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Madam Medusa Oct 9th 2009 3:43 pm

torn between two lovers...
 
...so, can you ever be 100% "happily married"...but have a no strings attached affair with someone whom you love completely and utterly too...? ie, an affair with someone where neither of you want to leave the spouse for, but you're both totally obsessed with each other...

MM, xx

commander Oct 9th 2009 4:17 pm

Re: torn between two lovers...
 
Yup. 'Happily married' does not mean you are 100pc fulfilled in all departments

Madam Medusa Oct 9th 2009 4:25 pm

Re: torn between two lovers...
 

Originally Posted by commander (Post 8003839)
Yup. 'Happily married' does not mean you are 100pc fulfilled in all departments

even if the sex side of the marriage is good, and everything else seems ok...?

MM, xx

The Dean Oct 9th 2009 4:34 pm

Re: torn between two lovers...
 

Originally Posted by Madam Medusa (Post 8003756)
...so, can you ever be 100% "happily married"...but have a no strings attached affair with someone whom you love completely and utterly too...? ie, an affair with someone where neither of you want to leave the spouse for, but you're both totally obsessed with each other...

MM, xx

Both lovers are married? Do either of their spouses know about the affair?

commander Oct 9th 2009 4:38 pm

Re: torn between two lovers...
 
So Conf finally gave in to your advances?

Madam Medusa Oct 9th 2009 4:41 pm

Re: torn between two lovers...
 

Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 8003884)
Both lovers are married? Do either of their spouses know about the affair?

yes both are married...and no, neither spouse knows about the affair...

MM, xx

The Dean Oct 9th 2009 5:05 pm

Re: torn between two lovers...
 

Originally Posted by Madam Medusa (Post 8003907)
yes both are married...and no, neither spouse knows about the affair...

MM, xx

The question to ask is....... how would the spouse react if he/she found out?

Would he/she simply be furious, feel betrayed and demand a divorce, etc? Or would it totally destroy him/her psychologically and emotionally, leaving him/her with a sense of bewildered hopelessness, no sense of life ever being worth living again, perhaps even suicidal............? (I'm not kidding)

If the person having the affair would not wish to cause that sort of reaction, it might be better to quit while he/she is ahead, and put the fling down to a happy if somewhat truncated memory..............

How am I doing?

Ray Oct 9th 2009 5:55 pm

Re: torn between two lovers...
 

Originally Posted by Madam Medusa (Post 8003756)
...so, can you ever be 100% "happily married"...but have a no strings attached affair with someone whom you love completely and utterly too...? ie, an affair with someone where neither of you want to leave the spouse for, but you're both totally obsessed with each other...

MM, xx

Happens all the time ....its called human nature and the forbidden fruit

look at Bruno and Olive Oyl

Sally Redux Oct 9th 2009 5:59 pm

Re: torn between two lovers...
 

Originally Posted by Ray (Post 8004058)
Happens all the time ....its called human nature and the forbidden fruit

look at Bruno and Olive Oyl

She had Bluto and Bruno? :eek:

Ray Oct 9th 2009 6:05 pm

Re: torn between two lovers...
 

Originally Posted by Sally Redux (Post 8004075)
She had Bluto and Bruno? :eek:

The slut ....

Confucius Oct 9th 2009 7:32 pm

Re: torn between two lovers...
 

Originally Posted by Madam Medusa (Post 8003756)
...so, can you ever be 100% "happily married"...but have a no strings attached affair with someone whom you love completely and utterly too...? ie, an affair with someone where neither of you want to leave the spouse for, but you're both totally obsessed with each other...

MM, xx

Continue until the end of the book and you'll find the answer...

I think the butler did it...

Confucius Oct 9th 2009 7:33 pm

Re: torn between two lovers...
 

Originally Posted by commander (Post 8003893)
So Conf finally gave in to your advances?

I told her not to wash my dirty laundry in public...

commander Oct 10th 2009 1:50 am

Re: torn between two lovers...
 

Originally Posted by Confucius (Post 8004309)
I told her not to wash my dirty laundry in public...

Especially your wank sock

Madam Medusa Oct 10th 2009 3:18 am

Re: torn between two lovers...
 

Originally Posted by Confucius (Post 8004307)
Continue until the end of the book and you'll find the answer...

I think the butler did it...

well not quite a book...but i'll get the answer as the corrie storyline moves on...i reckon it's gonna end in tears...

MM, xx

Blue Cat Oct 10th 2009 4:17 am

Re: torn between two lovers...
 

Originally Posted by Madam Medusa (Post 8005234)
well not quite a book...but i'll get the answer as the corrie storyline moves on...i reckon it's gonna end in tears...

MM, xx

Kevin!!


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