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dejags Jun 14th 2009 4:11 pm

Re: How snobbish are you?
 

Originally Posted by Professional Princess (Post 7664941)
Do you judge people by the area that they live in? I have read on here a few times 'Oh I wouldnt live NOR/SOR' kind of thing almost as though it is a crime to live in a certain area.

Or 'I hate Ute/Commordore drivers' etc.

Personally, IMO it doesnt matter where you live, what you drive its the person that counts and not everyone can afford the big car/big house in the 'perfect area'.

So come on, who has judged someone because of where they live or what they drive, does it really matter?

I live SOR and have had the odd comments 'Oh the bogans live there and Secret Harbour is much better'.

Does it matter?

Hi PP, this probably is a totally dumb question - but what is NOR/SOR?

Bernieboy Jun 14th 2009 4:12 pm

Re: How snobbish are you?
 

Originally Posted by dejags (Post 7665322)
Hi PP, this probably is a totally dumb question - but what is NOR/SOR?

Sounds like two new types of flu:huh:

dejags Jun 14th 2009 4:16 pm

Re: How snobbish are you?
 

Originally Posted by Bernieboy (Post 7665325)
Sounds like two new types of flu:huh:

:D

I think I have figured it out BB - having read the rest of the thread I think it means North of the River and South of the River.

Personally I couldn't give a monkeys if somebody lives on a houseboat slap bang in the middle of the river! It's the person that counts.

I have met a few astoundingly wealthy but even more astoundingly crass and arrogant snobs NOR but most people I have encountered are friendly and down to earth either way (we have stayed in both).

Hebe Jun 14th 2009 4:19 pm

Re: How snobbish are you?
 
I wouldn't judge someone by the area they live in but yes I would want to and do live in a good area.

Bernieboy Jun 14th 2009 4:26 pm

Re: How snobbish are you?
 
Im no snob but i def would not want to live next door to a BE MOD:p

scottishcelts Jun 14th 2009 4:28 pm

Re: How snobbish are you?
 

Originally Posted by Bernieboy (Post 7665353)
Im no snob but i def would not want to live next door to a BE MOD:p

Aye ye wid ye big liar !

Bernieboy Jun 14th 2009 4:30 pm

Re: How snobbish are you?
 

Originally Posted by scottishcelts (Post 7665357)
Aye ye wid ye big liar !

that's wee liar to you:frown:

scottishcelts Jun 14th 2009 4:41 pm

Re: How snobbish are you?
 

Originally Posted by Bernieboy (Post 7665360)
that's wee liar to you:frown:

:p

Pollyana Jun 14th 2009 4:48 pm

Re: How snobbish are you?
 

Originally Posted by Bernieboy (Post 7665353)
Im no snob but i def would not want to live next door to a BE MOD:p

Oi!!! Watch it or I'll withdraw my offer of buying you that pint later.....nothing wrong with living next door to a Mod, if its me just leave room for me to park the broom :rofl:

fish.01 Jun 14th 2009 5:49 pm

Re: How snobbish are you?
 

Originally Posted by Professional Princess (Post 7664941)
Do you judge people by the area that they live in? I have read on here a few times 'Oh I wouldnt live NOR/SOR' kind of thing almost as though it is a crime to live in a certain area.

Or 'I hate Ute/Commordore drivers' etc.

Personally, IMO it doesnt matter where you live, what you drive its the person that counts and not everyone can afford the big car/big house in the 'perfect area'.

So come on, who has judged someone because of where they live or what they drive, does it really matter?

I live SOR and have had the odd comments 'Oh the bogans live there and Secret Harbour is much better'.

Does it matter?

I think it depends on the motivation of the post. I think you have to try and strike a balance between letting new immigrants know the background of various area's so they can make up their own mind about what suits them - without insulting all and sundry who already live here with gross generalisations.

Cheetah7 Jun 14th 2009 6:22 pm

Re: How snobbish are you?
 
Mr PP picked up a cheap Commordore and someone said to him in utter disgust, 'oh they are bogan cars, can you not afford a decent 4wd?'

And yes, it was a POM that said it.

And I am afraid to say it hasnt been the first time such shallow judgement has been made.

I mean, does it really matter what kind of car you drive providing you drive sensibly and the car is road safe?

scottishcelts Jun 14th 2009 6:24 pm

Re: How snobbish are you?
 

Originally Posted by Professional Princess (Post 7665530)
Mr PP picked up a cheap Commordore and someone said to him in utter disgust, 'oh they are bogan cars, can you not afford a decent 4wd?'

And yes, it was a POM that said it.

And I am afraid to say it hasnt been the first time such shallow judgement has been made.

I mean, does it really matter what kind of car you drive providing you drive sensibly and the car is road safe?

Erm no....cue Nissan Micra drivers :D

Cheetah7 Jun 14th 2009 6:28 pm

Re: How snobbish are you?
 

Originally Posted by scottishcelts (Post 7665536)
Erm no....cue Nissan Micra drivers :D

Cue - drink drivers - now they are the type of people that I cant abide, so I guess that could make me a snob. :D

scottishcelts Jun 14th 2009 6:47 pm

Re: How snobbish are you?
 

Originally Posted by Professional Princess (Post 7665547)
Cue - drink drivers - now they are the type of people that I cant abide, so I guess that could make me a snob. :D

Yeah drink drivers too! :D

kitty4 Jun 14th 2009 7:03 pm

Re: How snobbish are you?
 
I asked a receptionist at work once what a Bogan is - (Hadn't been here long - I really wasn't sure???).
She seemed embarrassed, laughed and said she was a bogan or would deemed to be a bogan because of the area she lived in and the type of house she could afford to rent. Oh and because she favoured wearing jeans and checked shirts :confused:
She was immaculate at work, well spoken - as in not using loads of slang/swearing or whatever being well spoken means, being very efficient and courteous to the public and I couldn't imagine her not being immaculate at home/leisure (checked shirt and hair down or not).
No I don't judge people by where they live.
I will say I have been really irritated by people judging me by taste in music though (and I have avast taste from classical to punk). Like you're a moron and low life if you listen to anything that they deem crap and if you don't like their choice. Really, it's only personal taste - does it matter in the grand scheme of things. If my marriage was based on music taste we would never have got past the first date!!!
I had a long standing ''friend'' who I hadn't seen in a while, we had music on at home and I had such a tirade of insults based on my preferences (they also got to play their preferences) that I gave a piece of my mind that is not how I conduct a friendship and friendly night in listening to music. That was 8 years ago and I have never heard from that ''friend'' since :thumbdown:.


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