I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
#1
LivingTheDreamAndLove
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I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
Hello guys
well im in a bit of a dilema,im unsure if i can go to austraila for good with my hubby because i have two kids ages between 5 and 7 and i dont have fulltime custod of them there dad does ,i have agreed with the boys to stay with him fulltime,i am wondering if i can leave the uk and go with my hubby to austrailia to live`
I aint sure who or where to ask so i thought id see if you guys had some advice
Im sure there is dad's who have kids in uk aged under 16 ,and they can leave country #???????????
well im in a bit of a dilema,im unsure if i can go to austraila for good with my hubby because i have two kids ages between 5 and 7 and i dont have fulltime custod of them there dad does ,i have agreed with the boys to stay with him fulltime,i am wondering if i can leave the uk and go with my hubby to austrailia to live`
I aint sure who or where to ask so i thought id see if you guys had some advice
Im sure there is dad's who have kids in uk aged under 16 ,and they can leave country #???????????
#2
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Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
I am a parent with two kids the same age as yours and can't imagine why you would want to "leave them" in the country as you put it you talk about it like it's leaving a piece of furniture or something
#3
Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
Hello guys
well im in a bit of a dilema,im unsure if i can go to austraila for good with my hubby because i have two kids ages between 5 and 7 and i dont have fulltime custod of them there dad does ,i have agreed with the boys to stay with him fulltime,i am wondering if i can leave the uk and go with my hubby to austrailia to live`
I aint sure who or where to ask so i thought id see if you guys had some advice
Im sure there is dad's who have kids in uk aged under 16 ,and they can leave country #???????????
well im in a bit of a dilema,im unsure if i can go to austraila for good with my hubby because i have two kids ages between 5 and 7 and i dont have fulltime custod of them there dad does ,i have agreed with the boys to stay with him fulltime,i am wondering if i can leave the uk and go with my hubby to austrailia to live`
I aint sure who or where to ask so i thought id see if you guys had some advice
Im sure there is dad's who have kids in uk aged under 16 ,and they can leave country #???????????
No doubt the hordes will be along shortly to provide their moral opinion.
Cheers
Steve
#4
Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
Sure you can - the only problem you have is if you want to take the children with you and your ex says you cant in which case they cant go and by inference you couldnt go either.
#5
Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
Gads that is a bit harsh don't you think? You don't know anything at all about OP circumstances. Also men do this all the time and nobody bats an eyelid, if OP was a man would you be so quick to judge? Even if so, again you know nothing about the circumstances. IMO, is just not constructive to be judgemental like that.
#6
Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
Hello guys
well im in a bit of a dilema,im unsure if i can go to austraila for good with my hubby because i have two kids ages between 5 and 7 and i dont have fulltime custod of them there dad does ,i have agreed with the boys to stay with him fulltime,i am wondering if i can leave the uk and go with my hubby to austrailia to live`
I aint sure who or where to ask so i thought id see if you guys had some advice
Im sure there is dad's who have kids in uk aged under 16 ,and they can leave country #???????????
well im in a bit of a dilema,im unsure if i can go to austraila for good with my hubby because i have two kids ages between 5 and 7 and i dont have fulltime custod of them there dad does ,i have agreed with the boys to stay with him fulltime,i am wondering if i can leave the uk and go with my hubby to austrailia to live`
I aint sure who or where to ask so i thought id see if you guys had some advice
Im sure there is dad's who have kids in uk aged under 16 ,and they can leave country #???????????
http://britishexpats.com/wiki/Medica...ating_Children
Is your husband Australian?
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#9
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Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
Totally agree................against all my morals, beliefs and every law of nature regarding what a "mother" should be.
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#12
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But she wasn't asking for people's moral beliefs she was asking whether legally she was allowed to. This is the Immigration Forum, threads don't go off thread.
#13
Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
Gads that is a bit harsh don't you think? You don't know anything at all about OP circumstances. Also men do this all the time and nobody bats an eyelid, if OP was a man would you be so quick to judge? Even if so, again you know nothing about the circumstances. IMO, is just not constructive to be judgemental like that.
Bloody hell chill out, that's a bit over the mark.
#15
Re: I am a parent,dad has kids,can i leave country
Just be warned, if you walk out on your kids now, you probably won't get them back. Fair or no, the courts will take a dim view of a mother who abandons her children to take off with her lover to the other side of the world. That's how they will see it, so be prepared for a backlash.