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busterboy Jul 31st 2009 5:41 pm

Re: Saddest thing about BE...
 

Originally Posted by Pollyana (Post 7803305)
I wonder how many of those that are lucky enough to go home actually start annoying people back there by saying "When I was in Australia........." :confused:

I will bet quite a few...

fraser Jul 31st 2009 6:06 pm

Re: Saddest thing about BE...
 

Originally Posted by Pollyana (Post 7803305)
I wonder how many of those that are lucky enough to go home actually start annoying people back there by saying "When I was in Australia........." :confused:

To be honest I miss things about the UK a lot, when in the Uk I miss things about here.

I suppose where ever I'll be I'll always have another home on the other side of the world with things I'll miss.

paulry Jul 31st 2009 6:40 pm

Re: Saddest thing about BE...
 

Originally Posted by Pollyana (Post 7803305)
I wonder how many of those that are lucky enough to go home actually start annoying people back there by saying "When I was in Australia........." :confused:

It's hard not to especially after a long and happy period of residence.

Cheetah7 Jul 31st 2009 7:54 pm

Re: Saddest thing about BE...
 
I never justified what made me happy in the UK and I will be buggered if I will do it here.

I dont find Perth boring, some stuff annoys the tits off me just like some stuff did in England.

And I certainly do not have rose tints on either, our lives are not a bed of roses here or havent been for a while.

But I am happy with my shiny bucket of shit in Perth and cannot imagine living anywhere else - in spite of recent stuff thats happened.

I am not pretending, I am not in denial, its not boring, I do not miss English pubs, I confess to missing some soaps, the clothes shops are not to my taste by I buy them because I need clothes.

Just make the best of what is in front of me.

Everyone has the right to be happy where they live and I feel sorry for those that dont - it must be awful.

northernbird Jul 31st 2009 8:21 pm

Re: Saddest thing about BE...
 

Originally Posted by kporte (Post 7802948)
My favourite is the "you only pretend to enjoy it" lot:rofl:

The "the UK has gone to the dogs" crowd do my head in too.

Those people annoy me too. You can't possibly enjoy living there, only uneducated f**kwits could possibly enjoy it. I have all but given up posting here these days because of those people and only post if I can answer a particular question. I know it is down to the cyclical nature of these forums but it just gets on my tits so it is best I avoid it.

busterboy Jul 31st 2009 8:22 pm

Re: Saddest thing about BE...
 

Originally Posted by northernbird (Post 7803473)
Those people annoy me too. You can't possibly enjoy living there, only uneducated f**kwits could possibly enjoy it. I have all but given up posting here these days because of those people and only post if I can answer a particular question. I know it is down to the cyclical nature of these forums but it just gets on my tits so it is best I avoid it.

Ample as they are....

northernbird Jul 31st 2009 8:23 pm

Re: Saddest thing about BE...
 

Originally Posted by busterboy (Post 7803478)
Ample as they are....

Absolutely :D

BadgeIsBack Jul 31st 2009 8:37 pm

Re: Saddest thing about BE...
 

Originally Posted by seang (Post 7803249)
Also peeps who cant understand why they arent held as gods by neighbours/work mates/social circle and from reading their posts you just know they are the most argumentative d**kheads going.

phew

lol....some posters do come over as that. Hello McFly....


Originally Posted by Pollyana (Post 7803305)
I wonder how many of those that are lucky enough to go home actually start annoying people back there by saying "When I was in Australia........." :confused:

I reckon that would be a natural and fair thing for all. It would have to happen. I know for a fact that the most die hard complainers would like a bit of the country they generally don't want to be in...I mean living overseas has always been an experience worth doing.


Originally Posted by sonlymewalter (Post 7803142)
People should feel comfortable about giving their viewpoint as it is theirs, not anyone elses.

It's also OK for someone else to dissagree as they see it completely differently. That's also their viewpoint:)

OK, anyone else confused:blink:

Personally I know what I like, what I think and how it is for me so I don't care:lol:

Indeed - but my point is not so much the viewpoint, but the fact that a contrary view has to be wrong, wrong ...always wrong. By definition. For everyone and anyone. No exceptions...sometimes it shows more about the person than the country. Especially when the person should know better.

I do think that arguments get muddled though and people come in at different levels and concentrate on specific things. Nothing is black and white. (But that is an discussion for you). That's why I have often thought that an umpire is required - not a Mod as we know it.

And no I was not a mass debater at school.:thumbup::p

iamthecreaturefromuranus Jul 31st 2009 8:45 pm

Re: Saddest thing about BE...
 

Originally Posted by BadgeIsBack (Post 7802939)
Forget the bickering about what is worse, the Uk or Australia. It's a personal thing.

The thing I find almost breathtaking, head-shakeningly sad is the fact that people who are negative or unhappy/ have a less than impressed view with their lot in a country....cannot believe that others may be happy in the same place..when they have a different life. It's possible, inevitable even...

and furthermore, this forms the basis of their view/argument.

Never ceases to amaze me...

Interesting this because I actually thought that BE was going through a bit of a lull in the warzone that it can be at times. Perhaps its just my perception because I'm not really one of the protagonists anymore... and I certainly used to be.

northernbird Jul 31st 2009 8:52 pm

Re: Saddest thing about BE...
 

Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus (Post 7803509)
Interesting this because I actually thought that BE was going through a bit of a lull in the warzone that it can be at times. Perhaps its just my perception because I'm not really one of the protagonists anymore... and I certainly used to be.

You never insulted peoples intelligence though just because you were struggling. It is those that see themselves as superior that get on my very ample breasts!

busterboy Jul 31st 2009 8:56 pm

Re: Saddest thing about BE...
 

Originally Posted by northernbird (Post 7803515)
You never insulted peoples intelligence though just because you were struggling. It is those that see themselves as superior that get on my very ample breasts!

I have an image in my mind that needs to go and SOON!

I can actually think of some posters that may really fit the bill of complete 'anti, wrong, wrong, wrong' as we speak. I usually sigh and give up.

iamthecreaturefromuranus Jul 31st 2009 9:06 pm

Re: Saddest thing about BE...
 

Originally Posted by northernbird (Post 7803515)
You never insulted peoples intelligence though

Oh I don't know about that... :D

I fought some very personal and bitter battles in the past. I used BE to vent and release some pretty sizeable amounts of anger at the position I felt myself to be in at the time. I actually walked away from the site for the best part of 12 months as it wasn't doing me, and plenty of other people on here for that matter, any good by coming on and looking for an argument.

northernbird Jul 31st 2009 9:09 pm

Re: Saddest thing about BE...
 

Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus (Post 7803547)
Oh I don't know about that... :D

I fought some very personal and bitter battles in the past. I used BE to vent and release some pretty sizeable amounts of anger at the position I felt myself to be in at the time. I actually walked away from the site for the best part of 12 months as it wasn't doing me, and plenty of other people on here for that matter, any good by coming on and looking for an argument.

You didn't, honestly. There are a number of folk who inhabit the D&G room that think themselves far superior to the rest of us mere mortals just because they have decided that Australia isn't for them. You were never one of those people. Your angst was apparent and yes some of the arguments were legendary but you were never ever personal with it.

BadgeIsBack Jul 31st 2009 9:10 pm

Re: Saddest thing about BE...
 

Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus (Post 7803509)
Interesting this because I actually thought that BE was going through a bit of a lull in the warzone that it can be at times. Perhaps its just my perception because I'm not really one of the protagonists anymore... and I certainly used to be.

The thread that was closed was a new one..in recent times, BE has been quite stable - yet discussion has been allowed.

I get amused by the protaganists who introduce a debit to the balancesheet, as if it is required as a balancing item, but it is a sheet the balance of which only they know...

and treat it as a pre-emptive strike in the Cold War they don't expect to win, so better we all die..MAD...

iamthecreaturefromuranus Jul 31st 2009 9:37 pm

Re: Saddest thing about BE...
 

Originally Posted by northernbird (Post 7803555)
You didn't, honestly. There are a number of folk who inhabit the D&G room that think themselves far superior to the rest of us mere mortals just because they have decided that Australia isn't for them. You were never one of those people. Your angst was apparent and yes some of the arguments were legendary but you were never ever personal with it.

Nice to know that perhaps I wasn't quite as bad as I remember myself to be. :)


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