Over 40's Moving Back and Catching Up
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Hello Everyone, can not believe it has been such a long time since I was here. brief catch up, moved back to the UK August 2011, having left my 3 children behind they were 20 and twins 19.. was back in the UK for 2 and half years and loved it. I got to spend time with my mum who passed away aged 90 last year. I loved being home after 17 years in the USA.. anyway my children missed me, I missed them, so I made the painful decision for me to go back to NH in Dec last year.. was never happy but got a nice job and was staying with friends. But like so many, hardly saw my children, now 23 and 22, So came back to UK on June 5th for a couple of months to decide.. and have decided I want to be here, so will be going back to USA next week to pack up my stuff again!!
I hope every one of my old expats friends are all ok.. I have missed you all.
Trotty I will see you when I am back...I promise!
Will try and do some reading and catching up again..
I hope every one of my old expats friends are all ok.. I have missed you all.
Trotty I will see you when I am back...I promise!
Will try and do some reading and catching up again..
At least you spent some quality time with your Mum so you have no regrets there, over time things have got clearer for you.
Thanks for the update.
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Hello Everyone, thank you for the well wishes. I arrived late Thursday... lovely to be met by my daughters, son was working.. I have to admit to feeling very overwhelmed and have thought many times already Oh god what have I done.. but already I have helped my daughter out with some issues.. spent some time with all 3 of them.. I have wonderful friends that I am staying with.. but feel very lost actually. Woke to snow yesterday.. and my heart sank. I am in New Hampshire though so knew it was going to happen and today more snow.. Not feeling good about much at the moment but it is early. I have to get a car, with limited cash and a job pretty soon...Depressed would describe my mood..but time will tell.
It is really tough being an Expat..
It is really tough being an Expat..
Cheers
PS I think you are in Nottingham?
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Hi my old pals Fish and Cheers, I am in Leicester.... I am a Brit through and through..miss the UK so much when not here.
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Fish and chips..since you like me are a car guy I thought I would ask you about some of the TV series from British television and about the cars they show from about 60 years ago and they all look like were borrowed from an car museum. They are all in pristine condition but on thing I noticed is that some of them have present day brake lights on them. Think two bright fog brake lights. I'm even wondering if cars back then even had brake lights on them and if they did it would have been a flimsy single light.
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Do they still sell Hovis in the UK?
I've asked this before but what is everyone's opinion on a good British newspaper. The one I have settled on for now is the London Telegraph. I don't think I like the Guardian. My second choice is the Express.
My dad used to take the Daily Mail but since they merged with the Sun I think it went down hill.
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I've asked this before but what is everyone's opinion on a good British newspaper. The one I have settled on for now is the London Telegraph. I don't think I like the Guardian. My second choice is the Express.
My dad used to take the Daily Mail but since they merged with the Sun I think it went down hill.
Cheers
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Rodney and Islander are missing from here for awhile???
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Fish and chips..since you like me are a car guy I thought I would ask you about some of the TV series from British television and about the cars they show from about 60 years ago and they all look like were borrowed from an car museum. They are all in pristine condition but on thing I noticed is that some of them have present day brake lights on them. Think two bright fog brake lights. I'm even wondering if cars back then even had brake lights on them and if they did it would have been a flimsy single light.
Cheers
Cheers
I know the VW bug was a 6 volt system at one point.
If you want to see some good car shows go to the Velocity channel, We are into the Wheeler Dealer car show, its British, Im sure you would like it, id seen it in the UK years ago, now we have it and Im hooked.
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Good Luck, Stay happy.
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Do they still sell Hovis in the UK?
I've asked this before but what is everyone's opinion on a good British newspaper. The one I have settled on for now is the London Telegraph. I don't think I like the Guardian. My second choice is the Express.
My dad used to take the Daily Mail but since they merged with the Sun I think it went down hill.
Cheers
I've asked this before but what is everyone's opinion on a good British newspaper. The one I have settled on for now is the London Telegraph. I don't think I like the Guardian. My second choice is the Express.
My dad used to take the Daily Mail but since they merged with the Sun I think it went down hill.
Cheers
Daily papers - can't help you, I don't use them regularly. I do read whatever papers I happen across in pubs - my fav local has Daily Mail.
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Re: Over 40's Moving Back and Catching Up
Hello Everyone, can not believe it has been such a long time since I was here. brief catch up, moved back to the UK August 2011, having left my 3 children behind they were 20 and twins 19.. was back in the UK for 2 and half years and loved it. I got to spend time with my mum who passed away aged 90 last year. I loved being home after 17 years in the USA.. anyway my children missed me, I missed them, so I made the painful decision for me to go back to NH in Dec last year.. was never happy but got a nice job and was staying with friends. But like so many, hardly saw my children, now 23 and 22, So came back to UK on June 5th for a couple of months to decide.. and have decided I want to be here, so will be going back to USA next week to pack up my stuff again!!
I hope every one of my old expats friends are all ok.. I have missed you all.
Trotty I will see you when I am back...I promise!
Will try and do some reading and catching up again..
I hope every one of my old expats friends are all ok.. I have missed you all.
Trotty I will see you when I am back...I promise!
Will try and do some reading and catching up again..
Nice you have now made the decision to come back home for yourself, not for anyone else.
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Hello Everyone, can not believe it has been such a long time since I was here. brief catch up, moved back to the UK August 2011, having left my 3 children behind they were 20 and twins 19.. was back in the UK for 2 and half years and loved it. I got to spend time with my mum who passed away aged 90 last year. I loved being home after 17 years in the USA.. anyway my children missed me, I missed them, so I made the painful decision for me to go back to NH in Dec last year.. was never happy but got a nice job and was staying with friends. But like so many, hardly saw my children, now 23 and 22, So came back to UK on June 5th for a couple of months to decide.. and have decided I want to be here, so will be going back to USA next week to pack up my stuff again!!
I hope every one of my old expats friends are all ok.. I have missed you all.
Trotty I will see you when I am back...I promise!
Will try and do some reading and catching up again..
I hope every one of my old expats friends are all ok.. I have missed you all.
Trotty I will see you when I am back...I promise!
Will try and do some reading and catching up again..
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Hello Everyone, can not believe it has been such a long time since I was here. brief catch up, moved back to the UK August 2011, having left my 3 children behind they were 20 and twins 19.. was back in the UK for 2 and half years and loved it. I got to spend time with my mum who passed away aged 90 last year. I loved being home after 17 years in the USA.. anyway my children missed me, I missed them, so I made the painful decision for me to go back to NH in Dec last year.. was never happy but got a nice job and was staying with friends. But like so many, hardly saw my children, now 23 and 22, So came back to UK on June 5th for a couple of months to decide.. and have decided I want to be here, so will be going back to USA next week to pack up my stuff again!!
I hope every one of my old expats friends are all ok.. I have missed you all.
Trotty I will see you when I am back...I promise!
Will try and do some reading and catching up again..
I hope every one of my old expats friends are all ok.. I have missed you all.
Trotty I will see you when I am back...I promise!
Will try and do some reading and catching up again..
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Lestergirl, so happy to see your post. I have thought about you and how you were faring. Sorry to hear that you don't see your children much, but as someone said "job well done" they are independent and moving on with their lives. I came back after my short stint in the U.K. I got the wobbles and came back to the U.S. My U.S husband and I are planning on going back to the U.K via Ireland and doing the surrender Singh route. It's not definite.I know I want to go home. We have our trailer up for sale at the moment but not much interest in it. Good luck to you .I wish you all the best.
Re: Over 40's Moving Back and Catching Up
Hello Everyone, can not believe it has been such a long time since I was here. brief catch up, moved back to the UK August 2011, having left my 3 children behind they were 20 and twins 19.. was back in the UK for 2 and half years and loved it. I got to spend time with my mum who passed away aged 90 last year. I loved being home after 17 years in the USA.. anyway my children missed me, I missed them, so I made the painful decision for me to go back to NH in Dec last year.. was never happy but got a nice job and was staying with friends. But like so many, hardly saw my children, now 23 and 22, So came back to UK on June 5th for a couple of months to decide.. and have decided I want to be here, so will be going back to USA next week to pack up my stuff again!!
I hope every one of my old expats friends are all ok.. I have missed you all.
Trotty I will see you when I am back...I promise!
Will try and do some reading and catching up again..
I hope every one of my old expats friends are all ok.. I have missed you all.
Trotty I will see you when I am back...I promise!
Will try and do some reading and catching up again..
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Lestergirl! How great to see you back! Thank you so much for the catch-up.
Everything changes! Your feelings then were different from your feelings now. You and the kids are different now.
Much here for us all to learn from.....
(And I have never met trotty in person but when you see her, give her a hug from me.)
Everything changes! Your feelings then were different from your feelings now. You and the kids are different now.
Much here for us all to learn from.....
(And I have never met trotty in person but when you see her, give her a hug from me.)
great to know you have decided to return to UK for good,
The words above from BTW ring so true dont they, ---- our feelings do indeed change over time, we change, everything changes,
Im still here at home with Mum and we are still getting along well together, and Im so lucky to be able to spend this time with her,
its been almost 4 years since I came home, and in that time Ive gone through a lot of changes, and like most of us it really has not been easy to settle down here, but Im so happy I made the move, this is where Im supposed to be at this time in my life, I know that
now,
I also have never met trotty/Avril ----- although over the years since I have known her I regard her as a very good friend, she even just recently sent my Mum a parcel of gifts, including a nice book for her to read ----- which she loves!!!! trotty is so thoughtful and kind, and this I think is fantastic ---- especially as she has so much to have to deal with in her own life, and now Hubby is not well either,
So Lestergirl when you see her please give her two hugs --- one from me and one from my Mum!!! ---- Thanks!!!!
Take care,
Rodney.
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