Who was your first?

Old Jan 30th 2018, 5:28 am
  #1  
BE Forum Addict
Thread Starter
 
Joined: Jan 2015
Posts: 3,266
DXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond repute
Default Who was your first?

A comment from Miss Anne had me thinking.

Who was your first and how did it happen? No need to be too specific (keep it workplace safe).
DXBtoDOH is offline  
Old Jan 30th 2018, 7:17 am
  #2  
WWLLCJD?
 
Scamp's Avatar
 
Joined: Feb 2011
Location: Dubai
Posts: 23,532
Scamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Who was your first?

Who was yours?
Scamp is online now  
Old Jan 30th 2018, 7:18 am
  #3  
Millhouse is not a meme
 
Millhouse's Avatar
 
Joined: Aug 2009
Location: Disneyland, Dubai
Posts: 15,164
Millhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Who was your first?

Originally Posted by Scamp View Post
Who was yours?
Or what
Millhouse is offline  
Old Jan 30th 2018, 7:20 am
  #4  
Knee deep and rising
 
weasel decentral's Avatar
 
Joined: Sep 2011
Posts: 2,853
weasel decentral has a reputation beyond reputeweasel decentral has a reputation beyond reputeweasel decentral has a reputation beyond reputeweasel decentral has a reputation beyond reputeweasel decentral has a reputation beyond reputeweasel decentral has a reputation beyond reputeweasel decentral has a reputation beyond reputeweasel decentral has a reputation beyond reputeweasel decentral has a reputation beyond reputeweasel decentral has a reputation beyond reputeweasel decentral has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Who was your first?

I think it was your mom if i recall correctly, or your sister. Or maybe both together Anyhow your dad has the video of it so just check with him
weasel decentral is online now  
Old Jan 30th 2018, 7:22 am
  #5  
WWLLCJD?
 
Scamp's Avatar
 
Joined: Feb 2011
Location: Dubai
Posts: 23,532
Scamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Who was your first?

Originally Posted by Millhouse View Post
Or what
That made me chuckle.

But I'm curious as to whether it was man or woman. Guess it depends when someone knows their preference for sure. I wonder how many gay people have had straight relationships first compared to those who just know their preference from when preferences become a thing in those teenage years.
Scamp is online now  
Old Jan 30th 2018, 7:32 am
  #6  
Excess Baggage
 
littlejimmy's Avatar
 
Joined: Jul 2006
Location: UK
Posts: 5,479
littlejimmy has a reputation beyond reputelittlejimmy has a reputation beyond reputelittlejimmy has a reputation beyond reputelittlejimmy has a reputation beyond reputelittlejimmy has a reputation beyond reputelittlejimmy has a reputation beyond reputelittlejimmy has a reputation beyond reputelittlejimmy has a reputation beyond reputelittlejimmy has a reputation beyond reputelittlejimmy has a reputation beyond reputelittlejimmy has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Who was your first?

Originally Posted by Scamp View Post
That made me chuckle.

But I'm curious as to whether it was man or woman. Guess it depends when someone knows their preference for sure. I wonder how many gay people have had straight relationships first compared to those who just know their preference from when preferences become a thing in those teenage years.
Or if they went to boarding school in the early 1980s...
littlejimmy is offline  
Old Jan 30th 2018, 7:40 am
  #7  
BE Forum Addict
Thread Starter
 
Joined: Jan 2015
Posts: 3,266
DXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Who was your first?

Originally Posted by weasel decentral View Post
I think it was your mom if i recall correctly, or your sister
You don't know me well, do you
DXBtoDOH is offline  
Old Jan 30th 2018, 7:50 am
  #8  
BE Forum Addict
Thread Starter
 
Joined: Jan 2015
Posts: 3,266
DXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Who was your first?

Originally Posted by Scamp View Post
That made me chuckle.
I wonder how many gay people have had straight relationships first compared to those who just know their preference from when preferences become a thing in those teenage years.
Both happen. Quite a few started out with the opposite gender due to societal pressures and denial (or confusion stemming from societal pressures). But far less likely these days as it is decidedly a much more open (and theoretically tolerant) world.
DXBtoDOH is offline  
Old Jan 30th 2018, 8:50 am
  #9  
WWLLCJD?
 
Scamp's Avatar
 
Joined: Feb 2011
Location: Dubai
Posts: 23,532
Scamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond reputeScamp has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Who was your first?

Originally Posted by DXBtoDOH View Post
Both happen. Quite a few started out with the opposite gender due to societal pressures and denial (or confusion stemming from societal pressures). But far less likely these days as it is decidedly a much more open (and theoretically tolerant) world.
That's what I'd have guessed. Lots of people starting with the opposite because of pressure but much less pressure today (or much more inclusiveness / acceptance today, depends which way you look at it).

Anyway.

Mine was a girlfriend at college when I was 16.

Who was yours?
Scamp is online now  
Old Jan 30th 2018, 8:51 am
  #10  
BE Forum Addict
 
mission's Avatar
 
Joined: Jul 2008
Location: Dubai
Posts: 2,839
mission has a reputation beyond reputemission has a reputation beyond reputemission has a reputation beyond reputemission has a reputation beyond reputemission has a reputation beyond reputemission has a reputation beyond reputemission has a reputation beyond reputemission has a reputation beyond reputemission has a reputation beyond reputemission has a reputation beyond reputemission has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Who was your first?

Originally Posted by Millhouse View Post
Or what
mission is offline  
Old Jan 30th 2018, 8:59 am
  #11  
BE Forum Addict
Thread Starter
 
Joined: Jan 2015
Posts: 3,266
DXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Who was your first?

Originally Posted by Scamp View Post
That's what I'd have guessed. Lots of people starting with the opposite because of pressure but much less pressure today (or much more inclusiveness / acceptance today, depends which way you look at it).

Anyway.

Mine was a girlfriend at college when I was 16.

Who was yours?
The first I ever kissed was a girl at university. First year. First week, actually.

Then she invited me to her rooms and that's when I panicked and came up with some cockamamie story about needing to be somewhere to help a mate.

A week later at a party, a third year eyed me and said you're coming back to my college. I said I suppose I am. And I never looked back.
DXBtoDOH is offline  
Old Jan 30th 2018, 9:09 am
  #12  
Millhouse is not a meme
 
Millhouse's Avatar
 
Joined: Aug 2009
Location: Disneyland, Dubai
Posts: 15,164
Millhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Who was your first?

Originally Posted by DXBtoDOH View Post
A week later at a party, a third year eyed me and said you're coming back to my college. I said I suppose I am. And I never looked back.
I'm guessing it wasn't Newnham
Millhouse is offline  
Old Jan 30th 2018, 9:15 am
  #13  
BE Forum Addict
Thread Starter
 
Joined: Jan 2015
Posts: 3,266
DXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Who was your first?

Originally Posted by Millhouse View Post
I'm guessing it wasn't Newnham
DXBtoDOH is offline  
Old Jan 30th 2018, 9:54 am
  #14  
Millhouse is not a meme
 
Millhouse's Avatar
 
Joined: Aug 2009
Location: Disneyland, Dubai
Posts: 15,164
Millhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond reputeMillhouse has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Who was your first?

My first was also at college, although unlike DXB's it was at Newnham. Fairly unrememberable for both parties. The savage shit came later for me.
Millhouse is offline  
Old Jan 30th 2018, 10:16 am
  #15  
BE Forum Addict
Thread Starter
 
Joined: Jan 2015
Posts: 3,266
DXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond reputeDXBtoDOH has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Who was your first?

Has anyone kept track of former lovers to see what they're up to these days? FB is a huge help. So is LinkedIn.
DXBtoDOH is offline  

Contact Us - Archive - Advertising - Cookie Policy - Privacy Statement - Terms of Service - Do Not Sell My Personal Information

Copyright © 2018 MH Sub I, LLC dba Internet Brands. All rights reserved. Use of this site indicates your consent to the Terms of Use.