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Old Oct 29th 2020, 7:17 am
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Originally Posted by Philosophical 11 View Post
I think you or someone made this point before, but you could be right. It is interesting to note that the first big scam happened two years ago in December. This was the staged burglary and her wallet with about 25k was stolen. In January she began having her hormonal problems which has been widely documented. She still has that problem incidentally.

Moving on.....

I got a message this morning that she wants 40kpm for life. I politely said no. I made a counter offer of 12k pm for 12 months to see her through covid and to get her preparations sorted out for a return to Kuwait. Her response was see you in court.

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190 quid a month? Out of your pension? To a woman who's shafted you left right and centre, and continues to do so? Are you mad?
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Old Oct 29th 2020, 8:23 am
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Look what you can do with P12k a month!


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Old Oct 29th 2020, 9:05 am
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Originally Posted by Philosophical 11 View Post
I think you or someone made this point before, but you could be right. It is interesting to note that the first big scam I was aware of happened two years ago in December. This was the staged burglary and her wallet with about 25k was stolen. In January she began having her hormonal problems which has been widely documented. She still has that problem incidentally.

Moving on.....

I got a message this morning that she wants 40kpm for life. I politely said no. I made a counter offer of 12k pm for 12 months to see her through covid and to get her preparations sorted out for a return to Kuwait. Her response was see you in court.


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Old Oct 29th 2020, 9:38 am
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190 quid a month? Out of your pension? To a woman who's shafted you left right and centre, and continues to do so? Are you mad?
If that is less than court fees, and settles issue and Phil can discipline himself to have no contact with this woman, or her friends, probably better than going to court as a foreigner..
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Old Oct 29th 2020, 11:29 am
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If that is less than court fees, and settles issue and Phil can discipline himself to have no contact with this woman, or her friends, probably better than going to court as a foreigner..

Agree entirely, I had to make a stark choice none of which were pleasant. I hated the idea of giving that woman more money but it was the choice of that or for about the same money taking my chance in court and risk jail, deportation and living the rest of my life in a damp bed sit somewhere thinking what if. She has made attempts to contact me before which I have ignored. I contacted her when it appeared she made an overture for a reconciliation. I thought that was the moment to offer a settlement. As you know she came back with an impossible demand but she has now come back spitting fire and venom and I have ignored her messages. Her parting shot was that I have a case coming from NBI. So it is not a question of me disciplining myself.

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I got a message this morning that she wants 40kpm for life. I politely said no. I made a counter offer of 12k pm for 12 months to see her through covid and to get her preparations sorted out for a return to Kuwait. Her response was see you in court.

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Damn but that lady has balls. I can be rather crude at times but as my retired military husband is fond of saying "She's good. She can suck a golf ball through a garden hose." If your LL is that good, tell her to get to work and make some serious money instead of bilking you for a pittance.
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Is that 40k per month for her life or yours.
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Old Oct 29th 2020, 8:32 pm
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I got a message this morning that she wants 40kpm for life. I politely said no. I made a counter offer of 12k pm for 12 months to see her through covid and to get her preparations sorted out for a return to Kuwait. Her response was see you in court.
I sincerely hope that you are forwarding all of these messages to your female lawyer; this is too good to lose should anything happen to your mobile. As lady lawyer will be the one speaking to 'ex-lovely-lady' in the courtroom, I can only imagine the decibels the rebuttal will reach (if she turns up). Nothing says money grabber more than a woman turning down a very good income (?) for doing nothing other than being an ex, than these messages.
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If that is less than court fees, and settles issue and Phil can discipline himself to have no contact with this woman, or her friends, probably better than going to court as a foreigner..
Agree 100%
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Old Oct 30th 2020, 1:58 am
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If that is less than court fees, and settles issue and Phil can discipline himself to have no contact with this woman, or her friends, probably better than going to court as a foreigner..
Given her reply to the 12k offer and her messages do you still think if P11 ever offered CB her 40k he would get anything else from her or could rely on her not coming back for more money through the courts later and/or filing more charges? Obviously she is not so desperate for money now as it may have initially looked. She was just testing P11.

Her goals are clearly both money and the complete humiliation of P11.

Going to the courts may be the only way he can deal with his errant marriage record.

Having a judge with a rampant anti foreigner bias is a risk which has to be balanced against the chances of getting a good and affordable settlement and the defence case strength.
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I just went back to the beginning of the saga and read the OP's first post. Oh dear !
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I sincerely hope that you are forwarding all of these messages to your female lawyer; this is too good to lose should anything happen to your mobile. As lady lawyer will be the one speaking to 'ex-lovely-lady' in the courtroom, I can only imagine the decibels the rebuttal will reach (if she turns up). Nothing says money grabber more than a woman turning down a very good income (?) for doing nothing other than being an ex, than these messages.
Or his offer could be read as a partial admission of guilt.
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Or his offer could be read as a partial admission of guilt.
Guilty of providing for her, despite her claims of abandonment?
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Guilty of providing for her, despite her claims of abandonment?
Or paying her money to shut up about his alleged behaviour. I have no clue how the legal system works there.
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I hope that those thinking of settling in Asia and finding a new partner read this thread and take heed 1
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