Thanks to Robin (who I thought had disappeared) and all of the rest of you.

Thanks also for the pm's too

Gay

No, no, not disappeared......just in that time-waiting zone as Bandit said. Haven't really got alot to contribute and don't really need any info so just come on here to see how everyone is doing and catch up with the latest goss.

My condolences on your losses Gay.
Take care,
Yoong

So sorry to hear about your loss - sending you a virtual <hug>

Jo

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Well some of you will have read that Grandad actually passed this last week - blessing in disguise really as he had no quality of life and that was just not what he would have wanted.

Anyways.....

The part above about my girlfriend - I have finally gotten to the bottom of with the help of my good old mom and the story goes like this.

Pauline was working in a bar in the town where I used to live when someone rung and asked her to go home - she had left her 16 year old daughter at home and by all accounts there was quite a bit of noise coming from the house. I can only imagine that she was having a party with mom being out.

So Pauline goes home to sort her daughter out and her neighbour comes out giving her an earful about the noise but before she could go in the house and sort out her daughter then woman neighbour set on her beating her to the ground.

The part about the man holding her down whilst the woman kicked the sh it out of her is right I am afraid.

I find this totally mystifying how someone can end up dead after some noise caused by a child.

I myself do feel better now that I know exactly what happened to her and deep down I knew that someone who had known her well had done this to her as she was so well known in the area having been born and bred there. I just hope that justice is brought on these people and they get what they deserve for taking someones life away so brutally and abruptly.

Had to post what had happened as I like to tell the whole story and not just pieces.

Gay
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Woah - can't believe I missed this thread.

Firstly condolences for you and yours regarding your Grandad - as many have said it is an end to any suffering and you can at least rest easy knowing he is safe and happy now.

However regarding your friend - what complete f*****g moron would beat a mother to death over noise by a sixteen year old. This poor child now will have this to deal with for the rest of her life - god it makes me so angry that your buddy was doing the best she could to bring money in and raise her kids and some retard goes and ruins a whole families life because they don't have the eloquence to deal with it like adults.

My god its heartbreaking and I am so sorry for everything that you have - and are - going through.

I cannot do or say anything to change the situation and if I could I really really would - just to say I feel for you hun, stay strong