Originally Posted by charleygirl

been through this for the past 13 years......am home in the UK now for 8 weeks vacation, just had to for my sanity......my children are in their late teens, and I have stayed in the US for them but having been home for 2 weeks I seriously think it is my time now and I just love being home. I am sure my marriage is over and it is all because he would not come back here all those years ago and I was not strong enough to insist, it took me 11 years to even get a good social life....and probably I am the happiest there in the US than I have ever been, but I want to be here in the UK, so to all the people out there who know where their heart is, sometimes you have to be ruthless and some how go for it.