What to do when one wants to try oz again but OH doesnt???
May 20th 2011, 11:39 am
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Re: What to do when one wants to try oz again but OH doesnt???
Hi all
Just want some opinions really.
Went to oz in sept 2009, came back to uk, but now i want to try oz again but the other half doesn,t!!!
Things didnt work out first time round, we collapsed at first hurdle - yes i know, was a stupid thing to do, should off stuck it out, but anyway i want to try again but other half not interested.
We have this chance that alot of people would dream off and cant do.
Any advice and thoughts would be great.
We are a family of 5, 3 girls aged 14, 12 and 3.
Just want some opinions really.
Went to oz in sept 2009, came back to uk, but now i want to try oz again but the other half doesn,t!!!
Things didnt work out first time round, we collapsed at first hurdle - yes i know, was a stupid thing to do, should off stuck it out, but anyway i want to try again but other half not interested.
We have this chance that alot of people would dream off and cant do.
Any advice and thoughts would be great.
We are a family of 5, 3 girls aged 14, 12 and 3.
I'm not sure what would be different if we did it again - apart from changes in our mindset and how we view the people/things in our lives.
We have until May 2013 and then our visa runs out and that's pretty much it for us.........I can hear the clock ticking very loudly at the moment!
I hope you manage to talk properly about your issues with the move and come to a happy conclusion.
Xx
May 20th 2011, 12:01 pm
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Re: What to do when one wants to try oz again but OH doesnt???
Hi all
Just want some opinions really.
Went to oz in sept 2009, came back to uk, but now i want to try oz again but the other half doesn,t!!!
Things didnt work out first time round, we collapsed at first hurdle - yes i know, was a stupid thing to do, should off stuck it out, but anyway i want to try again but other half not interested.
We have this chance that alot of people would dream off and cant do.
Any advice and thoughts would be great.
We are a family of 5, 3 girls aged 14, 12 and 3.
Just want some opinions really.
Went to oz in sept 2009, came back to uk, but now i want to try oz again but the other half doesn,t!!!
Things didnt work out first time round, we collapsed at first hurdle - yes i know, was a stupid thing to do, should off stuck it out, but anyway i want to try again but other half not interested.
We have this chance that alot of people would dream off and cant do.
Any advice and thoughts would be great.
We are a family of 5, 3 girls aged 14, 12 and 3.
May 20th 2011, 12:43 pm
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May 20th 2011, 12:51 pm
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May 20th 2011, 1:42 pm
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Re: What to do when one wants to try oz again but OH doesnt???
Nothing you can do. Unless you want Oz more than him?
May 21st 2011, 9:24 am
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