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I've just spent some time reading through some of the threads posted here recently and felt that I had to comment - there are some people on this forum that, whenever anyone says they miss something about the UK, they jump down their throats and say things like "Why did you come here then?" and other such nonsense! There is no need for such nastiness and insensitivity on this forum. We're here to help each other through a process of adaptation to a new life.
I'm all for adapting to a new way of life in a new country, but there will always be things that I miss about the UK - Paxo stuffing, Bisto granules, pub grub, rugby, etc - but that doesn't mean I'm not 'making a go of it' here in Canada. Neither does it mean I'm thinking in the past or wishing I was elsewhere. To all those people who like to shoot others down for their opinions, GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE! Accept that just cos' you've lived here for 10 years or 10 minutes, it does not give you the right to put others down for their opinions or feelings! If you've given up on the UK so much and adopted the Canadian lifestyle, why are you on this forum???? Why keep any contact with British people? When you've lived somewhere for 20-30 years and move elsewhere, you don't just shut off that portion of your memory and thought processes. Of course as humans we look back - our experiences in the past make us who we are. So let's just think before we post nasty replies to people that put others down! As I said, we're here to support each other in what for many will be the biggest thing they ever do in life. Rant over! |
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Originally Posted by TrishB
there will always be things that I miss about the UK - Paxo stuffing, Bisto granules
Kind of like finding the Marmite in with the baking stuff as its "yeast" extract :confused: Clearly no idea what its actually for :rolleyes: Point taken about the rest of it though. Immigration isnt easy for everyone, and people have a right to moan. The trivial stuff shouldnt be a deal breaker if everything else falls into place. ! If you've given up on the UK so much and adopted the Canadian lifestyle, why are you on this forum???? Why keep any contact with British people? |
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Originally Posted by TrishB
I've just spent some time reading through some of the threads posted here recently and felt that I had to comment - there are some people on this forum that, whenever anyone says they miss something about the UK, they jump down their throats and say things like "Why did you come here then?" and other such nonsense! There is no need for such nastiness and insensitivity on this forum. We're here to help each other through a process of adaptation to a new life.
I'm all for adapting to a new way of life in a new country, but there will always be things that I miss about the UK - Paxo stuffing, Bisto granules, pub grub, rugby, etc - but that doesn't mean I'm not 'making a go of it' here in Canada. Neither does it mean I'm thinking in the past or wishing I was elsewhere. To all those people who like to shoot others down for their opinions, GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE! Accept that just cos' you've lived here for 10 years or 10 minutes, it does not give you the right to put others down for their opinions or feelings! If you've given up on the UK so much and adopted the Canadian lifestyle, why are you on this forum???? Why keep any contact with British people? When you've lived somewhere for 20-30 years and move elsewhere, you don't just shut off that portion of your memory and thought processes. Of course as humans we look back - our experiences in the past make us who we are. So let's just think before we post nasty replies to people that put others down! As I said, we're here to support each other in what for many will be the biggest thing they ever do in life. Rant over! |
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Tried to send you karma, Trish, but was told to spread it around some more. :)
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Internet forums attract a variety of opinion and comment and some inevitably will grate/upset/annoy. Don't let it get to you. The subject of this forum as it involves such a huge life change attracts extremes of opinion from 'Canada is a utopian paradise' to 'Canada is hell on earth and I moved back to England, phew what a relief.' The reality as we all know is somewhere in between for most of us.
I miss a lot of things about England. Mainly family and friends but also, proper British pubs and proper beer. This may sound trivial to some but its neverthess heartfelt. Does it mean I cant live here happily? No of course not, but they are a couple of things I miss. And I'm not alone. Mrs AX is a passionate Newfoundlander and loves this place dearly. Its because of her and my own love of the place I'm here too. But even she misses UK at times after living there for 5 years and its not at all beyond the bound of possibilities that we might go back some day as who knows whats going to happen in the long term. In the meantime we live life for the present. This forum is great as a source of information, companionship (that shared experience thing) and humour. But view it like meeting with a bunch of people in a pub. Not everyone you meet is going to be someone you want to be best friends with. My several cents, AX |
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Originally Posted by Atlantic Xpat
Internet forums attract a variety of opinion and comment and some inevitably will grate/upset/annoy. Don't let it get to you. The subject of this forum as it involves such a huge life change attracts extremes of opinion from 'Canada is a utopian paradise' to 'Canada is hell on earth and I moved back to England, phew what a relief.' The reality as we all know is somewhere in between for most of us.
I miss a lot of things about England. Mainly family and friends but also, proper British pubs and proper beer. This may sound trivial to some but its neverthess heartfelt. Does it mean I cant live here happily? No of course not, but they are a couple of things I miss. And I'm not alone. Mrs AX is a passionate Newfoundlander and loves this place dearly. Its because of her and my own love of the place I'm here too. But even she misses UK at times after living there for 5 years and its not at all beyond the bound of possibilities that we might go back some day as who knows whats going to happen in the long term. In the meantime we live life for the present. This place is great as a source of information, companionship (that shared experience thing) and humour. But view it like meeting with a bunch of people in a pub. Not everyone you meet is going to be someone you want to be best friends with. My several cents, AX |
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Excellent post Trish!! Karma sent.
Your tottally right in what you say no one likes a bloody know it all! |
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Originally Posted by iaink
Would you like me to send you some?, they have those two in our local supermarkets if you know where to look.
Kind of like finding the Marmite in with the baking stuff as its "yeast" extract :confused: Clearly no idea what its actually for :rolleyes: Point taken about the rest of it though. Immigration isnt easy for everyone, and people have a right to moan. The trivial stuff shouldnt be a deal breaker if everything else falls into place. Cos we have some real life experience of living in canada, and are happy to pass that on, rather than leave people at the mercy of the rose tinted crap in "canada news" when making this sort of monumental once a lifetime decision? Oh, the thought! Winnipeg - shops, malls, restaurants - civilisation!!!! |
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Originally Posted by TrishB
Oh, the thought! Winnipeg - shops, malls, restaurants - civilisation!!!!
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Originally Posted by Biiiiink
...but no Bisto granules, just the powder stuff :o
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Originally Posted by celine_uk
You can buy them in lowlaws but i dont think loblaws are in MB
(I have a tub of granules bought the other week in Blighty, I'm alright, just thinking of Trish ;) ) |
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Originally Posted by TrishB
Oh, the thought! Winnipeg - shops, malls, restaurants - civilisation!!!!
you know its not every day you see 'Winnipeg' and 'civilisation' in the same sentence :D |
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Originally Posted by TrishB
I've just spent some time reading through some of the threads posted here recently and felt that I had to comment - there are some people on this forum that, whenever anyone says they miss something about the UK, they jump down their throats and say things like "Why did you come here then?" and other such nonsense! There is no need for such nastiness and insensitivity on this forum. We're here to help each other through a process of adaptation to a new life.
I'm all for adapting to a new way of life in a new country, but there will always be things that I miss about the UK - Paxo stuffing, Bisto granules, pub grub, rugby, etc - but that doesn't mean I'm not 'making a go of it' here in Canada. Neither does it mean I'm thinking in the past or wishing I was elsewhere. To all those people who like to shoot others down for their opinions, GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE! Accept that just cos' you've lived here for 10 years or 10 minutes, it does not give you the right to put others down for their opinions or feelings! If you've given up on the UK so much and adopted the Canadian lifestyle, why are you on this forum???? Why keep any contact with British people? When you've lived somewhere for 20-30 years and move elsewhere, you don't just shut off that portion of your memory and thought processes. Of course as humans we look back - our experiences in the past make us who we are. So let's just think before we post nasty replies to people that put others down! As I said, we're here to support each other in what for many will be the biggest thing they ever do in life. Rant over! Here Here. :) willsend some karma Pennyhp |
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I think you are proposing a simple answer to a complex question.
I agree in general with what you have said about missing things from home being normal, but I think you also have to acknowledge that some people show an obvious attitude problem and should be told to go home. Deciding who falls in what category is a judgement call that each of us has to make. I don't see how what you have posted here is any different than what you are accusing others of doing Trish. "To all those people who like to shoot others down for their opinions, GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE!" Aren't you doing just that? "So let's just think before we post nasty replies to people that put others down!" That you haven't made these comments to an individual doesn't change the fact that you are indeed attempting to tell others what they should and should not post. Haven't I just attempted to tell you what you should and should not post? We all do it all the time. Not judging is extremely hard to do. |
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I completely agree Trish. You put it very well. Karma on its way. Chris
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Originally Posted by TrishB
I've just spent some time reading through some of the threads posted here recently and felt that I had to comment - there are some people on this forum that, whenever anyone says they miss something about the UK, they jump down their throats and say things like "Why did you come here then?" and other such nonsense! There is no need for such nastiness and insensitivity on this forum. We're here to help each other through a process of adaptation to a new life.
I'm all for adapting to a new way of life in a new country, but there will always be things that I miss about the UK - Paxo stuffing, Bisto granules, pub grub, rugby, etc - but that doesn't mean I'm not 'making a go of it' here in Canada. Neither does it mean I'm thinking in the past or wishing I was elsewhere. To all those people who like to shoot others down for their opinions, GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE! Accept that just cos' you've lived here for 10 years or 10 minutes, it does not give you the right to put others down for their opinions or feelings! If you've given up on the UK so much and adopted the Canadian lifestyle, why are you on this forum???? Why keep any contact with British people? When you've lived somewhere for 20-30 years and move elsewhere, you don't just shut off that portion of your memory and thought processes. Of course as humans we look back - our experiences in the past make us who we are. So let's just think before we post nasty replies to people that put others down! As I said, we're here to support each other in what for many will be the biggest thing they ever do in life. Rant over! Many thanks for expressing this so well. Take care, Sarah |
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Originally Posted by TrishB
I've just spent some time reading through some of the threads posted here recently and felt that I had to comment - there are some people on this forum that, whenever anyone says they miss something about the UK, they jump down their throats and say things like "Why did you come here then?" and other such nonsense! There is no need for such nastiness and insensitivity on this forum. We're here to help each other through a process of adaptation to a new life.
I'm all for adapting to a new way of life in a new country, but there will always be things that I miss about the UK - Paxo stuffing, Bisto granules, pub grub, rugby, etc - but that doesn't mean I'm not 'making a go of it' here in Canada. Neither does it mean I'm thinking in the past or wishing I was elsewhere. To all those people who like to shoot others down for their opinions, GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE! Accept that just cos' you've lived here for 10 years or 10 minutes, it does not give you the right to put others down for their opinions or feelings! If you've given up on the UK so much and adopted the Canadian lifestyle, why are you on this forum???? Why keep any contact with British people? When you've lived somewhere for 20-30 years and move elsewhere, you don't just shut off that portion of your memory and thought processes. Of course as humans we look back - our experiences in the past make us who we are. So let's just think before we post nasty replies to people that put others down! As I said, we're here to support each other in what for many will be the biggest thing they ever do in life. Rant over! |
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Originally Posted by Athome
I think you are proposing a simple answer to a complex question.
I agree in general with what you have said about missing things from home being normal, but I think you also have to acknowledge that some people show an obvious attitude problem and should be told to go home. Deciding who falls in what category is a judgement call that each of us has to make. I don't see how what you have posted here is any different than what you are accusing others of doing Trish. "To all those people who like to shoot others down for their opinions, GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE!" Aren't you doing just that? "So let's just think before we post nasty replies to people that put others down!" That you haven't made these comments to an individual doesn't change the fact that you are indeed attempting to tell others what they should and should not post. Haven't I just attempted to tell you what you should and should not post? We all do it all the time. Not judging is extremely hard to do. |
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Originally Posted by Athome
I think you are proposing a simple answer to a complex question.
I agree in general with what you have said about missing things from home being normal, but I think you also have to acknowledge that some people show an obvious attitude problem and should be told to go home. Deciding who falls in what category is a judgement call that each of us has to make. I don't see how what you have posted here is any different than what you are accusing others of doing Trish. "To all those people who like to shoot others down for their opinions, GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE!" Aren't you doing just that? "So let's just think before we post nasty replies to people that put others down!" That you haven't made these comments to an individual doesn't change the fact that you are indeed attempting to tell others what they should and should not post. Haven't I just attempted to tell you what you should and should not post? We all do it all the time. Not judging is extremely hard to do. |
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Originally Posted by flashman
Good point. If the pining becomes apparent to other people then it won't help establishing new friendships, getting a job etc.
Maybe once you have lived in Canada for 30 years you are more Canadian than you are British in your outlook and don't really understand how today's British immigrants feel. Constantly telling people to change their attitude and stop whining is insensitive and gets on people's nerves after a while. Chris |
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Originally Posted by Athome
I think you are proposing a simple answer to a complex question.
I agree in general with what you have said about missing things from home being normal, but I think you also have to acknowledge that some people show an obvious attitude problem and should be told to go home. Deciding who falls in what category is a judgement call that each of us has to make. I don't see how what you have posted here is any different than what you are accusing others of doing Trish. "To all those people who like to shoot others down for their opinions, GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE!" Aren't you doing just that? "So let's just think before we post nasty replies to people that put others down!" That you haven't made these comments to an individual doesn't change the fact that you are indeed attempting to tell others what they should and should not post. Haven't I just attempted to tell you what you should and should not post? We all do it all the time. Not judging is extremely hard to do. I don't believe I'm being judgemental or shooting anyone down directly by telling a faction on this forum to lay off people who may be feeling fragile and wish to reminisce about things from the UK that may help them to cope with being in a foreign country. I was referring to those individuals who immediately shoot folks down for making a simple comment about something they miss from home - if you'd been around on this forum long enough you would know that there have been many people who've held back from posting due to nasty comments made by some and others who haven't come back. Take it or leave it. |
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Originally Posted by Biiiiink
No, just Superstore and they only do the powder.
(I have a tub of granules bought the other week in Blighty, I'm alright, just thinking of Trish ;) ) Ohhh, lucky you!!! Are you about on the weekend of 24th-27th? I'm planning on heading into the big smoke!! Maybe meet up? |
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Originally Posted by MikeUK
you know its not every day you see 'Winnipeg' and 'civilisation' in the same sentence :D
You try Red Lake for a while - anywhere else is civilised!!! |
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Originally Posted by TrishB
Ohhh, lucky you!!! Are you about on the weekend of 24th-27th? I'm planning on heading into the big smoke!! Maybe meet up?
I'll share my haggis with you, but the Bisto's mine. Hands off :D |
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Originally Posted by TrishB
You try Red Lake for a while - anywhere else is civilised!!!
I've driven along the highway below you near Vermillion Bay... my wife got caught speeding in Dryden Very picturesque, but civilization is a long long drive away I fully understand |
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Originally Posted by Athome
I think you are proposing a simple answer to a complex question.
I agree in general with what you have said about missing things from home being normal, but I think you also have to acknowledge that some people show an obvious attitude problem and should be told to go home. Deciding who falls in what category is a judgement call that each of us has to make. I don't see how what you have posted here is any different than what you are accusing others of doing Trish. "To all those people who like to shoot others down for their opinions, GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE!" Aren't you doing just that? "So let's just think before we post nasty replies to people that put others down!" That you haven't made these comments to an individual doesn't change the fact that you are indeed attempting to tell others what they should and should not post. Haven't I just attempted to tell you what you should and should not post? We all do it all the time. Not judging is extremely hard to do. |
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Originally Posted by MikeUK
I've driven along the highway below you near Vermillion Bay... my wife got caught speeding in Dryden
Very picturesque, but civilization is a long long drive away I fully understand |
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I've hardly read any posts for quite some time now and I rarely come on here anymore:
Such a lot of bickering goes on; such a lot of cr*p is spoken by people who appear to be on a different planet to the rest of us; such a lack of friendliness; such a lot of "I know better than you.......even though I still live in the UK and have visited Canada for 20 minutes in the whole of my lifetime"; such a lot of smart-asses who live here and think they know everything about everyone's situation or location; such a lot of plain nasty people; such a lot who take every opportunity to put down anyone who disagrees with them; such a lot of miserable and ignorant gits; I miss the nice friendly people who are helpful, provide thoughtful reasoning combined with interesting debates - of course this sector of the forum are the majority, but as always, the minority shouts loudest. I do wonder why some people even bother to come on here anymore. I used to feel that as I was helped so much by some lovely people on here, that it was now my turn to help others as I may have some useful information or experience to pass onto those who are still in the process, or at the start of their life-changing experience, but lately I have no idea what is going on here .......... hence my semi-retirement from this place. I enjoy the PM's some of you guys send me and I love to hear how everyone is getting on, but to be frank, on the occasional visits into this forum, fills me with wonder. I have a fantastic life here in Canada; I wouldn't change anything for the world, although if anyone wants to donate a REAL Cadbury's Whole Nut and a packet of Dark Chocolate Homewheat then I won't say no! The point is, my real life is so darned good, that coming on here is like reading Nostra Damus! Anyway, well said Trish - you are right everyone should be entitled to have their say without fear of someone jumping down their throat and telling them what they should feel or what they should eat or how they should lead their lives. Everyone is unique - can't we all just accept that and let those who wish to wallow, enjoy their wallowing; and those who are living on air and excitement, flourish? |
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^^You sound a lot like Glaswegian & wife. Do you recall them?
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Originally Posted by Tiaribbon
I've hardly read any posts for quite some time now and I rarely come on here anymore:
Such a lot of bickering goes on; such a lot of cr*p is spoken by people who appear to be on a different planet to the rest of us; such a lack of friendliness; such a lot of "I know better than you.......even though I still live in the UK and have visited Canada for 20 minutes in the whole of my lifetime"; such a lot of smart-asses who live here and think they know everything about everyone's situation or location; such a lot of plain nasty people; such a lot who take every opportunity to put down anyone who disagrees with them; such a lot of miserable and ignorant gits; I miss the nice friendly people who are helpful, provide thoughtful reasoning combined with interesting debates - of course this sector of the forum are the majority, but as always, the minority shouts loudest. I do wonder why some people even bother to come on here anymore. I used to feel that as I was helped so much by some lovely people on here, that it was now my turn to help others as I may have some useful information or experience to pass onto those who are still in the process, or at the start of their life-changing experience, but lately I have no idea what is going on here .......... hence my semi-retirement from this place. I enjoy the PM's some of you guys send me and I love to hear how everyone is getting on, but to be frank, on the occasional visits into this forum, fills me with wonder. I have a fantastic life here in Canada; I wouldn't change anything for the world, although if anyone wants to donate a REAL Cadbury's Whole Nut and a packet of Dark Chocolate Homewheat then I won't say no! The point is, my real life is so darned good, that coming on here is like reading Nostra Damus! Anyway, well said Trish - you are right everyone should be entitled to have their say without fear of someone jumping down their throat and telling them what they should feel or what they should eat or how they should lead their lives. Everyone is unique - can't we all just accept that and let those who wish to wallow, enjoy their wallowing; and those who are living on air and excitement, flourish? I start fulltime work next week anyway, so doubt I'll ever be bored enough to resort to even checking this place out for much longer. Hi, to all my friends..... they know who they are! :D *winks at Tia* |
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I think it's quite normal being homesick from time to time.
We shall not forget or erase our roots and the lovely memories, our childhood and the things we loved once. :) |
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Originally Posted by Lillyhamster
I think it's quite normal being homesick from time to time.
We shall not forget or erase our roots and the lovely memories, our childhood and the things we loved once. :) Nor would you want to erase those wonderful memories. They are something to pass on to your children, grandchildren, etc. Although I was born and raised in Canada, my parents were born and raised in Ireland and Poland. We have spent two years discovering our "roots" in the old countries and it was a wonderful joyous experience to understand "where we came from" and Im very proud of what my parents and grandparents accomplished in Canada while never forgetting the country that was home at one time. |
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Originally Posted by willmore
Nor would you want to erase those wonderful memories. They are something to pass on to your children, grandchildren, etc.
Although I was born and raised in Canada, my parents were born and raised in Ireland and Poland. We have spent two years discovering our "roots" in the old countries and it was a wonderful joyous experience to understand "where we came from" and Im very proud of what my parents and grandparents accomplished in Canada while never forgetting the country that was home at one time. We use to watch our videos and such "nostalgic" stuff ;) ...and not to forget Grandma's old-fashioned cake-recipes! You can't buy anything like this anywhere in the world, it's a traditional thingy and I love it! We wouldn't be what we are with no "history" and it's always nice to share our feelings with other expats, isn't it?! |
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Can you really get Marmite over there????
The only way I can get it is from the British Shop (and I'm not paying those prices) or smuggled in via family and friends. Kind of like finding the Marmite in with the baking stuff as its "yeast" extract :confused: Clearly no idea what its actually for :rolleyes: |
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Originally Posted by Wild George
Can you really get Marmite over there????
The only way I can get it is from the British Shop (and I'm not paying those prices) or smuggled in via family and friends. Kind of like finding the Marmite in with the baking stuff as its "yeast" extract :confused: Clearly no idea what its actually for :rolleyes: Yes Marmite is readily available in I would guess virtually every Safeway, Superstore and Co-op in Calgary. Cheers Steve |
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It sure looks like I'm gonna miss the Sunday Times. I saw one today for sale in a Chapters store. Over $10!
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I used to miss tripe, trotters and pig snouts but I got over it.
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Originally Posted by flashman
I used to miss tripe, trotters and pig snouts but I got over it.
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I won't miss marmite that's for sure :D
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Originally Posted by oceanMDX
^^You sound a lot like Glaswegian & wife. Do you recall them?
I was just thinking the very same!!!! What happened to them? I loved their input on this site. Linda |
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