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Thanks for that again Rene. I think if she doesn't qualify (which she barely does based on that guide), her mother has her own attourney's business, and her father is a millionaire, so hopefully one or the other would be willing to sponsor me.
It looks like we'll be ok once married and I can combine my assets with hers and her income.
It looks like we'll be ok once married and I can combine my assets with hers and her income.
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But hopefully she'll have another job by the time we finally begin the application in autumn/fall.
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Just seems everything is against us being together right now.
Our divorces, her job, I'm trying to sell a property to enable me to spend summer there and the buyers are being a pain in the neck, her daughter is having issues.... the list goes on.
Tell you what though, when finally we do get together, what a journey it will have been.
I just hope the pieces start fitting together soon though, I'm emotionally exhausted.
Our divorces, her job, I'm trying to sell a property to enable me to spend summer there and the buyers are being a pain in the neck, her daughter is having issues.... the list goes on.
Tell you what though, when finally we do get together, what a journey it will have been.
I just hope the pieces start fitting together soon though, I'm emotionally exhausted.
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Just seems everything is against us being together right now.
Our divorces, her job, I'm trying to sell a property to enable me to spend summer there and the buyers are being a pain in the neck, her daughter is having issues.... the list goes on.
Tell you what though, when finally we do get together, what a journey it will have been.
I just hope the pieces start fitting together soon though, I'm emotionally exhausted.
Our divorces, her job, I'm trying to sell a property to enable me to spend summer there and the buyers are being a pain in the neck, her daughter is having issues.... the list goes on.
Tell you what though, when finally we do get together, what a journey it will have been.
I just hope the pieces start fitting together soon though, I'm emotionally exhausted.
Hang in there.
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Wow, that's inspirational. I don't know how you managed an extra 2 years, I'm going insane just having to wait until June to see her again for a couple of months.
Yes, I do believe that these hardships will make us stronger in the long run.
The old saying, what doesn't break you only makes you stronger.
Yes, I do believe that these hardships will make us stronger in the long run.
The old saying, what doesn't break you only makes you stronger.
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Well, I was close
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Just seems everything is against us being together right now.
Our divorces, her job, I'm trying to sell a property to enable me to spend summer there and the buyers are being a pain in the neck, her daughter is having issues.... the list goes on.
Tell you what though, when finally we do get together, what a journey it will have been.
I just hope the pieces start fitting together soon though, I'm emotionally exhausted.
Our divorces, her job, I'm trying to sell a property to enable me to spend summer there and the buyers are being a pain in the neck, her daughter is having issues.... the list goes on.
Tell you what though, when finally we do get together, what a journey it will have been.
I just hope the pieces start fitting together soon though, I'm emotionally exhausted.
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IOW, keep your day to day life 'whole'.. don't be living for another time zone. Trust us, we've watched countless couples go through this agonizing year.
SecretGarden & MrPink were another with an amazing story of waiting and reward; worth looking up.
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Wise words there, thanks.
Yes, in "normal" life, it would be something we handle together. It's just so hard seeing her over there sad and hurt, while I'm here only able to offer words. It's frustrating as you can understand.
Yes, in "normal" life, it would be something we handle together. It's just so hard seeing her over there sad and hurt, while I'm here only able to offer words. It's frustrating as you can understand.
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Just seems everything is against us being together right now.
Our divorces, her job, I'm trying to sell a property to enable me to spend summer there and the buyers are being a pain in the neck, her daughter is having issues.... the list goes on.
Tell you what though, when finally we do get together, what a journey it will have been.
I just hope the pieces start fitting together soon though, I'm emotionally exhausted.
Our divorces, her job, I'm trying to sell a property to enable me to spend summer there and the buyers are being a pain in the neck, her daughter is having issues.... the list goes on.
Tell you what though, when finally we do get together, what a journey it will have been.
I just hope the pieces start fitting together soon though, I'm emotionally exhausted.
But, we still love and like one another through these stresses - hopefully the rest is a piece of p.........................
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Mummy, does this mean I am not getting my pony? ![Frown](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/frown.gif)
Bummer about your redundancy.. we were going to have a good shopping trip, you & I!
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Bummer about your redundancy.. we were going to have a good shopping trip, you & I!
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Oh hell yeah, I had at least a couple of those scrummy handbags (purses lol!) figured in, but sadly it seems not to be...........
However, after having had the car written off (totalled in US speak I believe), I am thankful that I and the others involved didn't spill one drop of blood, that despite their respective illnesses M's Dad and my Mum are all in one piece and holding their own considering their ages, my beloved furbie had a great 18 years and 1 day with me and particularly the last 3 and a bit years for just her and me to share snuggles, and that in the grand scheme of things that challenge us human animals in this world ........... me and M. are doing pretty damn good! Hell, life could be so much worse!!!![Thumbs Up](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/thumbsup.gif)
Side note: I do hope that maybe we can travel up, or you can travel down and maybe we can find somewhere to meet - if even in the middle!!
However, after having had the car written off (totalled in US speak I believe), I am thankful that I and the others involved didn't spill one drop of blood, that despite their respective illnesses M's Dad and my Mum are all in one piece and holding their own considering their ages, my beloved furbie had a great 18 years and 1 day with me and particularly the last 3 and a bit years for just her and me to share snuggles, and that in the grand scheme of things that challenge us human animals in this world ........... me and M. are doing pretty damn good! Hell, life could be so much worse!!!
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Side note: I do hope that maybe we can travel up, or you can travel down and maybe we can find somewhere to meet - if even in the middle!!
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I have a feeling we will do.. during one of our mutual travels! ![Smile](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/smile.gif)
At least now you don't have to sell the car before you go... (Miss Sunny Side Up here, lol).
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At least now you don't have to sell the car before you go... (Miss Sunny Side Up here, lol).
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LOL Car, what car? ............................ It's was financed/on long term lease anyway lol!!!!! ![LOL](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/lol.gif)
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bg,
Why in the world should they? You may be the greatest guy in the world, but two good people don't always make a good couple. Why should they be stuck with you should you, or she, call it quits?
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Why in the world should they? You may be the greatest guy in the world, but two good people don't always make a good couple. Why should they be stuck with you should you, or she, call it quits?
Regards, JEff
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