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Trying to search and read all the various methods and scenarios in this forum is very complicating and difficult on a mobile phone.
So I apologise if I'm asking an already answered question but really need some help.
Basically I went to visit my gf on the vwp. It wasn't exactly something we had planned for just yet but we decided we wanted to get married which we are now legally married. I am a UKC and she is a USC, and I shall be looking to migrate to the USA to be with my wife but understand there is a process to follow but all very confusing.
Please can somebody explain in a nutshell which form/visa we have to complete to get the process started. I understand a spousal visa is needed but we also understand there is an l-130 that needs to be completed first??
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So I apologise if I'm asking an already answered question but really need some help.
Basically I went to visit my gf on the vwp. It wasn't exactly something we had planned for just yet but we decided we wanted to get married which we are now legally married. I am a UKC and she is a USC, and I shall be looking to migrate to the USA to be with my wife but understand there is a process to follow but all very confusing.
Please can somebody explain in a nutshell which form/visa we have to complete to get the process started. I understand a spousal visa is needed but we also understand there is an l-130 that needs to be completed first??
Many thanks in advance
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So, you are currently in the USA, on a VWP visit, and have gotten married to your USC girlfriend.
What is your plan now? Do you need to go back home to tie up loose ends? Or are you trying to remain in the USA on this particular trip?
If you intend to go back to the UK before your VWP visit ends, you need to research the "CR-1 Immigrant Visa" process.
If you are thinking to stay in the USA on this trip and adjust your status to permanent resident (i.e. NOT go back to the UK), then you need to research "Adjustment of Status (AOS). If you plan on doing this, you should also have a consultation with an immigration attorney, because this path has pitfalls if your case gets denied.
The I-130 is part of both paths (CR-1 Immigrant Visa and AOS), but other things also need to be filed along with, so first decide which path you want to take, consult with an attorney if necessary, do the research required for the path you choose, then come on back with any questions.
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What is your plan now? Do you need to go back home to tie up loose ends? Or are you trying to remain in the USA on this particular trip?
If you intend to go back to the UK before your VWP visit ends, you need to research the "CR-1 Immigrant Visa" process.
If you are thinking to stay in the USA on this trip and adjust your status to permanent resident (i.e. NOT go back to the UK), then you need to research "Adjustment of Status (AOS). If you plan on doing this, you should also have a consultation with an immigration attorney, because this path has pitfalls if your case gets denied.
The I-130 is part of both paths (CR-1 Immigrant Visa and AOS), but other things also need to be filed along with, so first decide which path you want to take, consult with an attorney if necessary, do the research required for the path you choose, then come on back with any questions.
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Please can somebody explain in a nutshell ...
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Form I-130.
It seems that you know more than you realized.
Indeed. Stop doing your research using a smart phone and use something with a bigger screen. It will work much better for you.
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So, you are currently in the USA, on a VWP visit, and have gotten married to your USC girlfriend.
What is your plan now? Do you need to go back home to tie up loose ends? Or are you trying to remain in the USA on this particular trip?
If you intend to go back to the UK before your VWP visit ends, you need to research the "CR-1 Immigrant Visa" process.
If you are thinking to stay in the USA on this trip and adjust your status to permanent resident (i.e. NOT go back to the UK), then you need to research "Adjustment of Status (AOS). If you plan on doing this, you should also have a consultation with an immigration attorney, because this path has pitfalls if your case gets denied.
The I-130 is part of both paths (CR-1 Immigrant Visa and AOS), but other things also need to be filed along with, so first decide which path you want to take, consult with an attorney if necessary, do the research required for the path you choose, then come on back with any questions.
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What is your plan now? Do you need to go back home to tie up loose ends? Or are you trying to remain in the USA on this particular trip?
If you intend to go back to the UK before your VWP visit ends, you need to research the "CR-1 Immigrant Visa" process.
If you are thinking to stay in the USA on this trip and adjust your status to permanent resident (i.e. NOT go back to the UK), then you need to research "Adjustment of Status (AOS). If you plan on doing this, you should also have a consultation with an immigration attorney, because this path has pitfalls if your case gets denied.
The I-130 is part of both paths (CR-1 Immigrant Visa and AOS), but other things also need to be filed along with, so first decide which path you want to take, consult with an attorney if necessary, do the research required for the path you choose, then come on back with any questions.
Rene
I fully intend on doing everything the right way as to not upset immigration. I know it will be a long slow process but need to know the correct path to go down.
Thank you Rene and Jeff for your response
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Yes I have a business back in the UK and loose ends that need to be tied up. So I shall be returning to the UK 10 weeks before my 90 days are up.
I fully intend on doing everything the right way as to not upset immigration. I know it will be a long slow process but need to know the correct path to go down.
Thank you Rene and Jeff for your response
I fully intend on doing everything the right way as to not upset immigration. I know it will be a long slow process but need to know the correct path to go down.
Thank you Rene and Jeff for your response
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Yes, good advice from Rene, and then go to the NVC's Immigrant Visa Processing web pages at travel.state.gov and read about what you will have to do after the I-130 has been approved.
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Thank you ever so much for the advice. I arrived back in the UK today and both of us endured a very emotional time saying goodbye. We are getting the wheels in motion for the I-130 but I'm a bit concerned about the processing time and the fact I will not be able to visit my wife whilst the petition is being approved.
Can you offer any advice on this please? What is the best way to do this and not be apart for eternity?
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Can you offer any advice on this please? What is the best way to do this and not be apart for eternity?
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Thank you ever so much for the advice. I arrived back in the UK today and both of us endured a very emotional time saying goodbye. We are getting the wheels in motion for the I-130 but I'm a bit concerned about the processing time and the fact I will not be able to visit my wife whilst the petition is being approved.
Can you offer any advice on this please? What is the best way to do this and not be apart for eternity?
Rob
Can you offer any advice on this please? What is the best way to do this and not be apart for eternity?
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Just show that you intend to return to the UK - return ticket, commitments etc.
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Thank you for shining some light at the end of what seems a dark tunnel. I've been really worried that I wouldn't be able to see my wife for a long while which would be devastating. Again thank you for your advise and I shall make sure I have all the necessary info to show I intend to return to the UK until such time that the I-130 is processed.
The I-130 being processed is only the first part of the journey.
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Thankfully I have found solice in some very helpful knowledgable people such as yourself and the other kind people that answer what may seem very stupid questions but I'm afraid I'm a complete novice as far as immigration goes.
I really do appreciate all the help
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