Female intuition
 

We have all probably at some point or another come across a woman who targets someone elses boyfriend/husband. You can get the obvious type that make it clear they are in 'for the kill' and go hell bent on getting someones partner from them.

You can get the ones that are quite subtle and befriend you, perhaps its an existing friendship, perhaps not but they come across as the nicest most helpful people in the world but they have an ulterior motive, usually the woman trusts them and might think they would never do that to them because they are 'friends' - when clearly they are not. Of course one would expect the guy to stand up for himself but some men either dont see it, or they enjoy it, or choose to ignore it, some have a fine set of balls on them and tell the girl to piss off.

About ten years ago, one of Mr PPs managers had a thing for Mr PP. She would try and come across as 'nice' but some of the stuff she did was quite shocking really.

Mr PP and I were discussing this subject tonight, he said one of my male friends he doesnt like nor trust, I think this male friend is OK but saying that, there have been women he knows or has known that I dont trust either so perhaps these instincts are correct. One of my friends told me that certain women 'appear on her radar' and others dont and she is usually right about her suspicions.

Interesting how it all works though.

Do you trust your gut feelings about the opposite sex when it comes to your partner? Has someone you trusted done the dirty on you and flirted with your partner?

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Female intuition can be very powerful and normally you can tell those types of women a mile off, they seem to give off a certain type of attitude whether intentional or not. I trust my husband around all types of women, we're solid :)

I've had an instance with a very very good friend where she slept with my ex boyfriend. We'd only just broke up, I was devastated, obviously he was not!:lol: me and the said friend didn't talk for 3 years then I met my DH, realised I didn't like the ex as much as I thought I did and now me and her chat again. Turns out she was very messed up at the time.

Female intuition can be wrong too, a little old lady once said to me and my friend Anna, that I looked like the girl who stole boyfriends and Anna looked the girl that had boyfriends stolen!

I've never stole a boy in my life :wub:

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To be honest, I am very open minded and a woman has to be a threat to appear on my radar and its a feeling I cant shake off if it happens.

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I've had friends stealing each others boyfriends in my circle of friends, and it's a terrible thing, because everyone else involved takes sides and things can get nasty. I always thought it was too strange territory to get involved with your friend's ex!

It's never happened to me thankfully and I've never stole a man from anyone - hell there are just too many fish in the sea to go around chasing attached men, I've never understood that :blink:

As far as having a radar is concerned, I'm pretty switched on in that department and if I thought someone was trying to hit on my man, I'd nip it in the bud pronto - not saying I don't like anyone flirting with my man, that is different, but there is a fine line that to be crossed, and that is where you have to step in.

There is nothing wrong with harmless flirting as I've a naturally flirtatious personality, as do lots of people - hell, especially on BE :D

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Aaah, good old female intuition. That would be your name for jealousy then would it http://elouai.com/images/yahoo/54.gif

Going to hide now...

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No, just means we are on a higher state of plain from you guys :D;)

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Lets face it,some women are just bitches with a capital B!I'm not usually the jealous type but some women make it blatantly obvious they are after your man,and that truly irritates me to no end.Quite a long time ago,my OH worked with a farm manager(OH was a manager as well).Well this farmer lived on site with his soon to be wife.She was just your average run of the mill looking woman,nothing special.Anyway my OH would tell me that as she did'nt work,she would spend most days having lunch with them both.I'm not sure why but I took a dislike to this lady and I had'nt even met her.When we did meet,she completely ignored me(it was only us 4).She did however keep a conversation going with my OH,who by the way looked pretty uncomfortable as he did'nt like this lady.We had just returned from Cyprus and the lady's OH said to me "OH I suppose you've been busy spending all your husbands money while on holiday"?To which I replied(glaring at lady lol)"Actually I don't have to spend my husbands money,I make my own to spend"To be honest PP,I think the women in this country are notorious for openly flirting with men,whether the men are taken or not.I never noticed this in Australia whilst I lived there.Maybe the women are insecure here???Who know!

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I used to work with an ex-boyfriend and one of the girls that worked with us went all out to get him from me. She eventually succeeded.
I was oblivious to it at the time but afterwards I could see it so clearly. when I look back it was so obvious.
I remember them going out for a drink together as "friends" and I was totally ok with it! I turned up at the pub later that evening with another friend. This girl was dolled up to the nines - I had never seen her wear make up before- and yet I still didn't twig.
On another night we had all gone out as a group and she got drunk and allegedly couldn't walk. He put her over his shoulder in a firemans lift and carried her back to his house where she slept in the spare room. I thought it was hilarious! She came into our room the following morning all bright and breezy - obviously hadn't been that drunk at all.

I can't believe I was that naive and trusting but I have never tried to take someone elses man. I just wouldn't do it and it didn't occur to me that someone would do it to me! My female intuiition let me down on this occasion.

I was initially upset when we broke up - I hadn't seen it coming. But it didn't take long to realise that they deserved each other. I can't imagine there's much trust in their relationship.
It all turned out for the best anyway - a year later I met my husband :wub:

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We are ok we had to be my oh went to sea no place for worry with that.

However I do get gut feelings about people and not just in the sense of this thread.

At work I used to notice certain women who were definitely interested in my boss, and lets face it they are flattered and they like these people but I never did and let him know about them, one in particular she knew I had her measure and if I answered the phone she would hang up. Now he was no oil painting but a nice guy. We employees used to have laugh about it, the low cut blouse falling over the desk.
:D

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A 'happily' married girl at work just found out her much trusted, loved, adored ( she really went on about him :lol: Mr bloody wonderful we all thought ) was going to hookers every friday :eek: One of his excuses afterwards was as they were 'australian' hookers they werent diseased so what was she worried about:blink:

Think her 'radar' was off course.

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Ouch!! Her radar is in need of serious tune up. Would it be worse finding out your husband had slept with hookers or random women?

I don't know. At least with hookers the infidelity might not have the emotional attachment of a "Normal" affair... Tough one!

Did she bin off this "perfect" bloke then?

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I had 3 friends - 2 female , 1 male - he fancied friend no1 (an older very attractive woman) she turned him down said he was too nice. I introduced him to friend no 2, they clicked and started dating, that was the point female no 1 started draping herself over him and flirting horrendously (even when my other mate was there). I eventually took her to one side and told her to back off. Despite being a very attractive &funny woman she was also one of the most insecure I`ve ever met - she did not like it if others got attention and she hated being ignored by men - rather sad really.

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You could make the argument (if the subject were being rationaly and objectively debated) that use of hookers is less offensive as:
- a] No emotional attachment associated
- b] Less likely to involve disease since (I assume) any professional would be sure to engage only in protected sex and have regular heath checks. Average slut-on-the-street types might not be so careful about their health regime.

On the other hand - hookers cost considerable $$$ and money is often a major argument point in any relationship - so 'wasting money' may be a bigger crime than infidelity

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I certainly don't think the issue here would be about money :blink:

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I would never have guessed.