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Old Mar 15th 2010, 4:41 pm
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Originally Posted by MataHari
well, the father of the boy has just called us to say he's going to the police...and his son is no longer allowed to speak to my son...
Yep - typical of a lot of people in this country.....acting like 5 yr olds running off to tell on others.

Do the police really need to get involved in this sh.ite

If I insult a (person of certain nationality) he runs off to the police like a f'n cry-baby.....FFS....
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Old Mar 15th 2010, 6:23 pm
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Originally Posted by MataHari
me too...but is it worth the risk...not too keen on this getting out of hand, but on the other hand it would kill me having to get a new phone now just to stop this whole situation...I really have no idea what to do.
If it was me, I'd stand my ground as much as I could, and if the police order you to buy one, then I guess you have to.
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MH, I really don't think the police will be bothered about something like this..they are not a local family so I would stand your ground darling xxx
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Originally Posted by MataHari
me too...but is it worth the risk...not too keen on this getting out of hand, but on the other hand it would kill me having to get a new phone now just to stop this whole situation...I really have no idea what to do.
In my logic, the analogy would be as follows:
- The boy brought in a forbidden item into school. In this case, it's a phone. What if he brought in a knife (Swiss Army, and not the butcher type), or a pocket TV, (insert item not used at schools). A forbidden item is a forbidden item. Would anyone, let alone the Police, interfere if that were the case.
Had the incident happened on the street, or in a mall, then the whole circumstance change to their favour.

You have leverage in terms of the principle related to the incident.


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I reckon he's bluffing! And even if he isn't he is more than likely to be told to go away by the police.

Your other option would be to turn this around so that he's the one feeling the squeeze. Most people would not choose this option as it isn't really what you would call honest, but it's funny what a couple of phone calls to the authorities can achieve. Obviously you can have nothing to do with said calls...
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Old Mar 16th 2010, 2:54 am
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the police called last night and mr MH is going to the station at 10...so he obviously wasn't bluffing...
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Originally Posted by MataHari
the police called last night and mr MH is going to the station at 10...so he obviously wasn't bluffing...
Go with him. Tell him not to back down an inch - when the police hear your version, they'll be fine.
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This afternoon we'll be talking about finding a school in Holland for MH's DS, who will surely be deported...

As much as logic sides with you and with MH, this is not a logical land...

Originally Posted by The Dean
Go with him. Tell him not to back down an inch - when the police hear your version, they'll be fine.
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Originally Posted by MataHari
the police called last night and mr MH is going to the station at 10...so he obviously wasn't bluffing...
keep us posted! Take someone with you who can speak arabic... preferably an emirati.
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Old Mar 16th 2010, 5:20 am
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Originally Posted by EmiratesMillhouse
keep us posted! Take someone with you who can speak arabic... preferably an emirati.
mr MHs PRO is coming with him, so that's covered...
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Old Mar 16th 2010, 5:26 am
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I defo think you should go too darling xxx
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Originally Posted by DesertOcean
lovely...just amazing what some people will do for money
You are presumably aware of the British couple sent to prison for kissing in a restaurant. The case was simply the result of an Emirati woman getting offended. I also know of a Swedish guy who was deported for not allowing an Emirati to push in at a queue at the airport. Life is not fair but we have to act accordingly. Surely its the same in Riyadh.
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Originally Posted by lionheart
You are presumably aware of the British couple sent to prison for kissing in a restaurant. The case was simply the result of an Emirati woman getting offended. I also know of a Swedish guy who was deported for not allowing an Emirati to push in at a queue at the airport. Life is not fair but we have to act accordingly. Surely its the same in Riyadh.
But this family are not emirati.
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Old Mar 16th 2010, 5:39 am
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IMHO there can't possibly be any point in taking this any further than what the initial advice / ruling of the police is...life is just too short and time too precious to waste time on what, in effect, is an insignificant event. YOU have control: don't LET this become significant. If you end up losing, pay up and be on your way--nobody ever said life was meant to be fair.

Don't sweat the small stuff. You'll look back at this in 5 years' time and think, "Yeah, we had a bit of trouble about a broken phone and some areshole, but it was no big deal...".

Good luck, though!
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Old Mar 16th 2010, 5:42 am
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Originally Posted by Patsy Stoned
But this family are not emirati.
I was simply responding to an earlier point raised by Desert Ocean, who seems to think that, if it had been an Emirati family, MH should have told them to bugger off.
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