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:rofl: what a ruthless bunch you are!

Rixy only you know what you want in terms of where you want to live, but if I could give you my (admittedly biased) point of view. The UK is not the best place to be right now...the country is going to shit in terms of industry and government. It seem to be a pretty bleak place at the moment......Oh and Big Brother just started again :p

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Rixy you've got 2 threads on this. My guess is you are far more upset than you are making out, and you want reassurance that all will work out.

AS they say out west -"Cowboy up!"

Don't give her the power. Live where you want. Move west even.

I know it's human nature to pursue the the unobtainable - and I bet she's more desirable to you now than a few months ago (maybe I'm right, maybe I'm wrong, but my $20 is on being right!) - but you've got to make the decision.

Bottom line: your feelings are valid, but your reasoning may be off. Don't make a decision from pain: but do decide not to go beating yourself against a brick wall.

Here's a vid to make you smile:

NSFWhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=unkIVvjZc9Y

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Change your facebook status to single and looking. When done in such an official way you'll soon see her intentions.

But as others have said, it would be a shame to leave so soon without experiencing single life in Canada.

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Have a few of piss-ups that always helps.
Just don't do any drunk dialing or texting. ;)

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get on plenty-of -fish or similar singles sites and make new friends and perhaps some dates! Join an outdoor group or whatever your interests are..there is a whole world out there to explore and plenty of ladies to explore too !:thumbup: (I am a girl..I can say that)
bonne chance mon ami! It'll come together as long as you don't bury your head in the sand.

nic

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A dogging group?

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She is still deciding what she wants - why wait around for that? If you dislike where you are living, perhaps too many memories etc, then see if your company can transfer you to a different province.

She is playing with you...........it's hard if your heart is broken, but it will heal in time, but not while she still has you on a string. You will be left begging for the scraps from her table and that will never allow you to move on.

No one can tell you what to do, or how to feel, that decision is yours alone to make, but since you're looking for advice, mine would be move on and let her try life without you. You WILL find someone else, but you don't have to rush into anything, just concentrate on you for a bit and see how you go. But never allow yourself to be anyone's doormat, then not only love goes out the window, but it's quickly followed by respect.

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If you are just sticking around in Canada with the hope that you may get back together, it's probably best to leave--go teach English abroad. A little travel to an exotic place might not hurt, a new environment. It's a very bad sign that you guys still hang out, I think, and it reflects very poorly on her. Show her that you don't need her.

Moving to a different place doesn't, in itself, cure everything. But, the beaches are beautiful, and so are the women, here in Latin America.

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Not to mention a load off your mind.....:cool:

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Don't you mean relieve the pressure behind the eyeballs. ;)

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Yea...like a kind of myopic backwash.....:cool: