Hating a country.
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Although I dont see much evidence of it I do occassionally see someone say how they hate a particular country. I have seen a few times someone will say how they cant wait to get out of this shithole (UK), what makes someone see a country in a way that very few others seem to ? I understand if someone lives in a particularly bad area and has a crap job etc but would that poison your mind to the extent if totally clouds your view ?
I feel I am lucky to be able to live in 2 countries both of which I love for different reasons. I just find it hard to imagine what someones life must be like to make them actually hate a country.
I feel I am lucky to be able to live in 2 countries both of which I love for different reasons. I just find it hard to imagine what someones life must be like to make them actually hate a country.
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Although I dont see much evidence of it I do occassionally see someone say how they hate a particular country. I have seen a few times someone will say how they cant wait to get out of this shithole (UK), what makes someone see a country in a way that very few others seem to ? I understand if someone lives in a particularly bad area and has a crap job etc but would that poison your mind to the extent if totally clouds your view ?
I feel I am lucky to be able to live in 2 countries both of which I love for different reasons. I just find it hard to imagine what someones life must be like to make them actually hate a country.
I feel I am lucky to be able to live in 2 countries both of which I love for different reasons. I just find it hard to imagine what someones life must be like to make them actually hate a country.
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No, I dont have any experience of the US other than 2 weeks in Florida. It can apply equally to any country though.
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What made you choose this part of the forum to pose this question? If you are interested in a range of opinions across many countries, The Lounge might be a more appropriate place.
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No reason really, I have seen more Brits play the hate card thats all. I have no objection if anyone wants it moved.
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I don't necessarily think it's about people "hating" a country. Personally I'm not happy in the UK for a few reasons, but I wouldn't say I hate it. I would like to experience something different in life, go on an adventure, explore a different corner of the world and have a change of scenery. There are reasons as to why I want to leave the UK and aspects of living here do annoy me, but I am not hateful towards it as a country. I feel privileged to have grown up in a westernised country with the opportunity to earn good money compared to other countries, I've had a good education and free health care. But now it's time for a change.
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In that case this thread really isnt for you
I want to understand what makes people hate a country, I can understand hating your particular circumstances or situation by dont understand how you can hate a country. Just to add Im not talking about why people emigrate, that is perfectly understandable, it is solely what makes someone hate a country.
I want to understand what makes people hate a country, I can understand hating your particular circumstances or situation by dont understand how you can hate a country. Just to add Im not talking about why people emigrate, that is perfectly understandable, it is solely what makes someone hate a country.
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In that case this thread really isnt for you
I want to understand what makes people hate a country, I can understand hating your particular circumstances or situation by dont understand how you can hate a country. Just to add Im not talking about why people emigrate, that is perfectly understandable, it is solely what makes someone hate a country.
I want to understand what makes people hate a country, I can understand hating your particular circumstances or situation by dont understand how you can hate a country. Just to add Im not talking about why people emigrate, that is perfectly understandable, it is solely what makes someone hate a country.
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Isn't that the point of forums and threads? That no particular thread is necessarily for one person or another, it's more about getting varied opinions from different people. I gave my opinion about people not hating a particular country per se but wanting to do something different...
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Isn't that the point of forums and threads? That no particular thread is necessarily for one person or another, it's more about getting varied opinions from different people. I gave my opinion about people not hating a particular country per se but wanting to do something different...

You came onto the thread and made the comment:
"Personally I'm not happy in the UK for a few reasons, but I wouldn't say I hate it."
Since you cannot quantify your feelings as hating, any feelings that you have are off topic I would think. This is for haters or discussing haters and is therefore indeed not for you, unless you hate somewhere else you would like to discuss, in which case Come on Down!

In the same way, hating a country's weather doesn't seem to engender anywhere near the same sentiments regarding a country that hating it body and soul does, so would seem to lay us open to becoming off topic very early in the day. That said, the English climate can get a lot of people going and the momentum would carry them to something deeper and justify thoughts of leaving.
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Isn't that the point of forums and threads? That no particular thread is necessarily for one person or another, it's more about getting varied opinions from different people. I gave my opinion about people not hating a particular country per se but wanting to do something different...
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I'm trying to conjure up a mentality within which:
One chose to leave the UK because it was mostly the people one couldn't stand and not the actual country.
One moved to France and settled in a non-French-speaking English expat community in the Dordogne and then moaned that one hated the arrogant French, France's taxes and bureaucracy but loved its wine and (most) restaurant/bistro cooking. One imported most of one's day-to-day supplies from UK supermarkets.
One then moaned that one hated the way the bloody foreigners had ruined the UK to such an extent that one felt one could never return.
For economic reasons one then chose to return to the UK.
One chose to leave the UK because it was mostly the people one couldn't stand and not the actual country.
One moved to France and settled in a non-French-speaking English expat community in the Dordogne and then moaned that one hated the arrogant French, France's taxes and bureaucracy but loved its wine and (most) restaurant/bistro cooking. One imported most of one's day-to-day supplies from UK supermarkets.
One then moaned that one hated the way the bloody foreigners had ruined the UK to such an extent that one felt one could never return.
For economic reasons one then chose to return to the UK.




