Would you forgive an affair?...............
Mar 31st 2010 | 10:37 pm
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Would you forgive an affair?...............
Well, would you?
No, Mr SC hasn't had an affair and isn't planning to either (so he says
) and no, I haven't had an affair either. Just wondering like 
When I say affair, I mean one night stand, short affair, long affair, two night stand, or whatever.
For me, it would depend on the circumstances.
No, Mr SC hasn't had an affair and isn't planning to either (so he says
) and no, I haven't had an affair either. Just wondering like When I say affair, I mean one night stand, short affair, long affair, two night stand, or whatever.
For me, it would depend on the circumstances.
Mar 31st 2010 | 10:42 pm
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Re: Would you forgive an affair?...............
Well, would you?
No, Mr SC hasn't had an affair and isn't planning to either (so he says) and no, I haven't had an affair either. Just wondering like
When I say affair, I mean one night stand, short affair, long affair, two night stand, or whatever.
For me, it would depend on the circumstances.
No, Mr SC hasn't had an affair and isn't planning to either (so he says
) and no, I haven't had an affair either. Just wondering like When I say affair, I mean one night stand, short affair, long affair, two night stand, or whatever.
For me, it would depend on the circumstances.
Mar 31st 2010 | 10:46 pm
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Re: Would you forgive an affair?...............
Maybe...
However, with my previous partner I found that he had been spending hours a day looking at porn. For me, that was much harder to forgive. In fact I never did.
However, with my previous partner I found that he had been spending hours a day looking at porn. For me, that was much harder to forgive. In fact I never did.
Mar 31st 2010 | 10:55 pm
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Re: Would you forgive an affair?...............
Well, would you?
No, Mr SC hasn't had an affair and isn't planning to either (so he says) and no, I haven't had an affair either. Just wondering like
When I say affair, I mean one night stand, short affair, long affair, two night stand, or whatever.
For me, it would depend on the circumstances.
No, Mr SC hasn't had an affair and isn't planning to either (so he says
) and no, I haven't had an affair either. Just wondering like When I say affair, I mean one night stand, short affair, long affair, two night stand, or whatever.
For me, it would depend on the circumstances.
Mar 31st 2010 | 10:56 pm
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Re: Would you forgive an affair?...............
Im sure i would forgiver her,im not sure her husband/boyfriend would though
Mar 31st 2010 | 10:59 pm
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Mar 31st 2010 | 11:00 pm
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Re: Would you forgive an affair?...............
they call him Mr Ro Ro Romantic ... 
I think the further down the road of life you travel together, maybe the less likely you are to separate. You have so much more holding you together especially if you have children. I think that there are more things (family, house, dog, car, money!!) to be taken into account in that case than if you haven't been together too long.
So I suppose as SC says, depends on the circumstances. Really couldn't say until it happened to me (let's hope not)
[oops was that one of those posts people hate "sorry I can't help you, just wanted to say hi!with lots of smilies
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cheers
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I think the further down the road of life you travel together, maybe the less likely you are to separate. You have so much more holding you together especially if you have children. I think that there are more things (family, house, dog, car, money!!) to be taken into account in that case than if you haven't been together too long.
So I suppose as SC says, depends on the circumstances. Really couldn't say until it happened to me (let's hope not)
[oops was that one of those posts people hate "sorry I can't help you, just wanted to say hi!with lots of smilies
")cheers
shears
Mar 31st 2010 | 11:03 pm
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Re: Would you forgive an affair?...............
Can't tar everyone with the same brush some people have self control and morals.
Would you hang around to find out?
Mar 31st 2010 | 11:03 pm
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Re: Would you forgive an affair?...............
Why? Was it just the length of time?
40% of blokes have looked/look at internet porn.
An affair is far far worse imo.
Mar 31st 2010 | 11:08 pm
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Re: Would you forgive an affair?...............
Dunno. I was devastated. I think it was because women in porn are just so perfect, whereas had he shagged the fat, grumpy old bird from the pub I wouldn't have felt so, well, inadequate...
Mar 31st 2010 | 11:12 pm
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Re: Would you forgive an affair?...............
But yes the standard of the birds in online porn has improved greatly over the years, picture quality too.
Mar 31st 2010 | 11:15 pm
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Re: Would you forgive an affair?...............
No
Mar 31st 2010 | 11:16 pm
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Mar 31st 2010 | 11:17 pm
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Maybe it's different for men, although I do wonder how men would feel if they caught their wives ogling fit blokes online whilst, well, you know...
Mar 31st 2010 | 11:18 pm
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