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Lion in Winter Jan 28th 2022 3:24 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing (Post 13090984)
I'll give you three guesses, and the first two don't count.

How bizarre.

We're being gaslighted - we thought new knew a poster called Siouxie, but apparently we didn't? :confused:

SultanOfSwing Jan 28th 2022 3:24 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Lion in Winter (Post 13090985)
How bizarre.

Nothing surprises me anymore.

Lion in Winter Jan 28th 2022 3:27 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing (Post 13090986)
Nothing surprises me anymore.


You wake up one day, and the people you've been chatting with for years have suddenly just gone.

It's like "Life on Mars", but without the good acting.

SultanOfSwing Jan 28th 2022 3:30 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Lion in Winter (Post 13090988)
You wake up one day, and the people you've been chatting with for years have suddenly just gone.

It's like "Life on Mars", but without the good acting.

Yeah, very weird.

kimilseung Jan 28th 2022 3:32 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Lion in Winter (Post 13090982)
So if I do it your way, does it stay working for everyone?

https://britishexpats.com/forum/sear...rchid=13403865

I think we are all finding the page more or less by the same methods. Just slightly different routes. They all end up in a link that can not be shared.(Your link does not work for me)

Lion in Winter Jan 28th 2022 3:35 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by kimilseung (Post 13090991)
I think we are all finding the page more or less by the same methods. Just slightly different routes. They all end up in a link that can not be shared.(Your link does not work for me)

Yes, but that doesn't explain why my own link from yesterday doesn't work for me today, when it did yesterday.

Maybe I'm just trying to find rational explanations for the irrational.

kimilseung Jan 28th 2022 3:39 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Lion in Winter (Post 13090993)
Yes, but that doesn't explain why my own link from yesterday doesn't work for me today, when it did yesterday.

Maybe I'm just trying to find rational explanations for the irrational.

It seems reasonable that search result links would be time limited, if there is data that is stored in memory or in a database.

BuckinghamshireBoy Jan 28th 2022 3:39 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by kimilseung (Post 13090991)
I think we are all finding the page more or less by the same methods. Just slightly different routes. They all end up in a link that can not be shared.(Your link does not work for me)

It won't be shareable, it's most likely a real time search on a relational database, hence the shift in searchid ...

Danny B Jan 28th 2022 3:39 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Gozit (Post 13090961)
I was told he left voluntarily. I miss his posts as well - Jsmth if you see this, hope you are well.

I think he cried wolf too many times by deleting his account and then coming back. I'm just guessing here, but I think this was the final straw for the mods.

Lion in Winter Jan 28th 2022 4:04 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by kimilseung (Post 13090994)
It seems reasonable that search result links would be time limited, if there is data that is stored in memory or in a database.


Originally Posted by BuckinghamshireBoy (Post 13090995)
It won't be shareable, it's most likely a real time search on a relational database, hence the shift in searchid ...

Fun with software.


spouse of scouse Jan 28th 2022 4:21 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by kimilseung (Post 13090760)
Odd that such a helpful member of our community wound be banned.
Can admin let us know when she will be back?

Have you had an answer to this yet Kim?

I can figure out most things by myself, but I can't for the life of me think why Siouxie would be banned? There must be some other explanation.

CanadaJimmy Jan 28th 2022 4:22 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 
Yeah the search results are cached with a unique ID and will expire, that's why the links stop working after some time. Have to do a fresh search from the profile as BuckinghamshireBoy explained.

kimilseung Jan 28th 2022 4:24 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by spouse of scouse (Post 13091005)
Have you had an answer to this yet Kim?

I can figure out most things by myself, but I can't for the life of me think why Siouxie would be banned? There must be some other explanation.

Not been answered yet. I know we cant talk about mod activity in threads, so I am not going to ask why she was banned, but I do hope admin or a mod come along soon, to let us know when she will be back.

sharkus Jan 28th 2022 4:29 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Lion in Winter (Post 13090974)
What the hell is going on? That link doesn't work for me, yet when I do a search I can still find her posts.

https://britishexpats.com/forum/sear...3&pp=25&page=2

So this is working right now. Is it just going to stop working suddenly, or what? I mean, I know I don't understand software but still.

BE is turning into the twilight zone. It used to be a community of (mostly) friends.


Your link does not work for me, and I am fairly sure it won't work for anyone else, and might not even work for you any longer, though I think it will. It looks as though the "searchid" value changes every time you start a new search, and it's possible it is only valid for that one search period. It could be a feature / security thing so that you cannot do what we are trying to do and serve up the list of a users previous posts.

spouse of scouse Jan 28th 2022 4:32 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by kimilseung (Post 13091009)
Not been answered yet. I know we cant talk about mod activity in threads, so I am not going to ask why she was banned, but I do hope admin or a mod come along soon, to let us know when she will be back.

Oh don't get me wrong, I wasn't asking for an explanation of why Siouxie was banned, not only because we're not allowed to but mainly because I just find it difficult to believe that she was banned. I was thinking software glitch or something.

Anyway, whatever it was it'll be nice to see her back.



DandNHill Jan 28th 2022 4:58 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Danny B (Post 13090955)
I think she might have got the hump over the way jsmith 'left' this forum and wasn't allowed back. Just a guess.

Jsmith left? What’s going on? 🤔

DaveLovesDee Jan 28th 2022 6:17 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Lion in Winter (Post 13090974)
What the hell is going on? That link doesn't work for me, yet when I do a search I can still find her posts.

https://britishexpats.com/forum/sear...3&pp=25&page=2

So this is working right now. Is it just going to stop working suddenly, or what? I mean, I know I don't understand software but still.

BE is turning into the twilight zone. It used to be a community of (mostly) friends.

And I thought 'They Keep Killing Suzie' was just a Torchwood episode title.....

Only that Suzie deserved it....

Piff Poff Jan 28th 2022 2:18 pm

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 
Nooo! Why is everyone going? I can't cope.

Oink Jan 28th 2022 5:23 pm

Where is Siouxie?
 
It seems ridiculous. Why would people be so horrible?

Pollyana Jan 28th 2022 6:25 pm

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 
I honestly don't know the ins and outs of this, and haven't looked at her profile, but I do know that it is possible to set one's User Title to say "Banned".

Lion in Winter Jan 29th 2022 2:27 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Pollyana (Post 13091110)
I honestly don't know the ins and outs of this, and haven't looked at her profile, but I do know that it is possible to set one's User Title to say "Banned".


Definitely banned I think. When you are banned, your karma button goes away. You can see the difference between her profile on her last post and the one underneath it.

https://cimg7.ibsrv.net/gimg/british...6c2fcada97.jpg



kimilseung Jan 29th 2022 3:26 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Oink (Post 13091105)
It seems ridiculous. Why would people be so horrible?

This in context of her banning, now that we know that she was banned for sure. (Thanks to Lions post)

spouse of scouse Jan 29th 2022 3:39 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Lion in Winter (Post 13091190)
Definitely banned I think.

:blink:

Well bugger me up a gum tree.

DaveLovesDee Jan 29th 2022 3:55 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Pollyana (Post 13091110)
I honestly don't know the ins and outs of this, and haven't looked at her profile, but I do know that it is possible to set one's User Title to say "Banned".

Found this in a forum search, https://britishexpats.com/forum/cana.../#post11956550


Note that jamesnash's karma button has disappeared - therefore, he's been banned.

SultanOfSwing Jan 29th 2022 4:58 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by spouse of scouse (Post 13091215)
:blink:

Well bugger me up a gum tree.

Better up than with, I suppose :p

Lion in Winter Jan 29th 2022 6:24 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Oink (Post 13091105)
It seems ridiculous. Why would people be so horrible?

Yes. Life is hard enough. Just be decent and kind. There are too many truly shit people and things in the world to waste time on petty stuff.

Lion in Winter Jan 29th 2022 6:25 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing (Post 13091236)
Better up than with, I suppose :p

Always the optimist, you.

SultanOfSwing Jan 29th 2022 6:27 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Lion in Winter (Post 13091271)
Always the optimist, you.

Every silver lining has a cloud.

DaveLovesDee Jan 29th 2022 8:16 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing (Post 13091275)
Every silver lining has a cloud.

Just before thunder and lightning.... :p

SultanOfSwing Jan 29th 2022 10:03 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by DaveLovesDee (Post 13091295)
Just before thunder and lightning.... :p

Exactly.

Danny B Jan 29th 2022 10:39 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 
Her profile says that she was a BE moderator for 10 years, hopefully she got to keep her pension and they gave her some severance pay.

scilly Jan 29th 2022 3:15 pm

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 
I'm so sorry to see this.

I've just tried to send her a message as a continuation of a conversation we were having, and it came back as an error. User not found.

I'm getting less and less interested in BE as the days go by.

Pity. It was a good site, once upon a time

Stumpylegs Jan 29th 2022 9:40 pm

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 
Have no interested in discussing the ins and outs of it, but just want to say I hope all is well with her and wish her the best for the future if she chooses to read this thread.

I can honestly say if it wasn't for her and another member/mod I likely wouldn't be in Canada now and almost certainly wouldn't be a resident.

Paul_Shepherd Jan 30th 2022 10:57 pm

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by scilly (Post 13091368)
I'm so sorry to see this.

I've just tried to send her a message as a continuation of a conversation we were having, and it came back as an error. User not found.

I'm getting less and less interested in BE as the days go by.

Pity. It was a good site, once upon a time

Agreed Scilly... she was probably one, if not the biggest asset to this site, and to be banned for no reason is just ridiculous.

I too am getting less interested in this site when they ban all the helpful and kind people. She should start up her on expat site if they don't want her here.


dbd33 Jan 30th 2022 11:49 pm

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Paul_Shepherd (Post 13091672)
to be banned for no reason is just ridiculous.

That's not very likely is it? Board moderators typically only ban people if there's no hope of getting them to behave reasonably. I, for example, only got a suspension for whatever it was that got me suspended. If someone is banned and you don't know why, the reasonable assumption is that they did something worthy of a ban (running a sock, for example, or persistently insulting someone thin skinned) that you don't know about. The moderators aren't going to tell you, the banned person might, otherwise you just have to guess. Any guess is more probable than "no reason".

I should say, in case the poster in question is reading, that I had nothing to do with this. I'd ask what happened via facebook but I see that I've been unfriended.

JamesM Jan 31st 2022 11:56 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by Danny B (Post 13090955)
I think she might have got the hump over the way jsmith 'left' this forum and wasn't allowed back. Just a guess.

When did JSmith leave? I wondered why he was quiet?

bats Jan 31st 2022 12:30 pm

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by JamesM (Post 13091862)
When did JSmith leave? I wondered why he was quiet?

I missed that too.

scilly Jan 31st 2022 3:46 pm

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by JamesM (Post 13091862)
When did JSmith leave? I wondered why he was quiet?

Before Christmas, say about the middle of December.

I didn't visit the site for about 2 days, and it happened in that time, though it took me a couple more days to realise.

Paul_Shepherd Jan 31st 2022 10:57 pm

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 

Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 13091684)
That's not very likely is it? Board moderators typically only ban people if there's no hope of getting them to behave reasonably. I, for example, only got a suspension for whatever it was that got me suspended. If someone is banned and you don't know why, the reasonable assumption is that they did something worthy of a ban (running a sock, for example, or persistently insulting someone thin skinned) that you don't know about. The moderators aren't going to tell you, the banned person might, otherwise you just have to guess. Any guess is more probable than "no reason".

I should say, in case the poster in question is reading, that I had nothing to do with this. I'd ask what happened via facebook but I see that I've been unfriended.

Maybe, but there could also be other factors behind the scenes that none of us know about. Just doesn't seem to add up to me, I got to know Siouxie pretty well, she didn't come across as a person that would insult, or purposely stir up trouble, shes had enough of her own personal issues with out causing anymore for herself and other people. Something is amiss somewhere. A guess is a guess, and "no reason" is as good a guess as any in the absence of any facts or anything else. This kind of thing happens in work places all the time....for "no reason", power struggles, some people just don't get along with one and other, that's a fact of life.

DandNHill Feb 1st 2022 1:13 am

Re: Where is Siouxie?
 
I checked in with her via FB. Can’t divulge the contents of our conversation but she’s doing fine. At least we don’t need to worry about her well-being 🥰


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