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Old Apr 14th 2014, 4:37 pm
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Originally Posted by anders101
You make a good point Bristol. Each situation is unique and should be considered carefully. We are lucky that it falls in our favour!
Glad you took it the way I intended
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Old Apr 14th 2014, 6:55 pm
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Sorry you are going through this, I also went through it, lasted for 5 years before I had to leave, just couldnt take the insular attitudes anymore.

Good lucl in your adventures!
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Old Apr 14th 2014, 6:57 pm
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Originally Posted by dormy
Sorry you are going through this, I also went through it, lasted for 5 years before I had to leave, just couldnt take the insular attitudes anymore.

Good lucl in your adventures!
Thanks Dormy. Am just excited to get out and start living again!
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Default Re: Nova Scotia is sucking the life out of me!

Originally Posted by the undutchables
We are well known as a race of complainers who love to have something to moan about. How else can so many, living is very different parts of a country so large and diverse, have the same feelings of boredom and complain of having nothing to do.
Of course it could be that the moaners and complainers are more likely to frequent immigration forums while we never hear from the hordes of happy people who are out and about living their lives and generally enjoying themselves.
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I think it takes a certain type of person to appreciate NS and thankfully I'm not one of them
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Old Apr 14th 2014, 8:02 pm
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Originally Posted by AmyDavid
I think it takes a certain type of person to appreciate NS and thankfully I'm not one of them
Don't hold back now.
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I think it takes a certain type of person to appreciate NS and thankfully I'm not one of them
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Old Apr 14th 2014, 8:19 pm
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Originally Posted by AmyDavid
I think it takes a certain type of person to appreciate NS and thankfully I'm not one of them
Whatever that means If I remember right, this is the third province you've moved to. Hopefully this one has everything you're chasing after.
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Whatever that means If I remember right, this is the third province you've moved to. Hopefully this one has everything you're chasing after.
Thanks so much - that means a lot
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Old Apr 14th 2014, 8:27 pm
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If you scroll down this page you will see the Provincial tax table on earnings. Tax allowances do vary from Province to Province.

http://www.cra-arc.gc.ca/tx/ndvdls/fq/txrts-eng.html

Likewise your RRSP tax savings varies too, with higher taxed provinces receiving the bigger savings.

http://www.ey.com/CA/en/Services/Tax...4-RRSP-Savings
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Old Apr 14th 2014, 8:43 pm
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Originally Posted by Howefamily
does it include information about our minimum wage being amongst the highest?... I cant be bothered to look.

Where I lived before in the UK sucked the life out of me, nothing to do with the kids on the constant wet and overcast weekends all winter except hang out in a tiny house or go to a overwhelmingly loud indoor play centre with sticky carpets and obnoxious children, or go swimming - again loads of people shouting, this time in water. Here we can ski or play outside in the snow, or walk the trails. Its cold but we dont get soaked to the skin.

Back in the UK we could go to theatres once we found a sitter but it was too expensive. Or Legoland, but at GBP135 a shot for our family, I would rather not bother, its not good enough for the money. This is just an example or two of the commercial choices available.

Overall we did similiar things there all summer that we do here - spend time outside.
NS minimum wage being the highest??? Wow that's something to be proud of for sure, they need to do something to attempt to make people stay
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Old Apr 14th 2014, 8:49 pm
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Originally Posted by AmyDavid
I think it takes a certain type of person to appreciate NS and thankfully I'm not one of them

I totally agree, I'm not sure what type of person you have to be, but I'm certainly not one either lol
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Old Apr 14th 2014, 8:50 pm
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Thanks so much - that means a lot

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Default Re: Nova Scotia is sucking the life out of me!

Originally Posted by Howefamily
does it include information about our minimum wage being amongst the highest?... I cant be bothered to look.

Where I lived before in the UK sucked the life out of me, nothing to do with the kids on the constant wet and overcast weekends all winter except hang out in a tiny house or go to a overwhelmingly loud indoor play centre with sticky carpets and obnoxious children, or go swimming - again loads of people shouting, this time in water. Here we can ski or play outside in the snow, or walk the trails. Its cold but we dont get soaked to the skin.

Back in the UK we could go to theatres once we found a sitter but it was too expensive. Or Legoland, but at GBP135 a shot for our family, I would rather not bother, its not good enough for the money. This is just an example or two of the commercial choices available.

Overall we did similiar things there all summer that we do here - spend time outside.
I struggle to understand the 'we couldn't be outside in the UK because of the weather' I see occasionally on here. We're outside every weekend, no matter what the weathers doing. Do people really not go for a walk or a bike ride just because it's raining?

I also struggle to see why anybody would pay £135 for Legoland tickets when you can get them for free using Clubcard or Nectar points, or at least get free child & half price adult tickets on one of their frequent promotions. We used to have annual passes as it's only 15 mins from us, never paid a penny to go there though. Every day out we do is either free or heavily discounted (cinema tickets for £1 each tomorrow morning as a prime example).

Heck, in October we're spending a week in Morocco for free courtesy of Clubcard points, you be amazed what you can get with them!

I've only been to NS once and it seemed very nice, but can't imagine there's any more 'outdoorsy' stuff I'd do there than in the UK, or that taking the family out would be cheaper, particularly given the price of eating out there.

There are many arguments for NS I'm sure, but those two aren't convincing me somehow.

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Old Apr 14th 2014, 9:08 pm
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Default Re: Nova Scotia is sucking the life out of me!

Originally Posted by the undutchables
So, is the problem us expats, who are looking for something that doesn't exist? Or is it just Canada that is boring?

A couple of replies mentioned New Zealand being the same. So it must be the British attitude that's the problem? We do have a long history of traveling to foreign lands and trying to make them as much like Britain as possible. Perhaps we are just never content. We are well known as a race of complainers who love to have something to moan about. How else can so many, living is very different parts of a country so large and diverse, have the same feelings of boredom and complain of having nothing to do.
I think it boils down to this: Canada is not the UK. Canada is Canada. People are bored because Canada is not the UK.

Moving to Canada without appreciating the cultural, economic, social, geographical, and historical differences for what they are, rather than what they are not, is key.

Rather than criticize Canada for its differences, understand why those differences from the UK exist. Once you understand why the differences exist, and then accept those differences for what they are, you can adapt, and the differences no longer seem a nuisance or an annoyance.

There's also a lot of ignorance about Canada, and it seems that many fail to truly understand the the societal aspects of Canada before moving, or that this differs from region to region, even within a province.

I think many of the Canadian/UK cultural differences can often be explained from Canada's continental scale vs. the UK's tiny geography, and Canada's tiny population strewn across a vast continent compared to the population density of the UK. Other differences can explained by Canada's natural resource extraction economy and extreme climate, and its short colonial history compared to the UK's thousands of years of modern history. This is a massive oversimplification of course, but all plays a role in these two countries' differences.

One topic that comes to mind are the footpaths in the UK countryside. There is a reason these exist in the UK and not in Canada. Again, it can be explained by the factors mentioned above.

On paper, Canada may seem similar somewhat to the UK, but when you move, you'll discover that the people are different, they think differently, they value different things, they socialize differently, they acquire jobs differently, they plan their cities differently, they build their buildings differently, they shop differently, they eat differently, they style their hair differently, they listen to different music, they consume different media, they socialize differently, and so on.

There used to be a regular to the BE forum, Judy_in_Calgary, a true gem and a wise woman. She used to say, "look at Canada through an anthropological lens". In fact, it may be written in the Wiki under "culture shock". Either way, all I know is that if you look at Canada from "UK-tinted glasses", comparing it to how it is or how it isn't like the UK, but instead start understanding Canada in its own context, you'll likely be a whole lot happier.

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