Originally Posted by christmasoompa

Would your husband move back if he could work on a dairy farm maybe? There are so many in the UK, we have two just in our little village, and we're only half an hour from London on the train! It might be that you could have access to the public transport you need, and the support network you miss, if you moved back, but he could still do the work he enjoys?

Or would he consider moving elsewhere in NZ and commuting to the farm so that you at least have some community and transport around you?.