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Mmmmm, just what I was thinking Wendy.
Now of course he could be given the chance to emigrate with his piece of dirty diseased minge, and allowed to live his life in peace in Australia.
Or DIAC could be told that he has lied on his visa application by not mentioning his existing marriage and children - that isn't just a white lie, that is a huge big fat black one and it is fraud.
Of course we have all been brought up to tell the truth haven't we?
This lady is well rid of him, she deserves so much better and with a bit of determination will get to Oz herself to start a new life.
But as for him, let's just hope the monkeyspunkbastard gets his just deserts, gets his visa revoked, loses copious amounts of cash and lives happily ever after with the diseased fanny he calls a girlfriend.
Now of course he could be given the chance to emigrate with his piece of dirty diseased minge, and allowed to live his life in peace in Australia.
Or DIAC could be told that he has lied on his visa application by not mentioning his existing marriage and children - that isn't just a white lie, that is a huge big fat black one and it is fraud.
Of course we have all been brought up to tell the truth haven't we?
This lady is well rid of him, she deserves so much better and with a bit of determination will get to Oz herself to start a new life.
But as for him, let's just hope the monkeyspunkbastard gets his just deserts, gets his visa revoked, loses copious amounts of cash and lives happily ever after with the diseased fanny he calls a girlfriend.
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A quick update -
Sorry, I haven't posted in ages, but as you can imagine I've been up to my eyes in ....poo!![EEK!](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/eek.gif)
It emerged that OH had never even applied for visas for anyone!!?? So, no crime committed except for a big, fat lie to his family. Why he led us to believe this, I'm not sure - he won't speak to me at all! I'm beginning to think he's had some kind of breakdown or he's a compulsive liar, or maybe he wanted to disappear?? All sorts of things are coming out of the woodwork that would make your hair curl!! Still, this isn't the time or place and I really don't have the inclination to repeat it all on here. He's still with his new woman and things between us are definately over. Finances are in the hands of lawyers, hey ho....
The kids & I are doing ok.
I'm upset he doesn't want to see the kids, he "doesn't feel ready", but they seem to be coping. Time will tell I guess. They are very young, whether that's a good or bad thing, I'm not sure.
I'm getting all the paperwork sorted out to apply for a visa (a REAL one!) and my mum is talking to an agent about retiring to Oz.
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Sorry, I haven't posted in ages, but as you can imagine I've been up to my eyes in ....poo!
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It emerged that OH had never even applied for visas for anyone!!?? So, no crime committed except for a big, fat lie to his family. Why he led us to believe this, I'm not sure - he won't speak to me at all! I'm beginning to think he's had some kind of breakdown or he's a compulsive liar, or maybe he wanted to disappear?? All sorts of things are coming out of the woodwork that would make your hair curl!! Still, this isn't the time or place and I really don't have the inclination to repeat it all on here. He's still with his new woman and things between us are definately over. Finances are in the hands of lawyers, hey ho....
The kids & I are doing ok.
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I'm getting all the paperwork sorted out to apply for a visa (a REAL one!) and my mum is talking to an agent about retiring to Oz.
Thankyou all for the support you gave me at a really crappy time, I really appreciate it. I'm sure I'll be asking for more help in the near future with regards our visa application
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At night time I wear my 'naughty panties' which bring out the dark side, well a dark side that is so dark that you cannot see me.
Marrows are replaced by chilli and shredded glass, tactful negotiations are replaced by 'burn him, gouge his eyes'.
As darkness falls, the punishment gets worse and I have gone from sideways marrows, to large bollards and traffic cones - both at once with no lube.
I might even pretend to be a patient on his ward and say I need an examination 'down there' and then noisly have wind in his face - after of course, I have eaten Savoy cabbage, sprouts, mushrooms and other gas inducing veggies.
We need to form a team right away in defence of Gorgeousgal, - we will be a force to be reckoned with, we will be the champion penis choppers and noone will mess with us.
We shall wear army attire and have water pistols filled with dog pee and we can pretend to be Commando's and do those awful assault courses to make us tough.
And I am going to change my name to GI Sam and shave my hair like Demi Moore did in her film and build up big muscles and look like a man with breasts.
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Marrows are replaced by chilli and shredded glass, tactful negotiations are replaced by 'burn him, gouge his eyes'.
As darkness falls, the punishment gets worse and I have gone from sideways marrows, to large bollards and traffic cones - both at once with no lube.
I might even pretend to be a patient on his ward and say I need an examination 'down there' and then noisly have wind in his face - after of course, I have eaten Savoy cabbage, sprouts, mushrooms and other gas inducing veggies.
We need to form a team right away in defence of Gorgeousgal, - we will be a force to be reckoned with, we will be the champion penis choppers and noone will mess with us.
We shall wear army attire and have water pistols filled with dog pee and we can pretend to be Commando's and do those awful assault courses to make us tough.
And I am going to change my name to GI Sam and shave my hair like Demi Moore did in her film and build up big muscles and look like a man with breasts.
Come on Gorgeousgal, you can front the regiment
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They cant understand why their Dad wont come over.
Having lost a relative to HIV as their partner was unfaithful and kept it secret, I can never see any justification in jumping into bed with another person while you are still supposedly married and your partner still believing that you are the only one sharing the bed.
I have strong feelings on that Im afraid. If someone wants to dip their candle into someone else then their partner has a right to know, that way they can decide for themselves if they want to risk an STD or not.
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There might be two sides to every story but I think the way in which he has treated his children alone is appalling.
They cant understand why their Dad wont come over.
Having lost a relative to HIV as their partner was unfaithful and kept it secret, I can never see any justification in jumping into bed with another person while you are still supposedly married and your partner still believing that you are the only one sharing the bed.
I have strong feelings on that Im afraid. If someone wants to dip their candle into someone else then their partner has a right to know, that way they can decide for themselves if they want to risk an STD or not.![Sad](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/sad.gif)
They cant understand why their Dad wont come over.
Having lost a relative to HIV as their partner was unfaithful and kept it secret, I can never see any justification in jumping into bed with another person while you are still supposedly married and your partner still believing that you are the only one sharing the bed.
I have strong feelings on that Im afraid. If someone wants to dip their candle into someone else then their partner has a right to know, that way they can decide for themselves if they want to risk an STD or not.
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But we are condemmning somebody we dont even know. And dont really know the truth, thats all I meant.
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I said to Mr PP that if ever he felt the need to cheat on me I would rather he left me because I am not into sharing.
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I know if Mr PP did that to me then everything we have built our marriage on would be shattered.
When we got married, the Registrar gently reminded me that Mr PP as a muslim could take 4 wives.
Snorting with laughter, I replied 'Does that mean I can have 4 husbands?' She was not happy at all and even offered me the number of a support group.![ROFL](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/rofl.gif)
When we got married, the Registrar gently reminded me that Mr PP as a muslim could take 4 wives.
Snorting with laughter, I replied 'Does that mean I can have 4 husbands?' She was not happy at all and even offered me the number of a support group.
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A quick update -
Sorry, I haven't posted in ages, but as you can imagine I've been up to my eyes in ....poo!![EEK!](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/eek.gif)
It emerged that OH had never even applied for visas for anyone!!?? So, no crime committed except for a big, fat lie to his family. Why he led us to believe this, I'm not sure - he won't speak to me at all! I'm beginning to think he's had some kind of breakdown or he's a compulsive liar, or maybe he wanted to disappear?? All sorts of things are coming out of the woodwork that would make your hair curl!! Still, this isn't the time or place and I really don't have the inclination to repeat it all on here. He's still with his new woman and things between us are definately over. Finances are in the hands of lawyers, hey ho....
The kids & I are doing ok.
I'm upset he doesn't want to see the kids, he "doesn't feel ready", but they seem to be coping. Time will tell I guess. They are very young, whether that's a good or bad thing, I'm not sure.
I'm getting all the paperwork sorted out to apply for a visa (a REAL one!) and my mum is talking to an agent about retiring to Oz.
Thankyou all for the support you gave me at a really crappy time, I really appreciate it. I'm sure I'll be asking for more help in the near future with regards our visa application![Smile](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/smile.gif)
Sorry, I haven't posted in ages, but as you can imagine I've been up to my eyes in ....poo!
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It emerged that OH had never even applied for visas for anyone!!?? So, no crime committed except for a big, fat lie to his family. Why he led us to believe this, I'm not sure - he won't speak to me at all! I'm beginning to think he's had some kind of breakdown or he's a compulsive liar, or maybe he wanted to disappear?? All sorts of things are coming out of the woodwork that would make your hair curl!! Still, this isn't the time or place and I really don't have the inclination to repeat it all on here. He's still with his new woman and things between us are definately over. Finances are in the hands of lawyers, hey ho....
The kids & I are doing ok.
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I'm getting all the paperwork sorted out to apply for a visa (a REAL one!) and my mum is talking to an agent about retiring to Oz.
Thankyou all for the support you gave me at a really crappy time, I really appreciate it. I'm sure I'll be asking for more help in the near future with regards our visa application
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Really glad that you are starting to sort things out for you & the kids.
Keep strong
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Anyone know what happened?
What a prick that guy is!
What a prick that guy is!
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