By biting you are becoming part of the act (performance). I just read your signature and think that maybe it could be extended to 'Courage is also what it takes to ignore and not react'.

Antagonistic people cannot bear to be ignored so a better result may be achieved by sitting back and not reacting.

Rosemary

I actually banned him for 1 week to cool off and told him to act in accordance with the rules when he returns, as every post I read he was winding people up, also the night before that i had missed as I felt fluey and had not been on much.
As has been said "dont feed the trolls" and we shold just leave it as that for the time being. regards jdr.

Right....... I would like to say i have just moved and have been waiting for bt to hook me up "the time they took jesus"

I have to say i am disgusted with the remarks from DJ you been to me a very bitter bully i was asking advise not attacks from you. I post on here for advice from some of the people i believe i can trust and who have helped me out when i have been so low and needed people who i believe can be honest and caring, However i will not keep going on about your insults as to me you are not important.
I would like to inform my friends that i did quit my job, even the agency said the company was badly managed i and 3 others (engineers) left in that week.

Mr N and i have started up again in road haulage and i work from our home office doing accounts getting business etc etc etc, we actually plan to expand and employ more drivers around june. So for me my decision was the correct one i can concentrate on earning my family money and building a better future for when we get to spain next time round.
Also i can be here for the children who believe it or not have been really good.

So i would just like to say thank you to all who have helped me through the rough and bad times and i send you all lots of love

Dougie's a top bloke, just can't speak English proper.

Yo, Miss N.
Not too surprised you jacked from your job, and good luck in road haulage - after the problems you had getting yourselves to Spain, forgive me if I don't put any business your way just yet!!!

As I said, good luck, and enjoy.

i will xxx

Hi Miss N

Good to read your posting that you are back on track Well done to both of you


I stopped reading this thread after page 4 because of the nasty postings which a certain person kept making. There is no call for nastiness and I hope he didn't upset you. You have bounced back despite what life recently threw at you and I can't see any reason why you can't ask your friends for advice just because you have returned from Spain. Keep posting

Glad you are back Miss N, hope all goes well for you with the new business

Thirded

Good luck with the new job, and thanks for letting us all know how you are getting on. : As for being attacked, then what can you say. I've been attacked many times on usenet by people who just didn't know better. All you can do is to decide NOT to see any of the posts by that person using the Ignore list from your profile, or to ignore them and just not read them.:curse:

Good Luck with the business.

If only more people thought like you and ignore the ignorant posters as they are only doing it to gain a reaction. If no one answered their posts they would soon give up as there would be no point in continuing.

Antagonists need someone to annoy so if they are ignored they have no recipient to annoy.

Rosemary

Hi again Miss Naughty

It's great to have you back on here again

Sounds like it's all good news from your end, and that you and hubby are working really hard for your girls.
Good on you!

Glad to hear you've moved into your own place now.
Much as family and friends are wonderful, it's always so much better to have your own space, isn't it?

The very best of luck to you with the business - I'm sure all will go well, because you're obviously a "go getter", and you and Mr N sound like a really good team

Please do keep us up to date with how things are going for you.
Have you see the new "Siesta time" sub forum?
It makes it easier to post more general chat items, and they don't have to be related to Spain.

Anyway, just wanted to say welcome back and glad that things are on the up for you.

Love Sam x

omg you are Jargoniser aren't you? :curse:

Hi Miss Naughty sorry your job didnt work out but it sounds like you're working through it.

I'm in a similar situation I love my new life in England but I hate my job really hate it I've been there for over 6 months now and the last couple of weeks have been really getting me down. So I'm looking for new work and we're also thinking of giving the decorating buisness a go as my OH isn't too keen on his job either.

take care and good luck with getting it all going again.

Hi,
Good luck with work and go for the business venture.
xxxxx