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In any circumstance? What if your wife or daughter were raped and became pregnant as a result? Would you want them to carry that pregnancy to term knowing that she was carrying her rapists child? Or what if carrying a pregnancy would endanger your wife's life? Would you choose for her to carry a baby to term knowing that there was a chance she could die as a result? Or if the baby would be born so profoundly disabled that there was no chance of life beyond that of being a vegetable? Why would you bring a child into the world only to have it suffer?
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In any circumstance? What if your wife or daughter were raped and became pregnant as a result? Would you want them to carry that pregnancy to term knowing that she was carrying her rapists child? Or what if carrying a pregnancy would endanger your wife's life? Would you choose for her to carry a baby to term knowing that there was a chance she could die as a result? Or if the baby would be born so profoundly disabled that there was no chance of life beyond that of being a vegetable? Why would you bring a child into the world only to have it suffer?
When I was at uni I knew someone who had an abortion as a form of birth control and it wasn't her first abortion either. She was 19. To me this is not a great thing.
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I think we'll all have to agree to disagree on this one, such an emotive subject.
However please, those of you who have never been through this, just consider for a moment - there are those who are made pregnant in the most terrible circumstances, and there are some women who, for whatever reason (lack of education, lack of self-esteem, whatever, I don't know) use abortion as a contraceptive. You hear and talk about them because it's a juicy topic.
Many, many millions more have their own reasons, medical or otherwise, with which you may or may not agree, and just get on with it quietly. They shouldn't have to justify it to you or anybody else.
I'm not just saying this because I'm one of them. Honestly, I couldn't give a monkey's what you think of me. I would imagine, statistically, there are quite a few more here on BE who, reading this thread, think that the masses feel abortion is only (just about) acceptable if they'd been raped or their lives were at risk.
Life is not so black and white.
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However please, those of you who have never been through this, just consider for a moment - there are those who are made pregnant in the most terrible circumstances, and there are some women who, for whatever reason (lack of education, lack of self-esteem, whatever, I don't know) use abortion as a contraceptive. You hear and talk about them because it's a juicy topic.
Many, many millions more have their own reasons, medical or otherwise, with which you may or may not agree, and just get on with it quietly. They shouldn't have to justify it to you or anybody else.
I'm not just saying this because I'm one of them. Honestly, I couldn't give a monkey's what you think of me. I would imagine, statistically, there are quite a few more here on BE who, reading this thread, think that the masses feel abortion is only (just about) acceptable if they'd been raped or their lives were at risk.
Life is not so black and white.
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In any circumstance? What if your wife or daughter were raped and became pregnant as a result? Would you want them to carry that pregnancy to term knowing that she was carrying her rapists child? Or what if carrying a pregnancy would endanger your wife's life? Would you choose for her to carry a baby to term knowing that there was a chance she could die as a result? Or if the baby would be born so profoundly disabled that there was no chance of life beyond that of being a vegetable? Why would you bring a child into the world only to have it suffer?
I Have to admit to being a bit shocked by the number of people in favour of abortion. How times change: A generation ago most would have been against abortion with one or two people in favour of it and apologisng for their opinion. It'll be interesting to see what people willl be happy with a generation from now.
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There are obviously exceptions such as those above. As with most things in life it's rarely black and white. And there are some things that could be considered contradictory with my ideal for the right to life For example rapists and child abusers have forfeited their right to life and deserve to face the death penalty.
I Have to admit to being a bit shocked by the number of people in favour of abortion. How times change: A generation ago most would have been against abortion with one or two people in favour of it and apologisng for their opinion. It'll be interesting to see what people willl be happy with a generation from now.
I Have to admit to being a bit shocked by the number of people in favour of abortion. How times change: A generation ago most would have been against abortion with one or two people in favour of it and apologisng for their opinion. It'll be interesting to see what people willl be happy with a generation from now.
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That is your belief but thankfully society has moved on from that and given us the right to terminate unborn foetuses. Women have the right and are using it mainly for their good.
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The court case at the centre of this started in Cairns today and is expected to last for 2 days.
The local news is not exactly hot on facts but from what we are told so far....
The lad's sister in Ukraine sent him pills which they used to terminate the pregnancy.
Therefore both are on trial. Him as supplier and her as user.
Can't see any result other than negative for them as a judge makes his ruling on law and that says a crime has been committed.
The law (I understand) is non surgical abortion is illegal.
The local news is not exactly hot on facts but from what we are told so far....
The lad's sister in Ukraine sent him pills which they used to terminate the pregnancy.
Therefore both are on trial. Him as supplier and her as user.
Can't see any result other than negative for them as a judge makes his ruling on law and that says a crime has been committed.
The law (I understand) is non surgical abortion is illegal.
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The court case at the centre of this started in Cairns today and is expected to last for 2 days.
The local news is not exactly hot on facts but from what we are told so far....
The lad's sister in Ukraine sent him pills which they used to terminate the pregnancy.
Therefore both are on trial. Him as supplier and her as user.
Can't see any result other than negative for them as a judge makes his ruling on law and that says a crime has been committed.
The law (I understand) is non surgical abortion is illegal.
The local news is not exactly hot on facts but from what we are told so far....
The lad's sister in Ukraine sent him pills which they used to terminate the pregnancy.
Therefore both are on trial. Him as supplier and her as user.
Can't see any result other than negative for them as a judge makes his ruling on law and that says a crime has been committed.
The law (I understand) is non surgical abortion is illegal.
I had pretty much the same reaction as PP I would do everything I could to do it myself then to be forced to go through with an unwanted pregnancy and most of the other women agreed they would do the same. So I think it's much safer for women to have an abortion with proper care rather than try and do it themselves.
Those pills sometimes don't clear everything and bits can be left behind leading to infection.
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