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Mar 11th 2014 | 1:52 am

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cheeky_monkey

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Re: Unsure what to do next!

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Originally Posted by rugbymum

Has anyone else on this forum had similar experiences, what did you do? How did you overcome it? (if you were able to). We had always planned to review our experience after 2 years, now its over 3. I would fly home tomorrow if I could, but it would be without my husband which is also not what I want. I want the whole family to be happy but I just can't see how I can ever achieve this. Has anyone else brought a reluctant spouse home
or left one behind. I just want to know if anyone else has faced this dilemma?

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My experience is similar to yours except in my case i was the husband you can read my thread on here somewhere...my advice from bitter experience is to throw all your cards on the table tell your husband in no uncertain terms how you feel..otherwise your relationship is only heading one way which is ultimately separation and divorce esp if you leave your husband behind even if you think that is a temporary solution.