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Dorothy May 9th 2008 2:46 am

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We really didn't have any help from anyone when we arrived in Adelaide. We got really lucky and were offered on arrival accomodation by the SA Gov't. We made quick friends with our Aussie neighbours & my co-workers. I did love going to the coffee mornings at Starbucks with Wendy and the girls. Not much better than a big mug of coffee while sitting in Rundle Mall watching the people go by.

When we moved over to Perth I got lots of help and support from Northernbird. We have lots in common and I think she's just a really nice woman. I met Sam & her family back in August or September and we became quick friends. Whenever I'm having a bad day or had a fight with the old man I know I can count on Sam to listen while I bitch. My kids love her, too. She has a pool and x-box. Our next door neighbours are a lovely couple who are here on a retirement visa. They've helped us probably more than anyone could. They watch our kids if we want to go out, even offering to take them for a weekend if my husband and I want to go away. They've become like surrogate grandparents to my children.

I try to help out newcomers when I can. I remember all too well getting off the plane and feeling so out of our depth. If there's even one person who can make you feel welcome then it makes it so much less scary.

northernbird May 9th 2008 2:51 am

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Originally Posted by Dorothy (Post 6329159)
We really didn't have any help from anyone when we arrived in Adelaide. We got really lucky and were offered on arrival accomodation by the SA Gov't. We made quick friends with our Aussie neighbours & my co-workers. I did love going to the coffee mornings at Starbucks with Wendy and the girls. Not much better than a big mug of coffee while sitting in Rundle Mall watching the people go by.

When we moved over to Perth I got lots of help and support from Northernbird. We have lots in common and I think she's just a really nice woman. I met Sam & her family back in August or September and we became quick friends. Whenever I'm having a bad day or had a fight with the old man I know I can count on Sam to listen while I bitch. My kids love her, too. She has a pool and x-box. Our next door neighbours are a lovely couple who are here on a retirement visa. They've helped us probably more than anyone could. They watch our kids if we want to go out, even offering to take them for a weekend if my husband and I want to go away. They've become like surrogate grandparents to my children.

I try to help out newcomers when I can. I remember all too well getting off the plane and feeling so out of our depth. If there's even one person who can make you feel welcome then it makes it so much less scary.

I think once you have shopped for underwear together then the friendship is well cemented ;) :lol:

Lovely words Dorothy, thanks pal.

worzel May 9th 2008 2:58 am

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Originally Posted by soapy (Post 6326159)
Theres a lot of member on this forum who do some fantastic work behide what you see on this forum.:sneaky:

I would like to ask you all...................


Who was the first BE member to help you when you arrived?
and why?

Hmmm, gotta be careful how I word this but my wife's best friend Sindy (Jivebabe). She took on the mantle of organising Perth coffee meet ups from (Jill - Go Bananas I think) and that led to most of the friends we have today one way or another.

After a couple of coffees Sam went out with them for a few drinks and the next thing I knew was a knock on the door when her / our new friends poured her through the front door. Not looked back since!:D

Dorothy May 9th 2008 3:05 am

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Originally Posted by northernbird (Post 6329182)
I think once you have shopped for underwear together then the friendship is well cemented ;) :lol:

Lovely words Dorothy, thanks pal.

I went back the next day and bought 7 more. My undies drawer is now full.

mancfamily May 9th 2008 7:04 am

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We've not arrived in Oz yet, but I think it's great how you all help each other out, and lend a hand when needed to new arrivals.

I can see that true friendships have been made on this site :)

shabee May 9th 2008 7:17 am

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Originally Posted by soapy (Post 6326159)
Theres a lot of member on this forum who do some fantastic work behide what you see on this forum.:sneaky:

I would like to ask you all...................


Who was the first BE member to help you when you arrived?
and why?

Would you be the first member to help us Soapy pleeese lol

Kapri May 9th 2008 8:31 am

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What an excellent thread!

I'm not in Australia yet but I've had some great advice from lots of people.
Once I'm settled in Melbourne I really hope I'll be able to help others.
That's why this is such a great site :thumbsup:

jonni boy May 9th 2008 9:02 am

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got a load of great info from here but no help from anyone off here when we landed:frown:

only joking;)
this place has been a wealth of info over the last couple of years and still getting info from it now that were ping ponging.

nick72 May 9th 2008 9:07 am

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Originally Posted by jonni boy (Post 6330790)
got a load of great info from here but no help from anyone off here when we landed:frown:

only joking;)
this place has been a wealth of info over the last couple of years and still getting info from it now that were ping ponging.

Steve O and family fantastic people, and remained good friends !!

Although we dont see as often as we would should (my fault).

Really nice guy, blinking nice people !!

Nick

bluejohn May 9th 2008 9:56 am

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Originally Posted by Gibbo (Post 6327790)
There was no BE when we arrived -so no help from that quarter. However, there were lots of friends made in the migrant hostels and when a group of us moved into rented accommodation we all helped each other. I had 3 tiny sons, so could not work, so looked after about 8 kids during school holidays. Their parents baby sat for us so that we could go out on our own. Hard days but good!:D

ditto, difficult but good times too.

soapy© May 9th 2008 10:17 am

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Originally Posted by brido (Post 6327656)
Doub was the first person to help us out when we first came out by renting us his appartment in Broadbeach and allowing us to keep our dog there.
That was a major load off our minds before we even stepped on the plane in Glasgow.

Thanks Doub if you see this. :)

Now the answer you really wanted Soapy, You and Pauline really helped us settle in socially and in the 15 months here we're still good friends. :)

Its not the answer i was after because i wanted your first:p
Doub has a great thing for the expats. its good to know that other expats have used his accommodating and liked it.
all we do is make friends lol
what i really wanted to know was how many people really put theirselves out for others.
some posters on here have picked people up from the airport, found them accommodation, some have even found jobs for them before they arrive!
but you never hear them brag about it;) i just thought it would be nice to hear others tell everyone how much help they got from each person.:)

soapy© May 9th 2008 10:18 am

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Originally Posted by Bix (Post 6327758)
I'll pass on this one.
We found our own way. :)

no no no, you can do better than that laddie;)

soapy© May 9th 2008 10:24 am

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Originally Posted by Gibbo (Post 6327790)
There was no BE when we arrived -so no help from that quarter. However, there were lots of friends made in the migrant hostels and when a group of us moved into rented accommodation we all helped each other. D

its funny you should say that.
the first people who helped us arrived around 26 years ago. they lived in a hostel in sydney (coogee) most of their friends are from the days when they first arrived.
we were lucky enough to bump into them and i cant even type how much they helped us. something we will never forget.
The first BE members to help us were. Roseyandfam, rumbletum, and jasonK244. 2 families we met at our first meet. all wonderful people who are very close to our heart.:)

soapy© May 9th 2008 10:26 am

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Originally Posted by Gonnago (Post 6327823)
The first person to help me was Paul (Claire Hopkins):wub: he spent ages talking to me on the phone going through the TRA stuff and I am forever greatful to them :wub:

and you never got to meet them?

soapy© May 9th 2008 10:28 am

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Originally Posted by asher (Post 6327865)
Soapy when I arrived in Oz the only one to help me was my OH who was already there, however like Clippies I feel the support I got from people on here before I went (and now returned soon to go again!) was soo important and was more instrumental in my actually going such as Curly, Mands, Woodz, Clippies, Sally Claire, Gedge, Wendy, Moneypen and many others too numerous to name some who don't post on here any more.

If it wasn't for some of these people I would have given up long ago!;)

the people you have mentioned always seem to crop up in a lot of the posts. they are a great credit to this forum:)


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