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Mummy in the foothills Oct 13th 2011 3:36 pm

Re: Article about unhappy Britain
 

Originally Posted by Returnee (Post 9673944)
I think many young people are drinking themselves silly by buying cheap booze from supermarkets. In fact some publicans blame the cheap booze available in supermarkets as part of the reason pubs are going out of business. The phrase 'binge drinking' is another phrase that I had never heard of when I lived in England; along with ASBO (Anti-social Behaviour Disorder).

You must have lived in a very sheltered place in UK not to notice the binge drinkers. I've been here (US) since the 80'S. I trained as a nurse in the UK and Saturday nights at the A&E were always busy, full of drunks who had drunk themselves into unconsciousness and the police who wanted to arrest them for fights and whatever else they'd been up to.
Our house was on a council estate and the local was full of binge drinkers vomiting their way home and falling over hedges. We just called them a bunch of drunks, same people different title. Come Monday morning most of them had sobered up enough to get on the bus to work.

chris955 Oct 13th 2011 3:42 pm

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I think a lot of comes down to what you choose to remember, as I said it makes me laugh when people say 'the UK has changed so much', no shit Sherlock, what country hasn't ? We like to look back 10 or 20 years and see sweetness and light and that contrasts starkly with the current Daily Mail doom and gloom. I have lived in England when there was much higher unemployment and always had a job as did all my friends. I have lived through recessions here and in England and never starved or became a victim of crime.
It is human nature to look back with rose coloured glasses but really the social ills today were the social ills back then too.

Sally Redux Oct 13th 2011 3:47 pm

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Originally Posted by chris955 (Post 9674042)
I think a lot of comes down to what you choose to remember, as I said it makes me laugh when people say 'the UK has changed so much', no shit Sherlock, what country hasn't ? We like to look back 10 or 20 years and see sweetness and light and that contrasts starkly with the current Daily Mail doom and gloom. I have lived in England when there was much higher unemployment and always had a job as did all my friends. I have lived through recessions here and in England and never starved or became a victim of crime.
It is human nature to look back with rose coloured glasses but really the social ills today were the social ills back then too.

Some things have changed, like more variety in restaurants, but many seem very similar. This summer I went back to where I grew up, it was hardly any different. I have no idea why Brits want to talk everything down.

chris955 Oct 13th 2011 4:00 pm

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I don't know why it is to be honest, they almost like to be seen as underdogs or downtrodden. While I hate the back slapping and self congratulation we see in America and here in Australia I would like to see something in between.


Originally Posted by Sally Redux (Post 9674046)
Some things have changed, like more variety in restaurants, but many seem very similar. This summer I went back to where I grew up, it was hardly any different. I have no idea why Brits want to talk everything down.


bandrui Oct 13th 2011 4:56 pm

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Originally Posted by Returnee (Post 9673921)
If I were moving back to Britain in the near future I would be somewhat worried. As I mentioned before, for some, it might be like jumping out of a frying pan into a fire. The financial and social upheavals going on in the U.K. at the moment are pretty worrying in many areas of society. Even pubs are getting hit. Apparently, two pubs, on average, are closing down every day. :frown:

If you focus on the exaggerated negatives in the papers and get all worked up about it, you are playing into the hands of the media who, worldwide, are about causing fear in the masses because fear is the easiest way to control people.

Behind all the media in the US are 5 major corporations; in the 70s this was 50 companies. You can be sure there is a similar trend in the UK. In fact, the 5 corporations also own some of the UK papers. They have their agenda and making you happy is not on the list.

How about giving the media a miss and talking with real people. ;)

Returnee Oct 13th 2011 10:48 pm

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Originally Posted by Mummy in the foothills (Post 9674035)
You must have lived in a very sheltered place in UK not to notice the binge drinkers. I've been here (US) since the 80'S. I trained as a nurse in the UK and Saturday nights at the A&E were always busy, full of drunks who had drunk themselves into unconsciousness and the police who wanted to arrest them for fights and whatever else they'd been up to.
Our house was on a council estate and the local was full of binge drinkers vomiting their way home and falling over hedges. We just called them a bunch of drunks, same people different title. Come Monday morning most of them had sobered up enough to get on the bus to work.

The number of people admitted to hospital for alcohol related problems has doubled in the last ten years. Alchol related liver disease has trebled.

Grayling Oct 13th 2011 11:20 pm

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Originally Posted by Returnee (Post 9674344)
The number of people admitted to hospital for alcohol related problems has doubled in the last ten years. Alchol related liver disease has trebled.

...and it has increased in most countries...including Japan.

What is your point?...or is this just another 'bad news' story from you?

sallysimmons Oct 14th 2011 12:02 am

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I think the increase in alcohol-related illness is not what some think. There were always drunk kids in England throwing up in the town center, but normal everyday middle class folks didn't always drink wine with dinner the way they do now. I bet digging into those stats would show that the alcohol-related illness is not because of the hoodies Returnee imagines are worse now than they ever were, but because older people are finding themselves ill after decades of sipping wine with dinner.


Originally Posted by Mummy in the foothills (Post 9674035)
You must have lived in a very sheltered place in UK not to notice the binge drinkers. I've been here (US) since the 80'S. I trained as a nurse in the UK and Saturday nights at the A&E were always busy, full of drunks who had drunk themselves into unconsciousness and the police who wanted to arrest them for fights and whatever else they'd been up to.
Our house was on a council estate and the local was full of binge drinkers vomiting their way home and falling over hedges. We just called them a bunch of drunks, same people different title. Come Monday morning most of them had sobered up enough to get on the bus to work.

I lived in a very sheltered little village growing up and then moved to a city for my work in the mid-80s. What a shock to see how it was after dark! I soon learned to get home before the drinking started.

Those who glorify the past seem never to remember the reality. What about 3-day weeks and rubbish piling up in the streets and football hooligans wrecking town centers week in and week out, and IRA bomb scares being a regular occurrence. Not to mention the awful food and generally low standard of living and watching Margaret Thatcher rip the heart our of northern communities. Yes the good old days indeed!

Or perhaps the yearning is for longer ago, back to the 40s when the nazis were killing jews throughout Europe and no one had enough to eat and there wasn't a national health service?

Or further back to the 19 century when there was no such thing as the dole and the vast majority of people lived in abject poverty with extraordinarily high child mortality rates?

I'd love to know which prior era is the exact one that constitutes 'the good old days.'

For me much of England is the same as it always was, with the same social problems, but there are also many improvements. In general, the average person's standard of living is much higher with young families able to afford the kind of holidays my parents could only dream of. The food is so much better there aren't even words. And the multicultural influx seems to be giving the miserable old Brits a new lease of life and energy. I was very pleasantly surprised on my recent trips back.

Returnee Oct 14th 2011 12:35 am

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Originally Posted by sallysimmons (Post 9674440)
I think the increase in alcohol-related illness is not what some think. There were always drunk kids in England throwing up in the town center, but normal everyday middle class folks didn't always drink wine with dinner the way they do now. I bet digging into those stats would show that the alcohol-related illness is not because of the hoodies Returnee imagines are worse now than they ever were, but because older people are finding themselves ill after decades of sipping wine with dinner.



I lived in a very sheltered little village growing up and then moved to a city for my work in the mid-80s. What a shock to see how it was after dark! I soon learned to get home before the drinking started.

Those who glorify the past seem never to remember the reality. What about 3-day weeks and rubbish piling up in the streets and football hooligans wrecking town centers week in and week out, and IRA bomb scares being a regular occurrence. Not to mention the awful food and generally low standard of living and watching Margaret Thatcher rip the heart our of northern communities. Yes the good old days indeed!

Or perhaps the yearning is for longer ago, back to the 40s when the nazis were killing jews throughout Europe and no one had enough to eat and there wasn't a national health service?

Or further back to the 19 century when there was no such thing as the dole and the vast majority of people lived in abject poverty with extraordinarily high child mortality rates?

I'd love to know which prior era is the exact one that constitutes 'the good old days.'

For me much of England is the same as it always was, with the same social problems, but there are also many improvements. In general, the average person's standard of living is much higher with young families able to afford the kind of holidays my parents could only dream of. The food is so much better there aren't even words. And the multicultural influx seems to be giving the miserable old Brits a new lease of life and energy. I was very pleasantly surprised on my recent trips back.

In my day there were no football 'hooligans' or Organized football gangs like Chelsea's Headhunters or Manchester United's Red Army rampaging and damaging property.

Grayling Oct 14th 2011 12:40 am

Re: Article about unhappy Britain
 

Originally Posted by Returnee (Post 9674491)
In my day there were no football 'hooligans' or Organized football gangs like Chelsea's Headhunters or Manchester United's Red Army rampaging and damaging property.

When was that then?

There certainly were when I was a teenager and I bet you are not much older than me.

There were certainly such gangs in the sixties.

There are also gangs in Japan and other countries.

I am not sure what you are doing on this forum apart from trying to shit stir

Returnee Oct 14th 2011 1:19 am

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Originally Posted by Grayling (Post 9674504)
When was that then?

There certainly were when I was a teenager and I bet you are not much older than me.

There were certainly such gangs in the sixties.

There are also gangs in Japan and other countries.

I am not sure what you are doing on this forum apart from trying to shit stir

I used to go to footbal matches in the sixties and never experienced rampaging football hooliganism and the violence that has developed since.

NATIONAL-VELVET Oct 14th 2011 1:57 am

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Originally Posted by Mummy in the foothills (Post 9650452)
she can't believe how badly people are treated here with work and health care (well she believes it now)

Hi there,

By 'people' do you mean U.S. nationals? I only ask because I hear a lot of negative comments from people (generally Brits) on this forum who have emigrated to the U.S. (or indeed, moved there temporarily with work) and I would assume that if it were as bad as they make out (and if the UK immigrants were treated badly vis-a-vis work / healthcare) surely the obvious answer would be to return to the UK...?

I hope that doesn't come across the wrong way - I'm just curious :)

NV

NATIONAL-VELVET Oct 14th 2011 2:00 am

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Originally Posted by Grayling (Post 9674504)
There are also gangs in Japan and other countries.

Totally. I spent some time in Japan fifteen years ago and was told that the reason they don't have Mickey Mouse out there is because the children think his missing finger was taken by the Japanese mafia!:eek: Not sure how much truth there is in this, but it's what I was told and I think of it every time someone mentions gangs or mafia! :thumbsup:

BristolUK Oct 14th 2011 2:08 am

Re: Article about unhappy Britain
 

Originally Posted by Returnee (Post 9674344)
The number of people admitted to hospital for alcohol related problems has doubled in the last ten years. Alchol related liver disease has trebled.


Originally Posted by Grayling (Post 9674371)
....or is this just another 'bad news' story from you?

I googled the bolded parts. Word for word from the Daily Mail 2009


Originally Posted by Returnee (Post 9674491)
In my day there were no football 'hooligans' or Organized football gangs like Chelsea's Headhunters or Manchester United's Red Army rampaging and damaging property.

Yes there were, they just didn't have the fancy names until the 70s.

From wiki


The first alleged recorded instances of football hooliganism in the modern game took place in the 1880s in England, a period when gangs of supporters would intimidate neighbourhoods, as well as attack referees and opposing supporters and players. In 1885, after Preston North End beat Aston Villa 5-0 in a friendly match, the two teams were pelted with stones; attacked with sticks, punched, kicked and spat at. One Preston player was beaten so severely that he lost consciousness. Press reports of the time described the fans as "howling roughs". The following year, Preston fans fought Queen's Park fans in a railway station; the first alleged instance of football hooliganism away from a match. In 1905, several Preston fans were tried for hooliganism, including a "drunk and disorderly" 70 year old woman, following their match against Blackburn Rovers.

Between the two world wars, there were no recorded instance of football hooliganism, (though for example Millwall's ground was reportedly closed in 1920, 1934 and 1950 after crowd disturbances) but it started attracting widespread media attention in the late 1950s due to its re-emergence in Latin America. In the 1955-56 English football season, Liverpool and Everton fans were involved in a number of incidents. By the 1960s, an average of 25 hooligan incidents were being reported each year in England.

Pollyana Oct 14th 2011 2:14 am

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Originally Posted by Returnee (Post 9674563)
I used to go to footbal matches in the sixties and never experienced rampaging football hooliganism and the violence that has developed since.

You make it sound like every football match is a hotbed of violence and mayhem :lol:


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