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PeachyGirl Aug 18th 2009 3:09 pm

I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
 
Hello guys
well im in a bit of a dilema,im unsure if i can go to austraila for good with my hubby because i have two kids ages between 5 and 7 and i dont have fulltime custod of them there dad does ,i have agreed with the boys to stay with him fulltime,i am wondering if i can leave the uk and go with my hubby to austrailia to live`
I aint sure who or where to ask so i thought id see if you guys had some advice
Im sure there is dad's who have kids in uk aged under 16 ,and they can leave country #???????????

carrieann8675 Aug 18th 2009 8:03 pm

Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
 
I am a parent with two kids the same age as yours and can't imagine why you would want to "leave them" in the country as you put it you talk about it like it's leaving a piece of furniture or something

lonndongeek Aug 18th 2009 9:45 pm

Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
 

Originally Posted by PeachyGirl (Post 7853822)
Hello guys
well im in a bit of a dilema,im unsure if i can go to austraila for good with my hubby because i have two kids ages between 5 and 7 and i dont have fulltime custod of them there dad does ,i have agreed with the boys to stay with him fulltime,i am wondering if i can leave the uk and go with my hubby to austrailia to live`
I aint sure who or where to ask so i thought id see if you guys had some advice
Im sure there is dad's who have kids in uk aged under 16 ,and they can leave country #???????????

Legally there's probably nothing to prevent you from moving to Australia.

No doubt the hordes will be along shortly to provide their moral opinion.

Cheers

Steve

quoll Aug 18th 2009 9:45 pm

Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
 
Sure you can - the only problem you have is if you want to take the children with you and your ex says you cant in which case they cant go and by inference you couldnt go either.

PamE Aug 19th 2009 2:02 am

Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
 

Originally Posted by carrieann8675 (Post 7854683)
I am a parent with two kids the same age as yours and can't imagine why you would want to "leave them" in the country as you put it you talk about it like it's leaving a piece of furniture or something

Gads that is a bit harsh don't you think? You don't know anything at all about OP circumstances. Also men do this all the time and nobody bats an eyelid, if OP was a man would you be so quick to judge? Even if so, again you know nothing about the circumstances. IMO, is just not constructive to be judgemental like that.

JAJ Aug 19th 2009 2:48 am

Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
 

Originally Posted by PeachyGirl (Post 7853822)
Hello guys
well im in a bit of a dilema,im unsure if i can go to austraila for good with my hubby because i have two kids ages between 5 and 7 and i dont have fulltime custod of them there dad does ,i have agreed with the boys to stay with him fulltime,i am wondering if i can leave the uk and go with my hubby to austrailia to live`
I aint sure who or where to ask so i thought id see if you guys had some advice
Im sure there is dad's who have kids in uk aged under 16 ,and they can leave country #???????????

See:
http://britishexpats.com/wiki/Medica...ating_Children

Is your husband Australian?

Pollyana Aug 19th 2009 4:21 am

Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
 

Originally Posted by JAJ (Post 7855522)

He posts on here - has recently had his PR granted.

JAJ Aug 19th 2009 4:39 am

Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
 

Originally Posted by Pollyana (Post 7855774)
He posts on here - has recently had his PR granted.


Is this a case where he married after visa grant? Or are spouse + children included on same visa?

Wjuicypeach Aug 19th 2009 8:58 am

Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
 

Originally Posted by carrieann8675 (Post 7854683)
I am a parent with two kids the same age as yours and can't imagine why you would want to "leave them" in the country as you put it you talk about it like it's leaving a piece of furniture or something

Totally agree................against all my morals, beliefs and every law of nature regarding what a "mother" should be.:thumbdown:

Pollyana Aug 19th 2009 10:11 am

Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
 

Originally Posted by JAJ (Post 7855824)
Is this a case where he married after visa grant? Or are spouse + children included on same visa?

From memory, he got PR alone, and his since met the lady and wants to sponsor her as his spouse.

Jen1977ni Aug 19th 2009 10:16 am

Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
 
She explains her situation here:

http://britishexpats.com/forum/showt...11#post7825411

moneypenny20 Aug 19th 2009 11:42 am

Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
 

Originally Posted by Wjuicypeach (Post 7856357)
Totally agree................against all my morals, beliefs and every law of nature regarding what a "mother" should be.:thumbdown:

But she wasn't asking for people's moral beliefs she was asking whether legally she was allowed to. This is the Immigration Forum, threads don't go off thread.

welshviking Aug 19th 2009 11:49 am

Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
 

Originally Posted by PamE (Post 7855430)
Gads that is a bit harsh don't you think? You don't know anything at all about OP circumstances. Also men do this all the time and nobody bats an eyelid, if OP was a man would you be so quick to judge? Even if so, again you know nothing about the circumstances. IMO, is just not constructive to be judgemental like that.

Exactly bloody right!!


Originally Posted by Wjuicypeach (Post 7856357)
Totally agree................against all my morals, beliefs and every law of nature regarding what a "mother" should be.:thumbdown:

Bloody hell chill out, that's a bit over the mark.

Wjuicypeach Aug 19th 2009 1:47 pm

Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
 

Originally Posted by welshviking (Post 7856669)
Exactly bloody right!!



Bloody hell chill out, that's a bit over the mark.

You have your opinion.......I have mine..........some women will do anything for a man, if only she was that enthusiastic about her kids.

jmh Aug 19th 2009 2:33 pm

Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
 
Just be warned, if you walk out on your kids now, you probably won't get them back. Fair or no, the courts will take a dim view of a mother who abandons her children to take off with her lover to the other side of the world. That's how they will see it, so be prepared for a backlash.


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