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#406
Originally Posted by DebraH
do you know - I have mate who's cousin is 42 and is pregnant - her other children are all grown up now - mad or what
OMG :scared: She needs certifying
I couldn't imagine having any more and I'm only 34, it's hard enough when you are young and have the energy for it !!
#407
Originally Posted by geordie mandy
Are you still drinking bud, Jackie?
Mandy
Mandy
#408
Originally Posted by DebraH
do you know - I have mate who's cousin is 42 and is pregnant - her other children are all grown up now - mad or what
My hubby's cousion had her youngest at 45. she is the same age as my eldest and her mum looks haggered. Both her elder two boys left home.
i think she is finding it hard.
Mandy
#409
Originally Posted by WendyC
OMG :scared: She needs certifying
I couldn't imagine having any more and I'm only 34, it's hard enough when you are young and have the energy for it !!
I couldn't imagine having any more and I'm only 34, it's hard enough when you are young and have the energy for it !!
that reminds me i mean to watch that 18-30's programme was that on tonight
#410
It gets me as to why these women who are in their 50's and 60's get pregnant! Now that is complete madness!
mmm. brings back memories of an 80's pop group with baggy trousers lol.
mmm. brings back memories of an 80's pop group with baggy trousers lol.
#411
Originally Posted by WendyC
OMG :scared: She needs certifying
I couldn't imagine having any more and I'm only 34, it's hard enough when you are young and have the energy for it !!
I couldn't imagine having any more and I'm only 34, it's hard enough when you are young and have the energy for it !!
im 36 and nights like last night nearly finished me, i would not have the energy to have a baby at my age no way.
Mandy
#412
Originally Posted by DebraH
Yeah, I didn't have my eldest until I was 31, but then I never married until I was 29 - having too much of a good time before hand
that reminds me i mean to watch that 18-30's programme was that on tonight
that reminds me i mean to watch that 18-30's programme was that on tonight
#413
Originally Posted by geordie mandy
im 36 and nights like last night nearly finished me, i would not have the energy to have a baby at my age no way.
Mandy
Mandy
#414
Originally Posted by Mrs JFW
I had my first child a couple of months before my 30th birthday. Little lad came 5 years later.....a complete suprise! 

it took me 7 years to fall on, the drs told me i could not have kids. Bah what do they know!
Mandy
#415
Originally Posted by Mrs JFW
I had my first child a couple of months before my 30th birthday. Little lad came 5 years later.....a complete suprise! 

#416
Originally Posted by DebraH
i suppose it depends on circumstance, a lot of my friends from school had children early - while I was off on foreign hols and generally having a good time. the friends that i have now - most of them had children in their late twenties/early 30s - mainly because of their jobs 

#417
Originally Posted by Mrs JFW
It gets me as to why these women who are in their 50's and 60's get pregnant! Now that is complete madness!
mmm. brings back memories of an 80's pop group with baggy trousers lol.
mmm. brings back memories of an 80's pop group with baggy trousers lol.

got to go now girls, bed is calling see you all tomorrow
#418
Originally Posted by DebraH
no shocks for me, just took me ages to get pregnant with the second
#419
Originally Posted by DebraH
i loved madness
got to go now girls, bed is calling see you all tomorrow
got to go now girls, bed is calling see you all tomorrow

#420
Originally Posted by Mrs JFW
I know some of my friends from school have kids in their 20's. I just can't imagine that! My best friend at school got pregnant with her first child at 17. I was so sad for her cos the relationship she had with the childs father was doomed from the outset. Once she had the baby we sort of drifted apart because we were both doing completely different things. Very sad! 

Most of my friends have only started having kids over the past 5 years. it was like when we first got married i was just over 20 and they were foot loose and fancy free but i was happy to be married. When i met my OH while i was at 6th form and he had just joined the army our friends thought we were mad.
Mandy






