Female intuition
Mar 25th 2010 | 9:28 pm
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Re: Female intuition
One of my son's friends had been at our house for a play day and when his (single) mum came to pick him up I asked her in for a coffee. We were sitting chatting in quite a normal grown up fashion about various subjects when my husband, Tim, came in from work.
This woman suddenly sat bolt upright, turned from me to him and said, in a really high pitched voice "Hi Tim!" She then proceeded to chat away, giggle girlishly and throw her hair about. When she stood up to leave she was pushing her tits out as far as she possible could and gave him a little wave.
I was just amazed. It was like she transformed into another creature when he walked into the room. My husband was suitable embarrassed and we really laughed about it and have done many times since. I only have to tinkle "Hi Tim" in that voice and we fall about in a heap.
Some women just play to men. I don't think that they can help it. I have to say that I give that type of woman a wide berth. Not because I think they will "take" my man, but because their vacuous giggles bore the shit out of me!
Jealousy has no place in our house. I am firmly of the opinion that if a man is the type to play away, he will do. Stressing about it happening is just a waste of time, so I don't! If my husband shagged around, I would bin him. He knows that and though I don't honestly think he is the type that would, if he did I would blame him. Not some predatory woman. It takes two, so the saying goes, to tango.
This woman suddenly sat bolt upright, turned from me to him and said, in a really high pitched voice "Hi Tim!" She then proceeded to chat away, giggle girlishly and throw her hair about. When she stood up to leave she was pushing her tits out as far as she possible could and gave him a little wave.
I was just amazed. It was like she transformed into another creature when he walked into the room. My husband was suitable embarrassed and we really laughed about it and have done many times since. I only have to tinkle "Hi Tim" in that voice and we fall about in a heap.
Some women just play to men. I don't think that they can help it. I have to say that I give that type of woman a wide berth. Not because I think they will "take" my man, but because their vacuous giggles bore the shit out of me!
Jealousy has no place in our house. I am firmly of the opinion that if a man is the type to play away, he will do. Stressing about it happening is just a waste of time, so I don't! If my husband shagged around, I would bin him. He knows that and though I don't honestly think he is the type that would, if he did I would blame him. Not some predatory woman. It takes two, so the saying goes, to tango.
Mar 25th 2010 | 9:39 pm
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Re: Female intuition
RenShen,Thats exactly the type of woman I dislike!Some women make themselves look bloody ridiculous don't they?But yes I've had several women acting that way with my OH,they usually completely blank me out of the conversation which I find extremely rude.I'm still waiting for some woman out there to explain to me why they do it????Any takers?
Mar 25th 2010 | 9:41 pm
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RenShen,Thats exactly the type of woman I dislike!Some women make themselves look bloody ridiculous don't they?But yes I've had several women acting that way with my OH,they usually completely blank me out of the conversation which I find extremely rude.I'm still waiting for some woman out there to explain to me why they do it????Any takers?
Mar 25th 2010 | 10:14 pm
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Re: Female intuition
RenShen,Thats exactly the type of woman I dislike!Some women make themselves look bloody ridiculous don't they?But yes I've had several women acting that way with my OH,they usually completely blank me out of the conversation which I find extremely rude.I'm still waiting for some woman out there to explain to me why they do it????Any takers?
Seriously, that has happened to me in a group of friends at the pub, being a young bloke at the time my attention was diverted to the girl in question and the girl I was with lifted up her top and said "Oi, over here dickhead!"
Mar 25th 2010 | 10:17 pm
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Some of us men are irresistible and just have that effect on women. Seriously, that has happened to me in a group of friends at the pub, being a young bloke at the time my attention was diverted to the girl in question and the girl I was with lifted up her top and said "Oi, over here dickhead!"
Seriously, that has happened to me in a group of friends at the pub, being a young bloke at the time my attention was diverted to the girl in question and the girl I was with lifted up her top and said "Oi, over here dickhead!" 
Well sometimes you just gotta spell it out kporte!
Mar 25th 2010 | 10:58 pm
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Re: Female intuition
Gosh I feel hard done by! My husband is obviously not a hunk because in all the time we've been together, 10 years, i've only ever come across this problem once. A lady was coming onto him in a pub one night, didn't realise he was attached. She looked like a bloke and my hubby was mortified. I was delighted, thought it hilarious. He pointed me out and she gracefully said "awww!" and walked off.
Well, really I trust my hubby. Like Ememlems, I would take it as a compliment if someone, especially a pretty woman, came on to him. My hubby doesn't have that ego that needs to be fed by attention from women. He does look, i've caught him looking but i'd never, ever worry about him straying. And I have no control over it anyway.
But as for female intuition, I definitely think women communicate on a completely different level to men. Men literally say what they mean and mean what they say (just coming to that realisation in the last 12 months). With women it's so convoluted it can wreck your head!
Well, really I trust my hubby. Like Ememlems, I would take it as a compliment if someone, especially a pretty woman, came on to him. My hubby doesn't have that ego that needs to be fed by attention from women. He does look, i've caught him looking but i'd never, ever worry about him straying. And I have no control over it anyway.
But as for female intuition, I definitely think women communicate on a completely different level to men. Men literally say what they mean and mean what they say (just coming to that realisation in the last 12 months). With women it's so convoluted it can wreck your head!
Mar 25th 2010 | 11:00 pm
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Gosh I feel hard done by! My husband is obviously not a hunk because in all the time we've been together, 10 years, i've only ever come across this problem once. A lady was coming onto him in a pub one night, didn't realise he was attached. She looked like a bloke and my hubby was mortified. I was delighted, thought it hilarious. He pointed me out and she gracefully said "awww!" and walked off.
Well, really I trust my hubby. Like Ememlems, I would take it as a compliment if someone, especially a pretty woman, came on to him. My hubby doesn't have that ego that needs to be fed by attention from women. He does look, i've caught him looking but i'd never, ever worry about him straying. And I have no control over it anyway.
But as for female intuition, I definitely think women communicate on a completely different level to men. Men literally say what they mean and mean what they say (just coming to that realisation in the last 12 months). With women it's so convoluted it can wreck your head!
Well, really I trust my hubby. Like Ememlems, I would take it as a compliment if someone, especially a pretty woman, came on to him. My hubby doesn't have that ego that needs to be fed by attention from women. He does look, i've caught him looking but i'd never, ever worry about him straying. And I have no control over it anyway.
But as for female intuition, I definitely think women communicate on a completely different level to men. Men literally say what they mean and mean what they say (just coming to that realisation in the last 12 months). With women it's so convoluted it can wreck your head!
Mar 26th 2010 | 2:27 am
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Re: Female intuition
On a different note, do you find that if you hang out in a group of marrieds, then when one of the females becomes single, they are suddenly "not invited" much? Happened to someone I know recently... not all the group, just one couple.. it's like they ceased to exist because they are single.
I helped out a single friend of mine a few years back.. she had some problems of a financial matter and was penniless with her daughter, so I just moved her, one afternoon, into our spare room and my then husband came home from work to find her insitu and living with us. She continued to do so for 3 months.
Quite a few people registered an alarm to this... some close family.. then I had a person come up to me in the street and tell me that she overhead them (they were having a cigarette together in the smoking zone) speaking about having an affair... all complete shite.. luckily I am a pretty together person and so I told that person sharply to **** off. But it never ceases to amaze me how other people automatically assume that i am some sort of gulliable arse for allowing another female to live in my home?
No affair was had... I know definately because I had them followed and recorded all their conversations using secret cameras planted all over the house....
Em x
I helped out a single friend of mine a few years back.. she had some problems of a financial matter and was penniless with her daughter, so I just moved her, one afternoon, into our spare room and my then husband came home from work to find her insitu and living with us. She continued to do so for 3 months.
Quite a few people registered an alarm to this... some close family.. then I had a person come up to me in the street and tell me that she overhead them (they were having a cigarette together in the smoking zone) speaking about having an affair... all complete shite.. luckily I am a pretty together person and so I told that person sharply to **** off. But it never ceases to amaze me how other people automatically assume that i am some sort of gulliable arse for allowing another female to live in my home?
No affair was had... I know definately because I had them followed and recorded all their conversations using secret cameras planted all over the house....
Spoiler:
Em x
Mar 26th 2010 | 7:08 am
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Re: Female intuition
Well, it seems as if Australia is full of predatory women waiting to throw themselves at me in an effort to take me from my wife.
Another reason to get there as soon as possible
Another reason to get there as soon as possible
Mar 26th 2010 | 8:59 am
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Re: Female intuition
We have all probably at some point or another come across a woman who targets someone elses boyfriend/husband. You can get the obvious type that make it clear they are in 'for the kill' and go hell bent on getting someones partner from them.
You can get the ones that are quite subtle and befriend you, perhaps its an existing friendship, perhaps not but they come across as the nicest most helpful people in the world but they have an ulterior motive, usually the woman trusts them and might think they would never do that to them because they are 'friends' - when clearly they are not. Of course one would expect the guy to stand up for himself but some men either dont see it, or they enjoy it, or choose to ignore it, some have a fine set of balls on them and tell the girl to piss off.
About ten years ago, one of Mr PPs managers had a thing for Mr PP. She would try and come across as 'nice' but some of the stuff she did was quite shocking really.
Mr PP and I were discussing this subject tonight, he said one of my male friends he doesnt like nor trust, I think this male friend is OK but saying that, there have been women he knows or has known that I dont trust either so perhaps these instincts are correct. One of my friends told me that certain women 'appear on her radar' and others dont and she is usually right about her suspicions.
Interesting how it all works though.
Do you trust your gut feelings about the opposite sex when it comes to your partner? Has someone you trusted done the dirty on you and flirted with your partner?
You can get the ones that are quite subtle and befriend you, perhaps its an existing friendship, perhaps not but they come across as the nicest most helpful people in the world but they have an ulterior motive, usually the woman trusts them and might think they would never do that to them because they are 'friends' - when clearly they are not. Of course one would expect the guy to stand up for himself but some men either dont see it, or they enjoy it, or choose to ignore it, some have a fine set of balls on them and tell the girl to piss off.
About ten years ago, one of Mr PPs managers had a thing for Mr PP. She would try and come across as 'nice' but some of the stuff she did was quite shocking really.
Mr PP and I were discussing this subject tonight, he said one of my male friends he doesnt like nor trust, I think this male friend is OK but saying that, there have been women he knows or has known that I dont trust either so perhaps these instincts are correct. One of my friends told me that certain women 'appear on her radar' and others dont and she is usually right about her suspicions.
Interesting how it all works though.
Do you trust your gut feelings about the opposite sex when it comes to your partner? Has someone you trusted done the dirty on you and flirted with your partner?
