Moving to Abu Dhabi
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Assuming some of these are correct;
Apartment - 7500
British school - 4500
Utility bills including internet - 1800 - about right, we're in a 2-bed and this covers internet, tv, DEWA - but check to see if AC / Chiller is included in apartments, otherwise add another 5-700 probably.
Mobile sim contracts * 2 - 400 - yeah, seems fair
Car insurance - 150 - seems light, depends what you buy and only one car means it'll need to be half decent, so would increase this probably.
Fuel - 350 - depends where you go, but this is two tanks, just, of a 4x4 ish.
Food - 10000 - seems a lot, but we do 5-700 for two adults a week with Spinneys, so double us and you're at 1400 say, so could drop this to 6k
Total though, on my calculations is about 21k costs.
That leaves 6,500 for beers, dinners out, kids activities (expensive), clubs, cinema trips, general fun.
That doesn't leave anything much at all towards savings, either for holidays, rainy days or anything.
When the next nipper goes towards nursery and schooling, you'd be in trouble.
I appreciate the desire to get here and to work up from within the UAE but is it worth holding off for a better opportunity that suits your experience level?
Apartment - 7500
British school - 4500
Utility bills including internet - 1800 - about right, we're in a 2-bed and this covers internet, tv, DEWA - but check to see if AC / Chiller is included in apartments, otherwise add another 5-700 probably.
Mobile sim contracts * 2 - 400 - yeah, seems fair
Car insurance - 150 - seems light, depends what you buy and only one car means it'll need to be half decent, so would increase this probably.
Fuel - 350 - depends where you go, but this is two tanks, just, of a 4x4 ish.
Food - 10000 - seems a lot, but we do 5-700 for two adults a week with Spinneys, so double us and you're at 1400 say, so could drop this to 6k
Total though, on my calculations is about 21k costs.
That leaves 6,500 for beers, dinners out, kids activities (expensive), clubs, cinema trips, general fun.
That doesn't leave anything much at all towards savings, either for holidays, rainy days or anything.
When the next nipper goes towards nursery and schooling, you'd be in trouble.
I appreciate the desire to get here and to work up from within the UAE but is it worth holding off for a better opportunity that suits your experience level?
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Assuming some of these are correct;
Apartment - 7500
British school - 4500
Utility bills including internet - 1800 - about right, we're in a 2-bed and this covers internet, tv, DEWA - but check to see if AC / Chiller is included in apartments, otherwise add another 5-700 probably.
Mobile sim contracts * 2 - 400 - yeah, seems fair
Car insurance - 150 - seems light, depends what you buy and only one car means it'll need to be half decent, so would increase this probably.
Fuel - 350 - depends where you go, but this is two tanks, just, of a 4x4 ish.
Food - 10000 - seems a lot, but we do 5-700 for two adults a week with Spinneys, so double us and you're at 1400 say, so could drop this to 6k
Total though, on my calculations is about 21k costs.
That leaves 6,500 for beers, dinners out, kids activities (expensive), clubs, cinema trips, general fun.
That doesn't leave anything much at all towards savings, either for holidays, rainy days or anything.
When the next nipper goes towards nursery and schooling, you'd be in trouble.
I appreciate the desire to get here and to work up from within the UAE but is it worth holding off for a better opportunity that suits your experience level?
Apartment - 7500
British school - 4500
Utility bills including internet - 1800 - about right, we're in a 2-bed and this covers internet, tv, DEWA - but check to see if AC / Chiller is included in apartments, otherwise add another 5-700 probably.
Mobile sim contracts * 2 - 400 - yeah, seems fair
Car insurance - 150 - seems light, depends what you buy and only one car means it'll need to be half decent, so would increase this probably.
Fuel - 350 - depends where you go, but this is two tanks, just, of a 4x4 ish.
Food - 10000 - seems a lot, but we do 5-700 for two adults a week with Spinneys, so double us and you're at 1400 say, so could drop this to 6k
Total though, on my calculations is about 21k costs.
That leaves 6,500 for beers, dinners out, kids activities (expensive), clubs, cinema trips, general fun.
That doesn't leave anything much at all towards savings, either for holidays, rainy days or anything.
When the next nipper goes towards nursery and schooling, you'd be in trouble.
I appreciate the desire to get here and to work up from within the UAE but is it worth holding off for a better opportunity that suits your experience level?
On that basis do you think its worth getting out to UAE and then trying to work my way up. Would appreciate your input.
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Hi, thank you for your feedback. They have included 1 ticket each for the 4 of us to the UK, we plan to buy our clothes from the UK when we visit once a year. Obviously if we needed any neccasitities we would purchase these.
We have a house in the UK which we would put on rent so no commitments there.
The role is in Banking as Compliance Associate, I have 15 years experience in banking and over 10 years in AML/Compliance. The role is not as senior as I am in the UK, and i would say it's a step down from my current role.
The package they are offering is, 27k AED a month, a flight tickets for all of us, 20k AED start up allowance, medical insurance for all four of us. No contribution towards schooling or housing. One of my kids would be in year 3, the other one is still 14 months.
Currently in the UK I am on a comfortable salary where I can make a minimum saving of £1000 each month. I'm unsure if this is a chance to get my foot in the UAE market.
Appreciate any feedback.
We have a house in the UK which we would put on rent so no commitments there.
The role is in Banking as Compliance Associate, I have 15 years experience in banking and over 10 years in AML/Compliance. The role is not as senior as I am in the UK, and i would say it's a step down from my current role.
The package they are offering is, 27k AED a month, a flight tickets for all of us, 20k AED start up allowance, medical insurance for all four of us. No contribution towards schooling or housing. One of my kids would be in year 3, the other one is still 14 months.
Currently in the UK I am on a comfortable salary where I can make a minimum saving of £1000 each month. I'm unsure if this is a chance to get my foot in the UAE market.
Appreciate any feedback.
The money is crap, you’re taking a step down in your career - why the f are you taking this role? The setup costs and the family uphevil will be tough as well. Rent is usually paid up front or quarterly, plus agent fees and other connection fees.
I would seriously do the maths before you make a decision to come here. If your strategy is to find a newer higher paying job a few years down the line then that is a risky strategy. Plenty of expats come with that strategy and end up going back home poorer but tanned.
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Thank you so much for your feedback, really appreciate it. Our savings would come from rental income in the UK, which would be about £1200 after taxes and other cost.
On that basis do you think its worth getting out to UAE and then trying to work my way up. Would appreciate your input.
On that basis do you think its worth getting out to UAE and then trying to work my way up. Would appreciate your input.
As is said by Sandy, the tactic is risky, albeit I do agree it's easier to find something when you're here, but nothings guaranteed.
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I'm not sure that would be helpful - average monthly spends are a function of income and savings rates. Our household income is quite a bit higher than 27k/month so the average monthly spend is higher too. Personally, I don't think a family of 4+ should consider moving here for less than 40k per month unless they have some other reason for coming.
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I'm not sure that would be helpful - average monthly spends are a function of income and savings rates. Our household income is quite a bit higher than 27k/month so the average monthly spend is higher too. Personally, I don't think a family of 4+ should consider moving here for less than 40k per month unless they have some other reason for coming.
10k housing
5k on two cars
8k on food
10k on schooling
8k on fun / beer / activities
4k savings - not a lot at the end of it.
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Really appreciate the breakdown and honesty.
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Joking aside, if you're on 20-something or mid-30s with a wife who doesn't work and two kids, you're definitely one of the people posting incessantly on Brits in Dubai or similar facebook tragedy holes, begging people to 'support small business' as your wife makes dry, tasteless cupcakes to sell at a market in JLT.
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75 is the number if you don't want to be a pleb.
Joking aside, if you're on 20-something or mid-30s with a wife who doesn't work and two kids, you're definitely one of the people posting incessantly on Brits in Dubai or similar facebook tragedy holes, begging people to 'support small business' as your wife makes dry, tasteless cupcakes to sell at a market in JLT.
Joking aside, if you're on 20-something or mid-30s with a wife who doesn't work and two kids, you're definitely one of the people posting incessantly on Brits in Dubai or similar facebook tragedy holes, begging people to 'support small business' as your wife makes dry, tasteless cupcakes to sell at a market in JLT.
bit harsh mate.
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Got the offer letter today
Basic pay 13,500 **
General allowance (including housing) 13,500
Relocation allowance 27,000
PMI for all of us
Flights for only me and the missus.
** I assume they did it like this to avoid paying less bonus as it will based on a percentage of the base pay.
Am I correct when I say this is not a good package for a family of 2 adults and 2 kids (7 and 1)?
Is it worth going back with a counter offer.
Any help would be appreciated.
Thanks
Basic pay 13,500 **
General allowance (including housing) 13,500
Relocation allowance 27,000
PMI for all of us
Flights for only me and the missus.
** I assume they did it like this to avoid paying less bonus as it will based on a percentage of the base pay.
Am I correct when I say this is not a good package for a family of 2 adults and 2 kids (7 and 1)?
Is it worth going back with a counter offer.
Any help would be appreciated.
Thanks
#29
That’s a crap offer mate. You will struggle to live on that here and will definitely not save anything. I’m assuming you gave them your current U.K. salary, which they’ve basically converted into AED. Person with your experience should be targeting 40-50k.
I would seriously reconsider. If you want to make it work, consider going out there yourself for 3-6 months. Rent an Airbnb and Save up a buffer then bring your family.
I would seriously reconsider. If you want to make it work, consider going out there yourself for 3-6 months. Rent an Airbnb and Save up a buffer then bring your family.
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That’s a crap offer mate. You will struggle to live on that here and will definitely not save anything. I’m assuming you gave them your current U.K. salary, which they’ve basically converted into AED. Person with your experience should be targeting 40-50k.
I would seriously reconsider. If you want to make it work, consider going out there yourself for 3-6 months. Rent an Airbnb and Save up a buffer then bring your family.
I would seriously reconsider. If you want to make it work, consider going out there yourself for 3-6 months. Rent an Airbnb and Save up a buffer then bring your family.
I recommend checking out salary surveys available online as a benchmark - also directly connect with recruiters for more feedback.





