Go Back  British Expats > Living & Moving Abroad > Europe > Spain
Reload this Page >

Difficult decision: Melbourne or Barcelona

Wikiposts

Difficult decision: Melbourne or Barcelona

Thread Tools
 
Old Sep 2nd 2017 | 8:14 pm
  #1  
Thread Starter
Just Joined
 
Joined: Sep 2017
Posts: 4
melbbar is an unknown quantity at this point
Default Difficult decision: Melbourne or Barcelona

Hi All,

tomorrow I have quite an important decision to make and would like to have your views.

I am in my late thirties , not married , have been working in Berlin in the last three years (previously 4 in Melbourne) but I am now in the process of leaving the country cause I never got to terms with the depressing weather and the general coldness of the people.

I have had some jobs interviews and have now two good job offers, one in Barcelona and one in Melbourne. The decision is quite difficult cause the positive and negative sides of each option are comparable.

If I chose Melbourne offer, it would be going back to my previous employer , working on the same project but with a manager role and six figures salary $$$ so bringing my career forward. Melbourne is a city that I love , I have spend almost 4 years there and they were probably the best of my life.
Moreover by going back to Australia I could renew my PR Visa for another five years otherwise I would soon not qualify for a RRV and probably would break any future possibility to work and live in australia.
One downside is the fact that I could feel like going back to the past working for the same Project and another one is clearly the distance and soon or later I know I will feel the pull to come back to Europe and being closer to my family which considering my age and my wish to start a family could mess things up.


Barcelona offer would be a completely new job (different industry) in a big american multinational, doing something completely new is exciting but the role would not be a real progression.However the company is very big and I think I could move up quickly given the chance.
The salary would be much lower than Australia probably about half and even less than what I am earning now in germany. Barcelona is tempting as a city to live with sea (important for me) but I have only visited it for few days and never lived there before so not sure I would really like it. Good plus is closeness to europe and my family.

I know it always comes down to personal values but I would like to hear your opinions especially if you were in a similar situation or if you have ever lived in Spain.

Thanks,

R.
 
Old Sep 2nd 2017 | 9:01 pm
  #2  
Rosemary's Avatar
Moderator
 
Joined: Mar 2007
Posts: 15,149
From: Costa Valencia
Rosemary has a reputation beyond reputeRosemary has a reputation beyond reputeRosemary has a reputation beyond reputeRosemary has a reputation beyond reputeRosemary has a reputation beyond reputeRosemary has a reputation beyond reputeRosemary has a reputation beyond reputeRosemary has a reputation beyond reputeRosemary has a reputation beyond reputeRosemary has a reputation beyond reputeRosemary has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Difficult decision: Melbourne or Barcelona

Hi and a warm welcome to the Spanish forum on BE. Myself and Fred James are the moderators for the Spanish forums whilst BEVS moderates Europe. Moderators are there to ensure that the site runs smoothly within the rules of BE. This is so that members gain the information that they are looking for and find their experiences on the forums to be friendly and worthwhile.

Problems and complaints should always be addressed to a moderator who will look into the matter and deal with it efficiently and fairly. Our members who post in the Spain Forums are usually friendly and helpful with a wealth of knowledge about the issues of living in Spain. I hope that you enjoy your time participating in the forums.

Please let me know if you need any further help.

Rosemary
 
Old Sep 2nd 2017 | 10:05 pm
  #3  
Thread Starter
Just Joined
 
Joined: Sep 2017
Posts: 4
melbbar is an unknown quantity at this point
Default Re: Difficult decision: Melbourne or Barcelona

Originally Posted by Rosemary
Hi and a warm welcome to the Spanish forum on BE. Myself and Fred James are the moderators for the Spanish forums whilst BEVS moderates Europe. Moderators are there to ensure that the site runs smoothly within the rules of BE. This is so that members gain the information that they are looking for and find their experiences on the forums to be friendly and worthwhile.

Problems and complaints should always be addressed to a moderator who will look into the matter and deal with it efficiently and fairly. Our members who post in the Spain Forums are usually friendly and helpful with a wealth of knowledge about the issues of living in Spain. I hope that you enjoy your time participating in the forums.

Please let me know if you need any further help.

Rosemary
Thank you Rosemary.

R.
 
Old Sep 2nd 2017 | 10:06 pm
  #4  
Loafing Along's Avatar
BE Forum Addict
 
Joined: Jan 2016
Posts: 2,411
Loafing Along has a reputation beyond reputeLoafing Along has a reputation beyond reputeLoafing Along has a reputation beyond reputeLoafing Along has a reputation beyond reputeLoafing Along has a reputation beyond reputeLoafing Along has a reputation beyond reputeLoafing Along has a reputation beyond reputeLoafing Along has a reputation beyond reputeLoafing Along has a reputation beyond reputeLoafing Along has a reputation beyond reputeLoafing Along has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Difficult decision: Melbourne or Barcelona

Originally Posted by melbbar
Hi All,

tomorrow I have quite an important decision to make and would like to have your views.

I am in my late thirties , not married , have been working in Berlin in the last three years (previously 4 in Melbourne) but I am now in the process of leaving the country cause I never got to terms with the depressing weather and the general coldness of the people.

I have had some jobs interviews and have now two good job offers, one in Barcelona and one in Melbourne. The decision is quite difficult cause the positive and negative sides of each option are comparable.

If I chose Melbourne offer, it would be going back to my previous employer , working on the same project but with a manager role and six figures salary $$$ so bringing my career forward. Melbourne is a city that I love , I have spend almost 4 years there and they were probably the best of my life.
Moreover by going back to Australia I could renew my PR Visa for another five years otherwise I would soon not qualify for a RRV and probably would break any future possibility to work and live in australia.
One downside is the fact that I could feel like going back to the past working for the same Project and another one is clearly the distance and soon or later I know I will feel the pull to come back to Europe and being closer to my family which considering my age and my wish to start a family could mess things up.


Barcelona offer would be a completely new job (different industry) in a big american multinational, doing something completely new is exciting but the role would not be a real progression.However the company is very big and I think I could move up quickly given the chance.
The salary would be much lower than Australia probably about half and even less than what I am earning now in germany. Barcelona is tempting as a city to live with sea (important for me) but I have only visited it for few days and never lived there before so not sure I would really like it. Good plus is closeness to europe and my family.

I know it always comes down to personal values but I would like to hear your opinions especially if you were in a similar situation or if you have ever lived in Spain.

Thanks,

R.
Go to Melbourne. My son lives there, loves it. Left UK about 15 years ago for Oz, never looked back. Tough on parents as we get older as "its a long way!" but we ourselves realise had we gone when were younger Australia a great country to live in. By comparison Bracelona also a wonderful city but two issues - you will need Catalan and future opportunities more limited although unemployment rate not as bad as rest of Spain. On the horizon the independence issue, alos unsettling for regional economy.
 
Old Sep 2nd 2017 | 11:21 pm
  #5  
Forum Regular
 
Joined: Sep 2015
Posts: 170
KieronF has a reputation beyond reputeKieronF has a reputation beyond reputeKieronF has a reputation beyond reputeKieronF has a reputation beyond reputeKieronF has a reputation beyond reputeKieronF has a reputation beyond reputeKieronF has a reputation beyond reputeKieronF has a reputation beyond reputeKieronF has a reputation beyond reputeKieronF has a reputation beyond reputeKieronF has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Difficult decision: Melbourne or Barcelona

Nobody but you can make this decision, but unless you speak Catalan very well your social/career progression opportunities will be rather limited. Barcelona as a holiday destination and Barcelona as a place to live and work are two entirely different things. Not that it's worth anything, but my vote would be Melbourne - you know the industry, you know the city and the Australian culture is already familiar to you - earn the extra bucks and travel to Barcelona whenever you like.
 
Old Sep 3rd 2017 | 5:38 am
  #6  
Just Joined
 
Joined: Jun 2017
Posts: 28
SandraSP is an unknown quantity at this point
Default Re: Difficult decision: Melbourne or Barcelona

I'm out oving to Spain from Manhattan (am a UK/US dual citizen). The reason I'm relocating are many...good weather year round, much closer to UK family, cheaper living, year round ability to play sports (tennis/golf). Also having so many other European cities on your doorstep. These are important to me, so just thought I'd pass this on so you can have a complete stranger provide her perspective. Good luck with whatever you decide.
 
Old Sep 3rd 2017 | 7:36 am
  #7  
BE Enthusiast
 
Joined: Jun 2005
Posts: 451
dfjordan has a reputation beyond reputedfjordan has a reputation beyond reputedfjordan has a reputation beyond reputedfjordan has a reputation beyond reputedfjordan has a reputation beyond reputedfjordan has a reputation beyond reputedfjordan has a reputation beyond reputedfjordan has a reputation beyond reputedfjordan has a reputation beyond reputedfjordan has a reputation beyond reputedfjordan has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Difficult decision: Melbourne or Barcelona

I think if you read carefully your descriptions of both places, you will see that you already know which place to choose, and just need some back up. Like others, I would recommend Melbourne, for all the reasons you mention. I lived in Barcelona for about a year, some years ago. It was OK, but nothing more. Dont forget that the two places mentioned have very different cultures; Melbourne , as you know, is a culture easy to slip into , whereas Barcelona is not, unless you are Catalan.
 
Old Sep 3rd 2017 | 7:03 pm
  #8  
Lost in BE Cyberspace
 
Joined: Feb 2013
Posts: 6,255
Moses2013 has a reputation beyond reputeMoses2013 has a reputation beyond reputeMoses2013 has a reputation beyond reputeMoses2013 has a reputation beyond reputeMoses2013 has a reputation beyond reputeMoses2013 has a reputation beyond reputeMoses2013 has a reputation beyond reputeMoses2013 has a reputation beyond reputeMoses2013 has a reputation beyond reputeMoses2013 has a reputation beyond reputeMoses2013 has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Difficult decision: Melbourne or Barcelona

Originally Posted by melbbar
Hi All,

tomorrow I have quite an important decision to make and would like to have your views.

I am in my late thirties , not married , have been working in Berlin in the last three years (previously 4 in Melbourne) but I am now in the process of leaving the country cause I never got to terms with the depressing weather and the general coldness of the people.

I have had some jobs interviews and have now two good job offers, one in Barcelona and one in Melbourne. The decision is quite difficult cause the positive and negative sides of each option are comparable.

If I chose Melbourne offer, it would be going back to my previous employer , working on the same project but with a manager role and six figures salary $$$ so bringing my career forward. Melbourne is a city that I love , I have spend almost 4 years there and they were probably the best of my life.
Moreover by going back to Australia I could renew my PR Visa for another five years otherwise I would soon not qualify for a RRV and probably would break any future possibility to work and live in australia.
One downside is the fact that I could feel like going back to the past working for the same Project and another one is clearly the distance and soon or later I know I will feel the pull to come back to Europe and being closer to my family which considering my age and my wish to start a family could mess things up.


Barcelona offer would be a completely new job (different industry) in a big american multinational, doing something completely new is exciting but the role would not be a real progression.However the company is very big and I think I could move up quickly given the chance.
The salary would be much lower than Australia probably about half and even less than what I am earning now in germany. Barcelona is tempting as a city to live with sea (important for me) but I have only visited it for few days and never lived there before so not sure I would really like it. Good plus is closeness to europe and my family.

I know it always comes down to personal values but I would like to hear your opinions especially if you were in a similar situation or if you have ever lived in Spain.

Thanks,

R.
Regarding Catalan I wouldn't agree with others. Yes it's important for some lines of business but if you are working for multinationals languages like English/German/French will give you more advantages. You can still learn Catalan along the way and many companies offer free lessons for employees.


Biggest problem of course is that salaries in Barcelona are low compared to other European Cities and living costs/housing is expensive. I couldn't live in Barcelona myself and much prefer the Wild Coast further North but I can understand why many people love the city. Then again Melbourne can be a struggle too, even with a high salary. It sounds like the next move will not be your last anyway and just depends what you personally like. You haven't even reached half of your working life and it doesn't sound like you'd settle in Melbourne either (due to family).
 
Old Sep 3rd 2017 | 9:57 pm
  #9  
missile's Avatar
Started off with nothing
 
Joined: Feb 2009
Posts: 4,987
missile has a reputation beyond reputemissile has a reputation beyond reputemissile has a reputation beyond reputemissile has a reputation beyond reputemissile has a reputation beyond reputemissile has a reputation beyond reputemissile has a reputation beyond reputemissile has a reputation beyond reputemissile has a reputation beyond reputemissile has a reputation beyond reputemissile has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Difficult decision: Melbourne or Barcelona

Do you prefer Spanish or Australian life / work balance?
Go wherever you will feel happiest.
 
Old Sep 7th 2017 | 7:30 pm
  #10  
spouse of scouse's Avatar
Concierge
 
Joined: Jan 2013
Posts: 21,654
From: Western Australia
spouse of scouse has a reputation beyond reputespouse of scouse has a reputation beyond reputespouse of scouse has a reputation beyond reputespouse of scouse has a reputation beyond reputespouse of scouse has a reputation beyond reputespouse of scouse has a reputation beyond reputespouse of scouse has a reputation beyond reputespouse of scouse has a reputation beyond reputespouse of scouse has a reputation beyond reputespouse of scouse has a reputation beyond reputespouse of scouse has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Difficult decision: Melbourne or Barcelona

According to the OP's post he/she made their decision days ago. Would be nice if they popped back to their threads here and on the Oz forum and told all the people who kindly offered their thoughts which city 'won'.
 
Old Sep 8th 2017 | 2:08 am
  #11  
chrisjolly's Avatar
BE Enthusiast
 
Joined: Feb 2010
Posts: 843
chrisjolly has a reputation beyond reputechrisjolly has a reputation beyond reputechrisjolly has a reputation beyond reputechrisjolly has a reputation beyond reputechrisjolly has a reputation beyond reputechrisjolly has a reputation beyond reputechrisjolly has a reputation beyond reputechrisjolly has a reputation beyond reputechrisjolly has a reputation beyond reputechrisjolly has a reputation beyond reputechrisjolly has a reputation beyond repute
Smile Re: Difficult decision: Melbourne or Barcelona

Originally Posted by melbbar
Hi All,

tomorrow I have quite an important decision to make and would like to have your views.

I am in my late thirties , not married , have been working in Berlin in the last three years (previously 4 in Melbourne) but I am now in the process of leaving the country cause I never got to terms with the depressing weather and the general coldness of the people.

I have had some jobs interviews and have now two good job offers, one in Barcelona and one in Melbourne. The decision is quite difficult cause the positive and negative sides of each option are comparable.

If I chose Melbourne offer, it would be going back to my previous employer , working on the same project but with a manager role and six figures salary $$$ so bringing my career forward. Melbourne is a city that I love , I have spend almost 4 years there and they were probably the best of my life.
Moreover by going back to Australia I could renew my PR Visa for another five years otherwise I would soon not qualify for a RRV and probably would break any future possibility to work and live in australia.
One downside is the fact that I could feel like going back to the past working for the same Project and another one is clearly the distance and soon or later I know I will feel the pull to come back to Europe and being closer to my family which considering my age and my wish to start a family could mess things up.


Barcelona offer would be a completely new job (different industry) in a big american multinational, doing something completely new is exciting but the role would not be a real progression.However the company is very big and I think I could move up quickly given the chance.
The salary would be much lower than Australia probably about half and even less than what I am earning now in germany. Barcelona is tempting as a city to live with sea (important for me) but I have only visited it for few days and never lived there before so not sure I would really like it. Good plus is closeness to europe and my family.

I know it always comes down to personal values but I would like to hear your opinions especially if you were in a similar situation or if you have ever lived in Spain.

Thanks,

R.
At your age Melbourne for sure..the only proviso is family connections.
Good luck..
 
Old Sep 9th 2017 | 5:19 pm
  #12  
Just Joined
 
Joined: Sep 2016
Posts: 13
From: Australia
Fluffer is an unknown quantity at this point
Default Re: Difficult decision: Melbourne or Barcelona

I was born UK, lived (and worked) in OZ for 40+ plus years and now retiring to southern Spain. On balance I reckon I have got things in the right order but either way there will always be pro's and con's. Good luck or buena suerte whichever you prefer.....
 

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



Contact Us - Archive - Advertising - Cookie Policy - Privacy Statement - Terms of Service - Your Privacy Choices

Copyright © 2026 MH Sub I, LLC dba Internet Brands. All rights reserved. Use of this site indicates your consent to the Terms of Use.