Took your point...post gone. But surely he can keep a low profile by sending me a private message? I genuinely just don't want to employ another solicitor if he is already helping.

I am trying to sort out the horrendous mess following the sudden death of my father in an accident that we were informed was suspicious, having found diaries documenting his many death threats and belief he would be killed, his body having been left on a slab for 10 days while the embassy could not find us despite my name and address being on Dad's license, the ripping off by a solicitor who the Spanish Bar say they have no record of, the apparent stealing of money and possessions last month, by an English woman we trusted who said she would send Dad's things back but now does not reply, a marina who threatened to take us to court in the week we found out of Dad's death because he owed fees (we paid them two thousand with no evidence as we were grieving and not thinking straight, although I think Dad did owe them it was very bloody insensitive) the threats issued by my father's neighbour (with high connections) who has seriously damaged his house and quatered its value (by some reports intentionally), the fact that others tell us it is not as bad as some have reported and that the neighbours are trying to buy the house cheaply so mislead us, a new solicitor who has the keys to Dad's house and now doesn't reply to me and now....someone we thought would help who now refuses to tell me why he is ignoring me both privately and publically. It's almost worth believing in conspiracies...as my poor father did.

I respect his right to privacy believe it or not. I hate this. I liked him very much on the phone. He went out of his way. We felt confident he would help.

Please don't then insult me for trying to sort this out. I am coming to Spain next week with my family and HUSBAND (in case you think I would be so pathetic to use this as a dating attempt). I can't speak Spanish....I don't know where to turn.

You and your friend are not helping!

Fatal attraction? I don't find anything about this attractive and neither does my furious husband!

No comment? Not like you or him actually!!! You usually have so much to say about everything.