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Old Jun 10th 2009, 8:07 pm
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I understand totally- and wish you happiness and the best of luck.
I advise you against it, because you're entering a minefield.
But if you've decided, best wishes mate. Both of you.
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Old Jun 11th 2009, 4:35 am
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doesn't one have to be Muslim to be married by sharia?
No.

Interesting...usually by sharia law the woman should not be present and her "father/ brother" should sign on her behalf....so dont see how you will do this without lying.
I don't see why this involves lying.
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Originally Posted by Alexa
Blonde question here...doesn't one have to be Muslim to be married by sharia?
To be married by Sharia law without a family member presnet both the man and woman have to be muslim and must hold a valid residency visa for the country that they wish to get married in, they must also present the certificare of converting to Islam for the court.
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Old Jun 11th 2009, 6:23 am
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To be married by Sharia law without a family member presnet both the man and woman have to be muslim and must hold a valid residency visa for the country that they wish to get married in, they must also present the certificare of converting to Islam for the court.
But with the woman's father or male next-of-kin present neither need to be Muslim.
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Old Jun 11th 2009, 9:02 am
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Originally Posted by hawkhead
But with the woman's father or male next-of-kin present neither need to be Muslim.
Really? The couple does not have to be Muslim to be married under Sharia law? This is total news to me..
When I wanted to get married when I lived in Saudi, (neither I or my now husband are Muslim) we were told that only Muslims can get married under Sharia law.
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Old Jun 11th 2009, 9:13 am
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Really? The couple does not have to be Muslim to be married under Sharia law? This is total news to me..
When I wanted to get married when I lived in Saudi, (neither I or my now husband are Muslim) we were told that only Muslims can get married under Sharia law.
Yep, for sure. I know at least two completely non-Muslim couples who had Sharia marriages in AD. Perhaps it's different in Saudi for some reason?
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Old Jun 11th 2009, 9:28 am
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Originally Posted by hawkhead
Yep, for sure. I know at least two completely non-Muslim couples who had Sharia marriages in AD. Perhaps it's different in Saudi for some reason?
Thanks for the info, I am totally surprised by this!
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Old Jun 11th 2009, 9:31 am
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Originally Posted by hawkhead
Yep, for sure. I know at least two completely non-Muslim couples who had Sharia marriages in AD. Perhaps it's different in Saudi for some reason?
Come on, how can you be sure they were completely non-Muslim...

Maybe they were a little Muslim..... you know, maybe liked a bacon sarnie but were tee-totallers....
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Originally Posted by Alexa
Really? The couple does not have to be Muslim to be married under Sharia law? This is total news to me..
When I wanted to get married when I lived in Saudi, (neither I or my now husband are Muslim) we were told that only Muslims can get married under Sharia law.

It is the same in Dubai. I researched this a while ago.

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Old Jun 11th 2009, 9:49 am
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Come on, how can you be sure they were completely non-Muslim...

Maybe they were a little Muslim..... you know, maybe liked a bacon sarnie but were tee-totallers....
They're my mates so I know they just love bacon sarnies AND beer!
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Old Jun 11th 2009, 10:24 am
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It is the same in Dubai. I researched this a while ago.

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Ahhh, Jebel Ali it is then...at least it was for me...
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Here is what I found out...Muslim friends told me....

If BOTH are NOT Muslim, they can NOT get married under sharia Law.

If the man is Muslim, the woman is not, but is one of the people of the book( monotheistic religion , like Christianity) they CAN get married under sharia...but it is preferred that the woman converts to Islam.

If the woman is Muslim, but the man is not, they can NOT get married under Sharia Law.

This is to the best of my knowledge (sp?).
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Old Jun 11th 2009, 11:29 am
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If BOTH are NOT Muslim, they can NOT get married under sharia Law.
Well all I know is that two of my best mates married each other here in AD at a Sharia court and they are most definitely not Muslim.
Well, unless they converted without telling anyone....
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Old Jun 11th 2009, 11:54 am
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Originally Posted by hawkhead
Well all I know is that two of my best mates married each other here in AD at a Sharia court and they are most definitely not Muslim.
Well, unless they converted without telling anyone....
thats why I posted, "some have managed it and some have not" My friends tried to do it about 18 months ago and weren't able to.

Guess it depends on what day and who you see.
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Originally Posted by hawkhead
Well all I know is that two of my best mates married each other here in AD at a Sharia court and they are most definitely not Muslim.
Well, unless they converted without telling anyone....
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