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Old Dec 30th 2008 | 2:27 pm
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Originally Posted by fledermaus
So what would you have done?? In retrospect maybe I should have said no and told him to ring for a taxi.
I would have given him a lift. I've picked up more than a few hitchhikers and have been one myself.

But I'm Canadian beaver and know how to remove nuts.
 
Old Dec 30th 2008 | 2:31 pm
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I would have given him a ride and not regretted it afterwards. Don't second guess yourself.
 
Old Dec 30th 2008 | 2:42 pm
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I would have given him a ride and not regretted it afterwards.

 
Old Dec 30th 2008 | 2:48 pm
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I would have given him a ride and not regretted it afterwards. Don't second guess yourself.
Rien, rien de rien, je ne regrette rien. Ni le mal, ni le bon.......<sings in a quavery frenchy way>
 
Old Dec 30th 2008 | 3:03 pm
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But I'm Canadian beaver and know how to remove nuts.
Wrong thread, peas. But entirely predictable anyway.
 
Old Dec 30th 2008 | 3:07 pm
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Wrong thread, peas. But entirely predictable anyway.

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Old Dec 30th 2008 | 9:31 pm
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Same happened to me but when he asked me where I was going I didnt reply I asked him where he was going so I was able to say I was going to turn off and wasnt going the same way.

It worked, quick wave, sorry bye

I always do this now, but I have met some nice people and gone out of my way to show them Beavers chewing their nuts off..
 
Old Dec 30th 2008 | 10:20 pm
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Normally I wouldn't stop for one lone man... but you said "old" and of course depending on how elderly, how cold out, I suspect that it would prick my conscience and I too would stop.

But then I'm the fool who hitched around Mexico in her 20s and a decade later regularly stopped for hitchhikers across Southern Africa... generally schoolchildren or women carrying baskets of goods to market, but there would sometimes be at least one opportunistic drunken male who'd also try to climb aboard and have to be fended off.
 
Old Dec 31st 2008 | 12:38 am
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I am afraid I am a victim of having experienced 'the real world' today in its many facets. I would not have stopped other than for someone who was known to me. Would I feel guilty for not stopping? Yes, but common sense would have prevailed...

Puts me in mind of the much stated statement at the conclusion of the criminal trial...as in 'well, he doesn't look liker a murderer/rapist/robber etc' eliciting the response 'what does a murderer/rapist/robber etc look like? That hitchhiker MAY look like an OK kind of guy...but appearences can be deceptive so I pass...literally.

Sorry, the days of giving lifts for me are long gone, and not for selfish reasons either! As for women travelling alone giving lifts....well, you need your head examined lady........meant in the best possible taste...

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Old Dec 31st 2008 | 6:16 am
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Originally Posted by fledermaus
I was on my way into work today somewhere in the countryside between here and there. An old man flagged down the car, waving arms etc. So I stopped thinking he needed help. He actually wanted a lift to the town I was going to, duh. Said his car needed picking up. I was flummuxed and gave the old geezer a lift thinking the chances of him being dnagerous were slim. He reeked of alcohol, and he was going to the garage to collect his car, that's where I left him.

So what would you have done?? In retrospect maybe I should have said no and told him to ring for a taxi.
We did this in the UK a few years ago. Whilst driving towards Wickham in Hampshire I saw a man fall down and insisted OH stop to make sure he was ok. Yes he was drunk but quite reserved with it and we offered to drive him home. He was quite sheepish about the whole event and once we dropped him off he just wandered off as though nothing had happened, not even a thank you. Put it down as our good deed for the day.
 

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