I am going to start a new and specific thread and pm you too if that is okay, I will do it tomorrow when i have sorted my very long list, thank you all so much for being so kind, I cant wait to begin our adventure :-) x

I've done it for you.

Look for a new thread - Moving to Spain with 4 children.

I've moved the relevant posts into it.

Best of luck - I am sure you will get lots of advice - some you will like and some you won't!

thank you :-) feeling even more positive now :-) x