Originally Posted by Bernieboy (Post 8299321)

Well this thread is turning interesting:lol: Thanks for all the suggestions and support,i will give them some thought,now dont you lot squabble anymore:rofl:

Originally Posted by Pollyana (Post 8299199)

Likewise. And I have to say that in Bernie's case she has treated him like cr*p. Its not a question of bashing, he genuinely has had a very raw end of the whole deal, even without bringing any financial settlement into it.

Originally Posted by Seasider (Post 8299558)

Squabble over you, Bernie? Admit it, you love it!

Originally Posted by Dreamy (Post 8299011)

Bernie - this divorce isn't costing you anything except grief - sign the papers and move on with your life.

I understand your desire to make it difficult for her, but is it worth dragging it out for a fleeting feeling of revenge?

Originally Posted by Seasider (Post 8299013)

Those of you men that automatically assume that women always try to "take men to the cleaners" really make me laugh.

Admittedly a few do - I know a woman who has done very nicely out of several divorces and broken relationships despite having no kids to provide for.

However like others here I walked away with only my dignity and started again. I let myself be made out as the bad bitch for the sake of peace and to preserve his reputation among our many mutual friends and colleagues, and still only a handful of people know just what I put up with before I realised I needed to get out with my sanity (almost) intact.

So please, guys, less of the stereotyping based on your own shit choice in women.

Originally Posted by Seasider (Post 8299558)

My response was aimed more at the boys circling the wagons, Pol. I don't know enough about Bernie's specific situation to comment, and I probably wouldn't comment on an open forum anyway.

Squabble over you, Bernie? Admit it, you love it!

Originally Posted by moneypenny20 (Post 8300069)

I think these comments might come under the 'caustic' heading.

Originally Posted by Dreamy (Post 8300423)

I couldn't be caustic if I tried!!

Originally Posted by emelems (Post 8300455)

I don't think either of those comments were caustic... :confused:

Em x

Originally Posted by moneypenny20 (Post 8300491)

Didn't think mine was but I'm obviously wrong :lol:

Originally Posted by moneypenny20 (Post 8300491)

Didn't think mine was but I'm obviously wrong :lol:

Originally Posted by Bernieboy (Post 8300601)

I thought i told you lot to stop squabbling and Kporte less of the 'wee man':sneaky:

Originally Posted by kporte (Post 8300610)

Average height man doesn't have the same ring! Anyway my life is crap so I'll say what I like!

Originally Posted by scottishcelts (Post 8298154)

Me thinks Hebe is a lawyer - or along those lines somewhere :thumbup: