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Old Oct 16th 2009 | 7:22 pm
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Originally Posted by kendalanita
Am I a bad person because I don't want to grow my own fruit and 'veggies' - I just want to go to the shops and buy them - feel like I have stepped back in time - my god all the girls my age at work are knitting and having tupperware parties - I feel like I am in a time warp! Is all Australia like this or just here in Canberra? Help!!
The only people I know (including ourselves) who grow veggies are those who have the space to do so, or are enlightened enough to do so.

I see some of those other pastimes not as a time warp but as making something and being creative. Some of our friends are top-notch designers who design and make cars but they also design other things too and teach their children to be creative. In my opinion, it's the people stuck in front of plasmas and in huge wasteful houses are weird!

But what you say is not true of all Australians.
 
Old Oct 16th 2009 | 7:27 pm
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Originally Posted by emelems
Permaculture is pretty big where I live too... I have gone "all green" since moving here..

I was listening to one speaker telling us how to plant up our backyards for food and she started slagging off those who want a nice green lawn or block paving with the 4x4 on the drive.. total green snob I thought.. nothing wrong with having a patch of grass for the kids to kick a football about on, is there?!
I agree with all that - where we are people do it all - they have shedding, boats, plasmas, animals, stock, veggie gardens, lawns, flower gardens and pools.

Permaculture and the like is optional and still in a minority in a place where people have acres and acres and could choose to do what they like with all that space but people do!

Clothing - I would still buy these as long as they are available and buy few clothes of good quality that last.
 
Old Oct 16th 2009 | 8:18 pm
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Originally Posted by kendalanita
Am I a bad person because I don't want to grow my own fruit and 'veggies' - I just want to go to the shops and buy them - feel like I have stepped back in time - my god all the girls my age at work are knitting and having tupperware parties - I feel like I am in a time warp! Is all Australia like this or just here in Canberra? Help!!
The Ozzie (educated and well travelled) wife says that sadly Australia is well behind the times, going to europe is like watching the BBC programme "Click", LIVE !
 
Old Oct 16th 2009 | 9:18 pm
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Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus
Thanks.. but I prefer my garden to look like a garden and not an old tyre yard.
you could get some hippies to paint flowers on them?

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Old Oct 16th 2009 | 10:13 pm
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I don't think growing your own veg and knitting your own jumpers is ' backward'...I'd call it being self sufficient which is actually great feeling.
Having siad that, nobody should feel pressured to join a lifestyle which is not ' them', personally though I can't wait to grow my own salad ingredients and finally watch the tomatoes ripen before they drown in the Irish rain.
Society has a warped view of what is ' backward'. Old fashioned it may be , but definately ' forward' in my view.

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Old Oct 16th 2009 | 10:17 pm
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Originally Posted by framac67
We have a shop called "Needleworx" and yep, its choc-a-block and the markets have knitted quilts to prove it.

Ps. ssshhhhh. also they little dolls for putting a toilet roll under the skirt.
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Old Oct 16th 2009 | 10:23 pm
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Originally Posted by emelems
you could get some hippies to paint flowers on them?

Em x
Ems. You've got me thinking...I've got a large back yard (abt 1200 sq yards). Think its a quarter acre. Ive got a couple of banana trees, an orange tree and a passion fruit tree. Ive been trying to pretty it up but I think I could maybe manage a veggy plot. Dont know if I'd be successful but worth a try.
 
Old Oct 16th 2009 | 10:25 pm
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Originally Posted by scottishcelts
- that is so wrong
This place is still "country" in many ways SC. Good and bad but good outweighs bad.
 
Old Oct 16th 2009 | 11:15 pm
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Originally Posted by framac67
Ems. You've got me thinking...I've got a large back yard (abt 1200 sq yards). Think its a quarter acre. Ive got a couple of banana trees, an orange tree and a passion fruit tree. Ive been trying to pretty it up but I think I could maybe manage a veggy plot. Dont know if I'd be successful but worth a try.
You know what? I come from a very long line of success gardeners... and of course i am the worlds worst! haha! However, my Dad and my Nan (plus great Nan) have given me the confidence to just bung in the seeds into a tray and hope.. then re-plant them into a "patch" and hope... then wait until the plant goes to seed, collect the seeds and then start again! I'll be honest.. they usually just die on me !

It goes wrong for me a lot... green fingers? nah! lol! but I do know that if you carry on and on, of course as with anything in life, you learn and you get better... the best advice I was ever told over here in Queensland is to grow European veggies in Winter here and Asian veggies in Summer..

I also live right next to the beach so have found that raised beds are the way forward..

Give it a go F... if it all goes tits up, then so be it, however I have managed to grow cauliflowers, various herbs, lettuces (rather successfully ? they must like the climatic.. tis certainly not the gardeners expertise! haha), tomatoes, brown onions, beetroot and some shallots and strawberries... its all been bloody pot luck.. can't call it anything else!

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Originally Posted by ozbaz
I don't think growing your own veg and knitting your own jumpers is ' backward'...I'd call it being self sufficient which is actually great feeling. Having siad that, nobody should feel pressured to join a lifestyle which is not ' them', personally though I can't wait to grow my own salad ingredients and finally watch the tomatoes ripen before they drown in the Irish rain.
Society has a warped view of what is ' backward'. Old fashioned it may be , but definately ' forward' in my view.

Mrs Ozbaz
From what I understand from the peak oil situation.. growing veggies and not relying on stuff that has travelled from afar, it is, indeed, the future... history always tends to repeat on us doesnt it?

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Originally Posted by kendalanita
If I started getting chickens and growing veggies my friends back in the UK(and daughter for that matter) would think I had really cracked up - I wouldn't see them for dust - no thank you very much, I like to move with the times - don't want to go backwards (in my opinion)!
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Old Oct 17th 2009 | 4:46 am
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Originally Posted by kendalanita
If I started getting chickens and growing veggies my friends back in the UK(and daughter for that matter) would think I had really cracked up - I wouldn't see them for dust - no thank you very much, I like to move with the times - don't want to go backwards (in my opinion)!
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Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus
I defy any "greeny" to grow so much as a single spud in my garden... I'm pretty close to the sea and my soil has all the organic properties of wire wool.
How about raised beds (buy in the soil make own compost to enrich it)and grow stuff in tubs/containers?Crap soil is no excuse!
 
Old Oct 17th 2009 | 7:29 am
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Just find people like you. I have never been one of those who discussed children, knitting, sewing, cooking etc and I have surrounded myself with friends who are the same as me. There are plenty of women in Australia who are like me and my friends. I do have children but of the opinion that although they were interesting to me they may not be to other people.

I have brought my daughter up like me and she is anti all that stuff too.

No girls in the kitchen and boys at the barbie for me and I have lived here over 30 years now.
 
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That was one reason I moved to Oz, to be able to get somewhere with some space so I can be as self reliant as possible.

So far I am in a rental so just have a few fruit trees, a worm farm and a couple of chickens. But it is a start

I have found there are less people here into that type of thing than I expected.
 


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