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Old Nov 2nd 2008, 4:38 am
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Originally Posted by busybee2
heard of somebody else here who just got married too.
no sense
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Old Nov 2nd 2008, 6:42 am
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If you already have a child with someone, how can getting married be a bigger commitment?

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Old Nov 2nd 2008, 7:06 am
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Originally Posted by Meow
If you already have a child with someone, how can getting married be a bigger commitment?

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Agreed. I've always thought it odd two adults in a committed relationship who have children yet who refuse to get married. Strikes me as either a bit spoiled or selfish.

Having children is possibly the greatest commitment, and dude, if you aren't going to marry your girlfriend and the mother of your daughter, it's best that you don't bring them out here.
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Default Re: can my girlfriend ann daughter live with me in dubai as we are not married?????

Back to the old Sharia wedding thing, can this happen in AD or are the examples being given only know to have occurred in Dubai?

If possible this could solve a number of issues for me, and will remove the need for the engagement ring (I may even make a profit when I sell it).
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Old Nov 2nd 2008, 10:34 am
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Originally Posted by benzonar
Back to the old Sharia wedding thing, can this happen in AD or are the examples being given only know to have occurred in Dubai?

If possible this could solve a number of issues for me, and will remove the need for the engagement ring (I may even make a profit when I sell it).
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Default Re: can my girlfriend ann daughter live with me in dubai as we are not married?????

Originally Posted by benzonar
If possible this could solve a number of issues for me, and will remove the need for the engagement ring (I may even make a profit when I sell it).
it'll certainly avoid some unwanted side-effects, such as instant sense of humour bypasses, incessant nagging and "letting herself go"... on the other hand, it may have other side effects such as "no sex" and lifetime brownie point blacklisting.
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Originally Posted by Ethos83
Agreed. I've always thought it odd two adults in a committed relationship who have children yet who refuse to get married. Strikes me as either a bit spoiled or selfish.

Having children is possibly the greatest commitment, and dude, if you aren't going to marry your girlfriend and the mother of your daughter, it's best that you don't bring them out here.
Well said, that person.
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myself and the people i know all married in AD......
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Old Nov 3rd 2008, 7:40 am
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Have non-Muslim friends who got married in a Sharia court in AD just a couple of weeks ago.
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Old Nov 3rd 2008, 8:25 am
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Maybe so but as we have found out, other people have tried and got refused, it seems BB is right it depends who you see when you go to arrange and who you know
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Sure, but just letting you all know that it's possible.
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Old Nov 5th 2008, 5:37 pm
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Default Re: can my girlfriend ann daughter live with me in dubai as we are not married?????

Originally Posted by lobby lou
sorry to disagree CH ....but i got married in the sharia court in abu dhabi niether i or my DH are muslim ...and we have 3 step children ...and all is legal and totally excepted here ...if u are interested let me know i will give u a number for the muslim guy who arranged it for us xxx
I'd like that number...I'm planning to get married next year and would like to try this route first before exploring other options.

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Even if you have a Muslim wedding, do you not have to still register it with your embassy?
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Old Nov 11th 2008, 11:01 am
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Default Re: can my girlfriend ann daughter live with me in dubai as we are not married?????

Originally Posted by Meow
If you already have a child with someone, how can getting married be a bigger commitment?

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Well you don't need to give them half your pension or your house when you split up...money to look after the kids is all that is required for starters

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