What would you have done
#17
I would have given him a ride and not regretted it afterwards. Don't second guess yourself.
#22
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Same happened to me but when he asked me where I was going I didnt reply I asked him where he was going so I was able to say I was going to turn off and wasnt going the same way.
It worked, quick wave, sorry bye
I always do this now, but I have met some nice people and gone out of my way to show them Beavers chewing their nuts off..
It worked, quick wave, sorry bye

I always do this now, but I have met some nice people and gone out of my way to show them Beavers chewing their nuts off..
#23
Normally I wouldn't stop for one lone man... but you said "old" and of course depending on how elderly, how cold out, I suspect that it would prick my conscience and I too would stop.
But then I'm the fool who hitched around Mexico in her 20s and a decade later regularly stopped for hitchhikers across Southern Africa... generally schoolchildren or women carrying baskets of goods to market, but there would sometimes be at least one opportunistic drunken male who'd also try to climb aboard and have to be fended off.
But then I'm the fool who hitched around Mexico in her 20s and a decade later regularly stopped for hitchhikers across Southern Africa... generally schoolchildren or women carrying baskets of goods to market, but there would sometimes be at least one opportunistic drunken male who'd also try to climb aboard and have to be fended off.
#24
I am afraid I am a victim of having experienced 'the real world' today in its many facets. I would not have stopped other than for someone who was known to me. Would I feel guilty for not stopping? Yes, but common sense would have prevailed...
Puts me in mind of the much stated statement at the conclusion of the criminal trial...as in 'well, he doesn't look liker a murderer/rapist/robber etc' eliciting the response 'what does a murderer/rapist/robber etc look like? That hitchhiker MAY look like an OK kind of guy...but appearences can be deceptive so I pass...literally.
Sorry, the days of giving lifts for me are long gone, and not for selfish reasons either! As for women travelling alone giving lifts....well, you need your head examined lady....
....meant in the best possible taste...
Puts me in mind of the much stated statement at the conclusion of the criminal trial...as in 'well, he doesn't look liker a murderer/rapist/robber etc' eliciting the response 'what does a murderer/rapist/robber etc look like? That hitchhiker MAY look like an OK kind of guy...but appearences can be deceptive so I pass...literally.
Sorry, the days of giving lifts for me are long gone, and not for selfish reasons either! As for women travelling alone giving lifts....well, you need your head examined lady....
....meant in the best possible taste...
Last edited by macadian; Dec 31st 2008 at 1:08 am.
#25
I was on my way into work today somewhere in the countryside between here and there. An old man flagged down the car, waving arms etc. So I stopped thinking he needed help. He actually wanted a lift to the town I was going to, duh. Said his car needed picking up. I was flummuxed and gave the old geezer a lift thinking the chances of him being dnagerous were slim. He reeked of alcohol, and he was going to the garage to collect his car, that's where I left him. 
So what would you have done?? In retrospect maybe I should have said no and told him to ring for a taxi.

So what would you have done?? In retrospect maybe I should have said no and told him to ring for a taxi.





