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Old Oct 9th 2009, 3:43 pm
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...so, can you ever be 100% "happily married"...but have a no strings attached affair with someone whom you love completely and utterly too...? ie, an affair with someone where neither of you want to leave the spouse for, but you're both totally obsessed with each other...

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Old Oct 9th 2009, 4:17 pm
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Yup. 'Happily married' does not mean you are 100pc fulfilled in all departments
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Yup. 'Happily married' does not mean you are 100pc fulfilled in all departments
even if the sex side of the marriage is good, and everything else seems ok...?

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...so, can you ever be 100% "happily married"...but have a no strings attached affair with someone whom you love completely and utterly too...? ie, an affair with someone where neither of you want to leave the spouse for, but you're both totally obsessed with each other...

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Both lovers are married? Do either of their spouses know about the affair?
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So Conf finally gave in to your advances?
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Both lovers are married? Do either of their spouses know about the affair?
yes both are married...and no, neither spouse knows about the affair...

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yes both are married...and no, neither spouse knows about the affair...

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The question to ask is....... how would the spouse react if he/she found out?

Would he/she simply be furious, feel betrayed and demand a divorce, etc? Or would it totally destroy him/her psychologically and emotionally, leaving him/her with a sense of bewildered hopelessness, no sense of life ever being worth living again, perhaps even suicidal............? (I'm not kidding)

If the person having the affair would not wish to cause that sort of reaction, it might be better to quit while he/she is ahead, and put the fling down to a happy if somewhat truncated memory..............

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...so, can you ever be 100% "happily married"...but have a no strings attached affair with someone whom you love completely and utterly too...? ie, an affair with someone where neither of you want to leave the spouse for, but you're both totally obsessed with each other...

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Happens all the time ....its called human nature and the forbidden fruit

look at Bruno and Olive Oyl
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Happens all the time ....its called human nature and the forbidden fruit

look at Bruno and Olive Oyl
She had Bluto and Bruno?
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She had Bluto and Bruno?
The slut ....
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...so, can you ever be 100% "happily married"...but have a no strings attached affair with someone whom you love completely and utterly too...? ie, an affair with someone where neither of you want to leave the spouse for, but you're both totally obsessed with each other...

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Continue until the end of the book and you'll find the answer...

I think the butler did it...
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So Conf finally gave in to your advances?
I told her not to wash my dirty laundry in public...
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I told her not to wash my dirty laundry in public...
Especially your wank sock
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Originally Posted by Confucius View Post
Continue until the end of the book and you'll find the answer...

I think the butler did it...
well not quite a book...but i'll get the answer as the corrie storyline moves on...i reckon it's gonna end in tears...

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well not quite a book...but i'll get the answer as the corrie storyline moves on...i reckon it's gonna end in tears...

MM, xx
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