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Re: We are thinking about Canada any advice please?
Originally Posted by JonboyE
(Post 8654496)
Not everyone can rustle up the few extra £100,000s needed to buy the new home, or the few extra £10,000s a year in income to pay the mortgage.
Originally Posted by JonboyE
(Post 8654496)
With the greatest of respect, I think it is very unfair of the simian one, who has told us that he earns an extremely good wedge, lives in a very pleasant part of SW London, and has no children, to constantly deride parents who are trying to do their best for their family as hypocrites.
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Re: We are thinking about Canada any advice please?
Originally Posted by el_richo
(Post 8654546)
Why thank you. :D
I very much doubt (although could be wrong) that a family who can only afford to live in a rough and run down part of the UK can afford to move to Canada and live in the complete opposite. . However many of those considering emigrating may well be better served by looking at their options closer to home. The UK is by no means exclusively a horrible place to live and raise kids. The bottom line is that happy parents are more likely to raise happy kids I think, and once the "lets move to Canada" genie has been let out of the lamp, its going to be hard to get it back in again. |
Re: We are thinking about Canada any advice please?
Originally Posted by JonboyE
(Post 8654614)
But do you think you parents would have taken the opportunity to move if they could, and if they thought it would have benefited you?
I still stand by my statement that parents should move for themselves before anything else. That said, i do believe this is actually the case and that parents don't actually see this. For example, parents who are perfectly happy , comfortable, and content with their lives would be far less likely to leave all of that behind and risk moving to another country "for the kids" than parents who are unhappy/discontented/etc.
Originally Posted by JonboyE
(Post 8654614)
I don't really agree with the "if it was good enough for me it should be good enough for you" argument. I am sure there were some children that survived the Victorian workhouses and made something of their lives. It is not a reason to bring back the workhouses. The world is more mobile now and people have more opportunity to try and find the best for their families. Why shouldn't they?
Originally Posted by JonboyE
(Post 8654614)
If letting their children play outside was the only reason for emigrating then maybe not. But it isn't. That said, I think many parents will put up with many things that make them unhappy if they think it is for their child's benefit.
But still, when i do have kids maybe i'll brain fart and retract my opinions on this :D . |
Re: We are thinking about Canada any advice please?
Originally Posted by iaink
(Post 8654642)
I couldnt afford to buy a house in Norwich on my Jnr Engineers pay. After I was recruited here I can afford 3/4 acre riverview property with 3 bedroom crap house on it. I admit I may not be typical, but in my area of work there were limited places I could work in the UK, and none paid enough to support a single income parenting ideal.
However many off those considering emigrating may well be better served by looking at their options closer to home. The UK is by no means exclusively a horrible place to live and raise kids. The bottom line is that happy parents are more likely to raise happy kids I think, and once the "lets move to Canada" genie has been let out of the lamp, its going to be hard to get it back in again. A larger property doesn't increase your childs opportunities, other than offering a larger garden to run around in, and more housework to be bribed into doing ;) I do very much agree with you regarding the happy parents part. And if the parents are happier living in Canada because of their false beliefs, then that's great. . |
Re: We are thinking about Canada any advice please?
Well thanks again for all of your comments. If nothing else i've given you lot something to talk about. I'll let you argue amonst yourselves and return when i have a question. Good luck to you all.:)
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Re: We are thinking about Canada any advice please?
Originally Posted by iaink
(Post 8654642)
I couldnt afford to buy a house in Norwich on my Jnr Engineers pay. After I was recruited here I can afford 3/4 acre riverview property with 3 bedroom crap house on it. I admit I may not be typical, but in my area of work there were limited places I could work in the UK, and none paid enough to support a single income parenting ideal.
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Re: We are thinking about Canada any advice please?
Originally Posted by el_richo
(Post 8654546)
Why thank you. :D
I very much doubt (although could be wrong) that a family who can only afford to live in a rough and run down part of the UK can afford to move to Canada and live in the complete opposite. That said, i lived in a rough and run down part of the UK for most of my childhood and young adult life so i guess my comments are based upon my own experiences. Myself and my parents allowed me to be who i am today, not the location. When reading posts from people on this site, many folk appear to live outside of these rough and run down areas where opportunities may or may not be limited. In fact, many of the posts i read appear to be from parents who are comfortable in the UK and may or may not be blinded by the media. I'm confident that parents living comfortably in the UK can offer their children just as much as they could in Canada. I do understand what you say about my lack of parental experience, however. A quick question for you. Is it conducive for unhappy parents remain in Canada because they're confident letting their children play outdoors, and appear to be enjoying themselves? . Also the public schools, even in the better areas, are often not much to sing about & the disrespect from many of kids you meet on the streets is dreadful. We scrimped to send ours to private school in London because our local school was so bad (we were not in a rough area by any stretch.) Here I don't feel the need to, the public system is just fine. I also disagree with the comment earlier about green space. Here in Calgary there is way, way more green space than in any UK city or town. Only those really out in the sticks would get as much as Calgary has to offer. Also the harsher winter climate does not mean you can't take advantage of those spaces. I think pretty much all communities have ice-rinks outdoors in winter, there are an abundance of hills for kids to toboggan down plus Bowness (& other similar ponds) to skate on (complete with pit fires, piped music & a quaint tea shop.) Not to mention there's COP for the beginner to learn to ski or snowboard before taking to the mountains to hone their skills. Those mountains also offer snowshoe trips or Husky pulled sledge adventures. Summer brings camping, rafting, hiking, horse riding, lazy day picnics in the many lovely parks or simple BBQ's on the deck. There is no way I would go back to my London life for all the tea in China. We are not better off here financially, at least not yet anyway as my hubbie's business is still in it's infancy :-) so I'm the main money earner but as far as quality of life goes we're miles & miles better off here. |
Re: We are thinking about Canada any advice please?
Originally Posted by RN1
(Post 8654786)
I also disagree with the comment earlier about green space. Here in Calgary there is way, way more green space than in any UK city or town.
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Re: We are thinking about Canada any advice please?
Originally Posted by Cape Blue
(Post 8654777)
Would that still be the case for a junior engineer today moving from the UK to Canada? I thought house price inflation and currency movements made Canada no longer any cheaper than the UK?
As a visitor now I find all the security cameras and paranoia about crime rather insidious, so doubt very much I would ever settle there again anyway, so its rather a moor point. My comments on green space were based on driving around bits of Surrey and Sheffield. Considering the reputation of the Greater London area as a concrete jungle and Sheffields as a post industrial wreck it was a wonder to see the abundance of parks, fields and public footpaths through otherwise private property. Ive been to Calgary in September, It was largely brown with the usual preponderance of North american housing and shopping tracts. While there are green spaces here, outside of the parks its hard to get decent access to them, there is little crown land near the cities, and much of the crown land has restricted access anyway due to lease agreements with logging companies and the like. I only visited a couple of junior schools on my visit, both "good" ones that parents had moved to particular areas in order to gain admission. It was immediatley obvious to me that they both had very good atmospheres and that the vast majority of kids were happy to be there and looking forward to the day. It was certainly something of an eye opener compared to my kids school here, but I will concede that in part thats likely due to the fact that far more parents walk or drop their kids off at school there, rather than the mass bussing from all over that happens here, so perhaps more of a sense of community? Schools vary by location anyway at the best of time though. |
Re: We are thinking about Canada any advice please?
Originally Posted by dbd33
(Post 8654800)
Not way more than in the London Borough of Westminster, I'll bet. And not green eleven months of the year.
Nope, still not going back to London:rofl: |
Re: We are thinking about Canada any advice please?
Originally Posted by RN1
(Post 8654942)
Yes, more - there was a recent stat that said Calgary has the most green space per Capita of any major city.
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Re: We are thinking about Canada any advice please?
Originally Posted by dbd33
(Post 8654954)
Got a link? I think that's gotta come from some Rah, Rah, Calgary publication as per capita is a peculiar way to measure it. By that standard the city including Fort McMoney, (Wood Buffalo, maybe?) or somewhere in the NWT ought to win; lots of space, few permanent residents.
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Re: We are thinking about Canada any advice please?
Originally Posted by iaink
(Post 8654957)
It was in the national media a week or two ago...Calgary Canadas greenest city etc...there was a thread here as I recall.
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Re: We are thinking about Canada any advice please?
Originally Posted by dbd33
(Post 8654969)
It wasn't on the BBC and google doesn't seem to find it. What's needed, I think, is the proportion by area of parkland in Calgary, something we can compare directly to London boroughs (assuming that is, that "Calgary" means the city itself and doesn't include fields on the edge).
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Re: We are thinking about Canada any advice please?
having green spaces only within city limits seems to be a biasing of 'survey criteria' to suggest some kind of desirable trait.
point is, Calgary is a city situated within an ocean of brown. vancouver (for example) by comparison doesn't need to have green space within its city limits, because it is situated within 'national park' like topography. and so Calgary is welcome to its little squares of grass; i live in Beautiful British Columbia :D |
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