Is there something wrong with me??
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Am I a bad person because I don't want to grow my own fruit and 'veggies' - I just want to go to the shops and buy them - feel like I have stepped back in time - my god all the girls my age at work are knitting and having tupperware parties - I feel like I am in a time warp! Is all Australia like this or just here in Canberra? Help!!
I see some of those other pastimes not as a time warp but as making something and being creative. Some of our friends are top-notch designers who design and make cars but they also design other things too and teach their children to be creative. In my opinion, it's the people stuck in front of plasmas and in huge wasteful houses are weird!
But what you say is not true of all Australians.
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Permaculture is pretty big where I live too... I have gone "all green" since moving here..
I was listening to one speaker telling us how to plant up our backyards for food and she started slagging off those who want a nice green lawn or block paving with the 4x4 on the drive.. total green snob I thought.. nothing wrong with having a patch of grass for the kids to kick a football about on, is there?!
I was listening to one speaker telling us how to plant up our backyards for food and she started slagging off those who want a nice green lawn or block paving with the 4x4 on the drive.. total green snob I thought.. nothing wrong with having a patch of grass for the kids to kick a football about on, is there?!
Permaculture and the like is optional and still in a minority in a place where people have acres and acres and could choose to do what they like with all that space but people do!
Clothing - I would still buy these as long as they are available and buy few clothes of good quality that last.
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Am I a bad person because I don't want to grow my own fruit and 'veggies' - I just want to go to the shops and buy them - feel like I have stepped back in time - my god all the girls my age at work are knitting and having tupperware parties - I feel like I am in a time warp! Is all Australia like this or just here in Canberra? Help!!
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I don't think growing your own veg and knitting your own jumpers is ' backward'...I'd call it being self sufficient which is actually great feeling.
Having siad that, nobody should feel pressured to join a lifestyle which is not ' them', personally though I can't wait to grow my own salad ingredients and finally watch the tomatoes ripen before they drown in the Irish rain.
Society has a warped view of what is ' backward'. Old fashioned it may be , but definately ' forward' in my view.
Mrs Ozbaz
Having siad that, nobody should feel pressured to join a lifestyle which is not ' them', personally though I can't wait to grow my own salad ingredients and finally watch the tomatoes ripen before they drown in the Irish rain.
Society has a warped view of what is ' backward'. Old fashioned it may be , but definately ' forward' in my view.
Mrs Ozbaz
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Ems. You've got me thinking...I've got a large back yard (abt 1200 sq yards). Think its a quarter acre. Ive got a couple of banana trees, an orange tree and a passion fruit tree. Ive been trying to pretty it up but I think I could maybe manage a veggy plot. Dont know if I'd be successful but worth a try.
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Ems. You've got me thinking...I've got a large back yard (abt 1200 sq yards). Think its a quarter acre. Ive got a couple of banana trees, an orange tree and a passion fruit tree. Ive been trying to pretty it up but I think I could maybe manage a veggy plot. Dont know if I'd be successful but worth a try.
I'll be honest.. they usually just die on me ! 
It goes wrong for me a lot... green fingers? nah! lol! but I do know that if you carry on and on, of course as with anything in life, you learn and you get better... the best advice I was ever told over here in Queensland is to grow European veggies in Winter here and Asian veggies in Summer..
I also live right next to the beach so have found that raised beds are the way forward..
Give it a go F... if it all goes tits up, then so be it, however I have managed to grow cauliflowers, various herbs, lettuces (rather successfully ? they must like the climatic.. tis certainly not the gardeners expertise! haha), tomatoes, brown onions, beetroot and some shallots and strawberries... its all been bloody pot luck.. can't call it anything else!

Em x
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I don't think growing your own veg and knitting your own jumpers is ' backward'...I'd call it being self sufficient which is actually great feeling. Having siad that, nobody should feel pressured to join a lifestyle which is not ' them', personally though I can't wait to grow my own salad ingredients and finally watch the tomatoes ripen before they drown in the Irish rain.
Society has a warped view of what is ' backward'. Old fashioned it may be , but definately ' forward' in my view.
Mrs Ozbaz
Society has a warped view of what is ' backward'. Old fashioned it may be , but definately ' forward' in my view.
Mrs Ozbaz

Em x
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If I started getting chickens and growing veggies my friends back in the UK(and daughter for that matter) would think I had really cracked up - I wouldn't see them for dust - no thank you very much, I like to move with the times - don't want to go backwards (in my opinion)!

Onward and upwards, forward you must go
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If I started getting chickens and growing veggies my friends back in the UK(and daughter for that matter) would think I had really cracked up - I wouldn't see them for dust - no thank you very much, I like to move with the times - don't want to go backwards (in my opinion)!
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Crap soil is no excuse!
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Just find people like you. I have never been one of those who discussed children, knitting, sewing, cooking etc and I have surrounded myself with friends who are the same as me. There are plenty of women in Australia who are like me and my friends. I do have children but of the opinion that although they were interesting to me they may not be to other people. 
I have brought my daughter up like me and she is anti all that stuff too.
No girls in the kitchen and boys at the barbie for me and I have lived here over 30 years now.

I have brought my daughter up like me and she is anti all that stuff too.
No girls in the kitchen and boys at the barbie for me and I have lived here over 30 years now.
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That was one reason I moved to Oz, to be able to get somewhere with some space so I can be as self reliant as possible.
So far I am in a rental so just have a few fruit trees, a worm farm and a couple of chickens. But it is a start
I have found there are less people here into that type of thing than I expected.
So far I am in a rental so just have a few fruit trees, a worm farm and a couple of chickens. But it is a start

I have found there are less people here into that type of thing than I expected.







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