Internet Forums & Stalking....
#106
As a parent of teenagers, I am only too aware that they are way ahead of me when it comes to social media (I've never heard of Yik Yak Schnooks?) and am constantly warning them about putting too much of themselves out there, but I don't think even if you are being bullied it's as simple as staying away from the sites. In my day it may have been toilet walls rather than Internet sites, but not reading it didn't mean it wasn't there, with everyone else reading it.
Here's an article CTV did on it back in December: Thousands want gossip app Yik Yak shut down | CTV News
And here's another from CBC two weeks ago: Yik Yak app: Why schools are concerned - Technology & Science - CBC News
I was going to put a
thingy on this, but it's a curate's egg for me.
As you may have picked up from the tone of my responses, this discussion has touched a nerve. I, too, have experience of a child close to me (not my own) victimised online. It is a very difficult situation to manage. Of course they should be encouraged (and guided as necessary) to tighten security settings, and limit their friends/contacts/buddies to only people they know well and trust. But, as Teaandtoday pointed out a handful of posts back, that does not stop the comments being made, it merely prevents direct exposure to them. It is (or was, in the case I'm familiar with) less than half the battle, as the "real world" gossip is driven by online posts, regardless of whether the victims themselves read the online content.
thingy on this, but it's a curate's egg for me.As you may have picked up from the tone of my responses, this discussion has touched a nerve. I, too, have experience of a child close to me (not my own) victimised online. It is a very difficult situation to manage. Of course they should be encouraged (and guided as necessary) to tighten security settings, and limit their friends/contacts/buddies to only people they know well and trust. But, as Teaandtoday pointed out a handful of posts back, that does not stop the comments being made, it merely prevents direct exposure to them. It is (or was, in the case I'm familiar with) less than half the battle, as the "real world" gossip is driven by online posts, regardless of whether the victims themselves read the online content.
Originally Posted by Oakvillian
I don't know what advice I would give to my own children. Only one of them is old enough to have a significant online presence, and we have tried as much as we can to balance trust with oversight. That child doesn't do "general" social media such as facebook or instagram, and has agreed that we have a mirror of two email accounts on devices managed by parents. But there's a lot of peer pressure to allow collaborative online gaming, for example, which I am very wary of. Sharing a gaming session with one or two chosen friends on a console is one thing; something as public as joining a group on Clash of Clans, with its public and private messageboards, is something else entirely.
This thread has touched a nerve for me also. It was never cyber for me - luckily my bullying was before that - but it was still bullying over a 6-year period.
#107
Back to the OP, is it only me that doesn't have an account on any of the social media sites ... such as Facebook, linkden, Twitter, myspace, netlog, blogs or whatever else selfies like to do?
Is there a need for it, can folks live without it, then again BE is another social forum I suppose
I had to google to find what they are
http://webtrends.about.com/od/social...king-Sites.htm
Is there a need for it, can folks live without it, then again BE is another social forum I suppose
I had to google to find what they are
http://webtrends.about.com/od/social...king-Sites.htm
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#108
I don't have a facebook account.
I have a twitter account so that I can see what my brother is up to. I've never posted.
Obviously I have a blog , but it was set up for a specific reason/topic
I have a twitter account so that I can see what my brother is up to. I've never posted.
Obviously I have a blog , but it was set up for a specific reason/topic
#109
Back to the OP, is it only me that doesn't have an account on any of the social media sites ... such as Facebook, linkden, Twitter, myspace, netlog, blogs or whatever else selfies like to do?
Is there a need for it, can folks live without it, then again BE is another social forum I suppose
I had to google to find what they are
Top 15 Social Networking Sites You Should Be Using
Is there a need for it, can folks live without it, then again BE is another social forum I suppose
I had to google to find what they are
Top 15 Social Networking Sites You Should Be Using
#112
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I still have not figured out the interest in Twitter. Not sure I see what use it provides.
I had an account there but seemed to hacked into a fee times, pain really.
I had an account there but seemed to hacked into a fee times, pain really.
#113
Twitter is great for breaking local news and emergencies, weather alerts, traffic, specials at stores where you shop, and if you follow the right correspondents you can get news from around the world before it gets on the air anywhere else. It also (as Zoe mentioned) helps keep in touch with some distant friends and family.
#114
Specials at stores? The mind boggles.

It also helps keep in touch with some distant friends and family.
#115
Obviously you aren't familiar with the generic " annual family letter" of yore.
How was that any different. It was in fact pretty much exactly the photocopied letter you describe
How was that any different. It was in fact pretty much exactly the photocopied letter you describe
#116
You could follow some aircraft clubs or train clubs for instance. Whistler must tweet conditions, events etc. as Caretaker said, great for getting instant news and alerts.
#117

I can understand, for example, that the birth of a child could be announced this way but other stuff not so much.
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#119
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Twitter is great for breaking local news and emergencies, weather alerts, traffic, specials at stores where you shop, and if you follow the right correspondents you can get news from around the world before it gets on the air anywhere else. It also (as Zoe mentioned) helps keep in touch with some distant friends and family.
I use FB for that since none of my family is on twitter, so might explain why I don't see the use for it.
Makes sense though if you want news and such.
I suppose technology and me don't mix well, aside from old fashioned forums like this one,

I guess if I had unlimited data on the phone or a high limit, twitter might make sense. I keep my data off, but maybe one day, I'll become more in tune with twitter. It took me years to accept FB.
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#120
I imagine with about 5 minutes work people could probably get my real name and stuff but I'm not particularly fussed. Come round and say hello.




