real friends!Not a good way to be in my book!
For me wealth is defined by a good family,good friends,and a comfortable life.
This was shown to me in very stark terms when we had a family bereavemnt in the Madrid train bombings,and all of a sudden all the things I had collected about me meant absoloutly nothing,not a thing!
Dont really know about older values as only born in 1988!,but yes there doesnt really seem to be a lot of 'core values' about anymore.

pjj Feb 16th 2007 3:00 am

Re: Why do people continue to knock Britain on this forum ??
 

Originally Posted by Big_john (Post 4412175)
Why wouldn't you knock the YUK :thumbup: .....who would want to live there full stop, it's the biggest sh1thole left unless you go to Africa, but then there again you are in Africa when you are in the YUK.

I would never ever go back there to live for any reason, when I have to go back there to visit relatives I realise why I left, and I am glad I did many many years ago :thumbup:

Just look at the amount of crimes that are being comitted, and not just little things, just look at South London, it gets worse and worse street gangs black, white.
It is like going back since time immerorial, when we were all backward, and now it has all happened all over again, what is going wrong with the place :(

I cannot think of a worse place to live, :o .... compared to Spain we live in absolute paradise :thumbup:

Keep well clear of the YUK:thumbup:

SPOT ON BIG PETE GREAT QUOTE

Douglas jack Feb 16th 2007 3:10 am

Re: Why do people continue to knock Britain on this forum ??
 

Originally Posted by islandmom (Post 4412197)
its in the caribbean - tax free paradise!!

Why did you leave Scotland

helenp Feb 16th 2007 3:11 am

Re: Why do people continue to knock Britain on this forum ??
 

Originally Posted by Chiclanagir (Post 4412174)
I blame the UK press. All they want to do is stir things up creating negativity because that is what sells their papers. If it isn´t true - make it up because everyone will believe them. "It must be true I read it in the Daily Mail". So everyone gets on the band wagon. Bad things have always happened. I can remember 25 plus years ago a man going beserk with a gun and shooting a female casino operator and a police officer and that is in a quiet town in Devon.
I can also remember long dole queues and interest rates being at 15% and this wasn´t under the present government. I do miss the Uk in Spring though with all the daffodils and bluebells. I also miss the theatre, but, am looking forward to a long hot summer by the pool and on Barossa beach, and eating fresh langoustines washed down by copious amounts of vino with friends. Good and bad in most countries except perhaps North Korea.

Totally agree I try not to read the papers just depressing stuff, Spring in the UK is beautiful the smell of freshly cut grass. I will miss these things but life is an adventure.

Helen:)

leighbloke Feb 16th 2007 3:20 am

Re: Why do people continue to knock Britain on this forum ??
 

Originally Posted by Big_john (Post 4412175)
Why wouldn't you knock the YUK :thumbup: .....who would want to live there full stop, it's the biggest sh1thole left unless you go to Africa, but then there again you are in Africa when you are in the YUK.

I would never ever go back there to live for any reason, when I have to go back there to visit relatives I realise why I left, and I am glad I did many many years ago :thumbup:

Just look at the amount of crimes that are being comitted, and not just little things, just look at South London, it gets worse and worse street gangs black, white.
It is like going back since time immerorial, when we were all backward, and now it has all happened all over again, what is going wrong with the place :(

I cannot think of a worse place to live, :o .... compared to Spain we live in absolute paradise :thumbup:

Keep well clear of the YUK:thumbup:


I use the above as an example, it is not a specific reply to this post.


I am really struggling with all this. If you'd all have moved to some Utopian state with zero crime and love hanging from the trees I could accept some of your points. But you chose to move to one of the most corrupt countries in the developed world, with crime, immigration, prostitution etc at least on par with the UK.
If these are truly the reasons why you left the UK, why did you not research your destination?

Douglas jack Feb 16th 2007 3:28 am

Re: Why do people continue to knock Britain on this forum ??
 

Originally Posted by Big_john (Post 4412175)
Why wouldn't you knock the YUK :thumbup: .....who would want to live there full stop, it's the biggest sh1thole left unless you go to Africa, but then there again you are in Africa when you are in the YUK.

I would never ever go back there to live for any reason, when I have to go back there to visit relatives I realise why I left, and I am glad I did many many years ago :thumbup:

Just look at the amount of crimes that are being comitted, and not just little things, just look at South London, it gets worse and worse street gangs black, white.
It is like going back since time immerorial, when we were all backward, and now it has all happened all over again, what is going wrong with the place :(

I cannot think of a worse place to live, :o .... compared to Spain we live in absolute paradise :thumbup:

Keep well clear of the YUK:thumbup:

Street gangs in every big town,crime in every big town,not just in South east London,corruption world wide,if you cant stand the heat get out of the kitchen,running away from the problem wont make it go away,it will eventually follow you till it consumes you,must stand up and fight the cancer that has attacked us,you seem to have escaped,I too some times escape,but allways return,Iam Scottish but live in South east London,its worth fighting for.

poollounger Feb 16th 2007 3:37 am

Re: Why do people continue to knock Britain on this forum ??
 

Originally Posted by lcortez (Post 4412412)
Totally agree with 'depends on how one defines rich',virtually all of the people I mentioned who are attempting to get rich are constantly comparing themselves to others,sand dont seem to have any real friends!Not a good way to be in my book!
For me wealth is defined by a good family,good friends,and a comfortable life.
This was shown to me in very stark terms when we had a family bereavemnt in the Madrid train bombings,and all of a sudden all the things I had collected about me meant absoloutly nothing,not a thing!
Dont really know about older values as only born in 1988!,but yes there doesnt really seem to be a lot of 'core values' about anymore.

You have a very wise head for someone so young.. be interesting to hear where you got your values from. And you say there are core values missing. True. Universal truths. We can never have an equal society.. give everyone a million and in ten years time we will still have inequality. What we have to offer is equal opportunity. The die hards in South Africa always promoted apartheid as a separate development based on the Black African having a different way of life to the White African. However they never acknowledged the enormous disparity in terms of education and essential services between the two, and the fact that the luxurious lifestyles of the whites were acheived by the miserable existences of the blacks.
My great grand parents were working class squaddies who escaped their miserable working class poverty ridden uneducated lives by joining the army and going to India, where they were immediately elevated to a more comfortable life, although inherent with the risks of tropical disease, loneliness and isolation. I cannot help but see a parallell with the Brits who want to escape from their difficult lives to Spain in the hopes of achieving something similar. I don't place the retired folk in this category. My greatgrandparents did what they thought best, but one has to acknowledge that this was achieved only because they were removed from the bottom tier and placed on the one somewhere in the middle..ie at the expense of the native Indian. The way the expats are able to afford homes and pools beyond what they would be able to afford in Britain in many cases, and I INCLUDE MYSELF in this category. I never knew them, but I wonder if they spent time knocking the country they were forced to leave to better themselves ?? I know they were planning to return eventually in their seventies but died before they could make the jourmey.
To then spend time knocking this initial kick off that gave many of us the chance to live well is what instigated some of this thread. That's why it is so essential to ensure that we as incomers provide some benefits to the existing inhabitants. We use a caretaking service that employs Spanish people, use Spanish shops etc. I sometimes wonder if we need to stop thinking of borders and countries and think of sharing the planet as a whole. And take more responsibility for our lives and stop always blaming others for it's shortcomings.

crispy Feb 16th 2007 4:15 am

Re: Why do people continue to knock Britain on this forum ??
 

Originally Posted by islandmom (Post 4411827)

my biggest fear was that no matter how nicely we brought our kids up, because we couldnt afford private schooling they would have to go to the local school. There they could easily fall in with the wrong crowd - boozing, druggie, shoplifting etc etc ... anything we can do to try and keep them on the best track is the most important driving factor for us



I think you will find private schools have their fare share of boozing, drugs and shoplifting please do not get carried away with the idea they don't, you only have to look at Royalty and leading public figures to see that argument falls flat on it's face.

montgomail Feb 16th 2007 4:25 am

Re: Why do people continue to knock Britain on this forum ??
 

Originally Posted by leighbloke (Post 4412509)
I use the above as an example, it is not a specific reply to this post.


I am really struggling with all this. If you'd all have moved to some Utopian state with zero crime and love hanging from the trees I could accept some of your points. But you chose to move to one of the most corrupt countries in the developed world, with crime, immigration, prostitution etc at least on par with the UK.
If these are truly the reasons why you left the UK, why did you not research your destination?


Spot on.

I see and hear of little crime in the UK as I live in a village. However, that's not to say that it doesn't exist. The same applies to the area of Spain that I visit frequently. I too fail to understand the mentality of the "knock Britain brigade" when they have chosen to live in Spain.

Cape Blue Feb 16th 2007 5:39 am

Re: Why do people continue to knock Britain on this forum ??
 
Good thread Poollounger,

Britain seems to me to be a better place than its been for 40 years - wealthy, cosmopolitan, confident. The Daily Mail doomsayers really are a strange bunch, who seem to discount problems of the past and over-state current ones. Rubbish piling up in the streets, electricity going off, 4 day weeks, no jobs, limited opportunities, terrible inflation or interest rates, the joys of the 70's & 80's.

The idea that south London is worse than it used to be I find laughable really, remember the Brixton riots? The closest thing to riot in Brixton now is outside an estate agents windows in protest at the huge prices.

Even things like peoples access to credit etc is seen negatively - it was only 35 years ago that many poorer people couldn't get a mortgage and help pull themselves upwards, you had to borrow from the Council or one of very few building societies where they had wait list of years. Now, those at the bottom of the pile have more chances to move upwards and yet the papers lament how the irresponsible banks lend multiples that are too high.

Whilst I prefer the low-key attitude of the Brits (I live in the US at the moment and everything is "like totally awesome" even if it is just a toothbrush) it also seem to produce a rampant negativity and a tendency to see the bad side rather than the good.

I would recommend the Nationmaster website to anyone who wants to compare UK issues with those of other countries.


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