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Old Mar 16th 2010 | 8:55 am
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Just to update you all on my case status, I got my NOA yesterday 03/15/10, now I am waiting on Biometrics Appointment letter.

On divorce front I am still waiting on my wife to sign the papers.
 
Old Mar 18th 2010 | 2:33 am
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Originally Posted by totally_broken
Just to update you all on my case status, I got my NOA yesterday 03/15/10, now I am waiting on Biometrics Appointment letter.

On divorce front I am still waiting on my wife to sign the papers.
Hey TB. Again, I have gone through your recent back and fort postings. Here is what I think:

1. You still have not changed your mindset.
2. You still worry a lot. WORRYING WILL NEVER HELP YOU.
3. You will lose this case and be sent back to your country if you fail to change the way you think. Do it now for your sake.
4. Things happen for different reasons. In your case, you are learning one of life's greatest lessons; FAITH and PATIENCE. Having a 10/yr GC doesn't make you Bill Gates. If you learn your lessons from this, change your mind set and trust in God that everything will turn for your good, like I said b/4 and I will say it again, you will not only get the 10/yr GC, but you will go far in life. And most importantly, your wife will come back to beg you for forgiveness. Trust me on this.

Cheer up, buy yourself a sandwich or pizza or what ever you like, extend your lease for 6 months or whatever, continue at your job like nothing happened, enjoy your days, pray to God cos IT IS WAY FAR FROM OVER BROTHER!

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Old Mar 18th 2010 | 4:03 am
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Originally Posted by believe
Hey TB. Again, I have gone through your recent back and fort postings. Here is what I think:

1. You still have not changed your mindset.
2. You still worry a lot. WORRYING WILL NEVER HELP YOU.
3. You will lose this case and be sent back to your country if you fail to change the way you think. Do it now for your sake.
4. Things happen for different reasons. In your case, you are learning one of life's greatest lessons; FAITH and PATIENCE. Having a 10/yr GC doesn't make you Bill Gates. If you learn your lessons from this, change your mind set and trust in God that everything will turn for your good, like I said b/4 and I will say it again, you will not only get the 10/yr GC, but you will go far in life. And most importantly, your wife will come back to beg you for forgiveness. Trust me on this.

Cheer up, buy yourself a sandwich or pizza or what ever you like, extend your lease for 6 months or whatever, continue at your job like nothing happened, enjoy your days, pray to God cos IT IS WAY FAR FROM OVER BROTHER!
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Thanks I deeply and sincerely appreciate your thoughts on my situation I REALLY DO. I know my life had taken a tangent from the normal path but its NOT THE END OF THE WORLD FOR ME. Its just I was emotionally devastated but to be honest with you I am gaining a little strength day by day. Actually I have started to appreciate life in a more truer sense, this forum is a form of catharsis for me... I have gained a lot of emotional strength by reading other cases here. This forum is helping lot of folks who need an advice, a pat on a back and as you are doing "lifting spirits" and thats so amazing...

And Yes Believe GOD has his own mysterious ways.

Thanks Brother
 
Old Mar 18th 2010 | 8:19 am
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Originally Posted by totally_broken
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Thanks I deeply and sincerely appreciate your thoughts on my situation I REALLY DO. I know my life had taken a tangent from the normal path but its NOT THE END OF THE WORLD FOR ME. Its just I was emotionally devastated but to be honest with you I am gaining a little strength day by day. Actually I have started to appreciate life in a more truer sense, this forum is a form of catharsis for me... I have gained a lot of emotional strength by reading other cases here. This forum is helping lot of folks who need an advice, a pat on a back and as you are doing "lifting spirits" and thats so amazing...

And Yes Believe GOD has his own mysterious ways.

Thanks Brother
Believe:

Perfect timing for your sermon for the ones who are low in spirit. Anything works when feeling low. The hungry enjoy potatoes in absence of steak.
 
Old Mar 30th 2010 | 4:30 am
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Hi ALL just wants to give update on my situation. I recieved my biometrics appointment on 03/26/10 which is scheduled for 04/02/10.

On divorce front, there is hearing scheduled on 04/20/10. So guys things are finally moving and I am relaxed this time with a very postive frame of mind.
 
Old Apr 26th 2010 | 6:01 am
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Hi All

Wants to give an update on my situation. I went to my divorce hearing infront of a Master on 04/20/10, it went fine and I have been told by my divorce lawyer that the paperwork will sit for 10 days which are mandatory and then my file will be presented infront of a Judge who give the final decision.

So hopefully I will get the divorce decree sometime mid May 2010 or end. I still haven't got RFE so have some time on my side.
 
Old May 19th 2010 | 4:39 am
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Hi ALL

Just to give an update on my situation. I got a phone call from my Divorce Attorney and guess what his office received my "Divorce Decree" which he will be mailing me today. So finally I am done and over with Divorce side of things.

On the immigration side I am still waiting for RFE.

Will keep you all acquaint of any further news...
 
Old May 19th 2010 | 6:44 am
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That's great that they received it...I wonder if you need to wait until they send you RFE, or could you be proactive and send them the divorce decree?

It's worth an infopass..
 
Old May 19th 2010 | 9:15 am
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Okalian I am not so sure about it...have an immigration attorney so let see...
 
Old May 19th 2010 | 9:55 am
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Originally Posted by totally_broken
Okalian I am not so sure about it...have an immigration attorney so let see...
My advice is do not send them anything they didn't ask for yet. If you do, they will have a hard time matching it up to your file. Imagine someone opening the mail and seeing the divorce decree and a cover letter with the case number on it. Now imagine how many case numbers there are to keep track of. It will take them forever to find where that case file is located at that very moment...either in a pile waiting to be checked, or on an officer's desk (which officer, who knows?), whether the officer keeps them sorted somehow on his own desk...etc.

Wait for the RFE.

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Old May 19th 2010 | 10:12 am
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Originally Posted by okalian
That's great that they received it...I wonder if you need to wait until they send you RFE, or could you be proactive and send them the divorce decree?

It's worth an infopass..
Being proactive leads to further confusion for the IO.
 
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Being proactive leads to further confusion for the IO.
yeah you're absolutely right..assuming he puts it in the right file, he may not know why the filer is providing it..
 
Old May 20th 2010 | 2:56 am
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Had a chat with Immigration Attorney and he second Rene's advice i.e. wait for a RFE.
 
Old May 24th 2010 | 6:28 am
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Hello Guys

Just recieved a call from my immigration attorney; they received a RFE requesting "Divorce Decree" today. My attorney told me that they will be sending the divorce decree today in response to the RFE. Well so far so good thats what I can say...Will keep you all nice folks updated.
 
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Thanks for the update.
 


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