Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
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Re: Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
Originally Posted by OzSheila
Well what does that tell us?
For now I am justifying it by saying it is the "character building" that reigns supreme in Oz!
For now I am justifying it by saying it is the "character building" that reigns supreme in Oz!
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Re: Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
Originally Posted by OzSheila
Well what does that tell us?
For now I am justifying it by saying it is the "character building" that reigns supreme in Oz!
For now I am justifying it by saying it is the "character building" that reigns supreme in Oz!
Oz-the country that could have(easily) been the Greatest on Earth-way beyond anyplace-if not for the small mindedness of some Australians.
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Re: Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
Originally Posted by OzSheila
Well what does that tell us?
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Re: Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
Originally Posted by Breezey
I always assumed it has improved-while kinda suspecting it hasnt-its like many things about Oz.
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Re: Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
Originally Posted by OzSheila
Or as I find myself constantly saying "things haven't really changed"...........(in 13 years!)
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Re: Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
Many important issues are raised in this thread.
My gut feeling and experience of having taught in both countries and seeing the evidence is that bullying seems an equally serious problem in the UK and Australia.
The person who thinks bullying only occurs in the really bad areas of the UK is seriously mistaken. Bullying ranges from I've got the latest mobile phone and you haven't, I passed my test and you didn't, I'm slim and you're not, I play on my computer until the early hours of the morning, my mummy will tell you off (no reference to OP intended), I don't want you to be in my gang (no reference to Paul Gadd intended) right up to physical bullying. If you think the physical side only goes on in deprived areas, again wrong. Look in any playground, any corridor, anywhere.
The tendency in both countries is to 'cover your back' by having an anti-bullying strategy in writing and staff identified to deal with incidents but let's just hope nothing happens because it is a difficult thing to prove. If it gets as far as court, the British and Australian legal systems both rely on the principle of innocent until proven otherwise so witness statements, video evidence etc are required. Bullying also can take the form of children falsely accusing others of bullying (again not in OP's case).
Another point is that probably following the lead of the US (!) both societies have become increasingly litigious. Schools and authorities fear being taken to court over bullying, not being given adequate learning support, not being allowed to wear religious clothing and so on. For example, there were 3 court cases in Britain in the news just this week.
Case 1 - and I am not joking with this! A deputy headteacher in England is suing her local authority for £1 million damages. Reason? She had a chair in her office which made rude noises every time she sat on it and it became a joke amongst pupils, staff and parents. Apparently she was off work with stress and missed out on promotion because of this and is suing for loss of earnings and pension rights. You may ask why she didn't change the chair, put a cushion on it etc but she claimed it was the employer's responsibility under health and safety regulations.
Case 2. A lady was phoned up to come into her child's school. When she arrived she was asked to put a plaster on her daughter's finger which she had cut slightly. Why didn't you do that she asked the teacher? Local authority policy (Derbyshire)! If I put a plaster on the child's finger and she got an allergic reaction to the plaster the authority could be sued big time.
Case 3. The girl in Luton who was excluded from school for wearing Muslim clothing (jibab?) Won a court case to be re-instated, school appealed and it went to the Lords, decision overturned. Not an easy one as it is possible to see the school's and the individual's point of view.
Think about it also from the school/authority/education department point of view also. A lot of PC'ness which seems silly stems from fear of being taken to court or being seen to discriminate. You can also be sued by the person who feels they are wrongly accused of bullying. I don't profess to have the answers, its just a far more complex and insidious issue than it appears.
I am also appalled to think that children as young as that have unfettered access to the internet for such lengths of time. If the PC is in the bedroom then while the parents are asleep it is inevitable that games junkies are going to get their fix.
It is a much wider issue but the family unit seems to be breaking down everywhere as separate eating times, PC's and TV's in bedrooms etc proliferate. Does bullying of parents by children take place - for 8 and 9 year olds to have their own PC in their bedroom? "Jason and Kylie have a PC in their bedroom, I want one, I want one, I want one!!" Some parents also use their children as status symbols (chips off the old block as it were with the latest this that and the other to reflect upon themselves).
I'll just get my crash helmet on in preparation for some responses!
OzTennis
My gut feeling and experience of having taught in both countries and seeing the evidence is that bullying seems an equally serious problem in the UK and Australia.
The person who thinks bullying only occurs in the really bad areas of the UK is seriously mistaken. Bullying ranges from I've got the latest mobile phone and you haven't, I passed my test and you didn't, I'm slim and you're not, I play on my computer until the early hours of the morning, my mummy will tell you off (no reference to OP intended), I don't want you to be in my gang (no reference to Paul Gadd intended) right up to physical bullying. If you think the physical side only goes on in deprived areas, again wrong. Look in any playground, any corridor, anywhere.
The tendency in both countries is to 'cover your back' by having an anti-bullying strategy in writing and staff identified to deal with incidents but let's just hope nothing happens because it is a difficult thing to prove. If it gets as far as court, the British and Australian legal systems both rely on the principle of innocent until proven otherwise so witness statements, video evidence etc are required. Bullying also can take the form of children falsely accusing others of bullying (again not in OP's case).
Another point is that probably following the lead of the US (!) both societies have become increasingly litigious. Schools and authorities fear being taken to court over bullying, not being given adequate learning support, not being allowed to wear religious clothing and so on. For example, there were 3 court cases in Britain in the news just this week.
Case 1 - and I am not joking with this! A deputy headteacher in England is suing her local authority for £1 million damages. Reason? She had a chair in her office which made rude noises every time she sat on it and it became a joke amongst pupils, staff and parents. Apparently she was off work with stress and missed out on promotion because of this and is suing for loss of earnings and pension rights. You may ask why she didn't change the chair, put a cushion on it etc but she claimed it was the employer's responsibility under health and safety regulations.
Case 2. A lady was phoned up to come into her child's school. When she arrived she was asked to put a plaster on her daughter's finger which she had cut slightly. Why didn't you do that she asked the teacher? Local authority policy (Derbyshire)! If I put a plaster on the child's finger and she got an allergic reaction to the plaster the authority could be sued big time.
Case 3. The girl in Luton who was excluded from school for wearing Muslim clothing (jibab?) Won a court case to be re-instated, school appealed and it went to the Lords, decision overturned. Not an easy one as it is possible to see the school's and the individual's point of view.
Think about it also from the school/authority/education department point of view also. A lot of PC'ness which seems silly stems from fear of being taken to court or being seen to discriminate. You can also be sued by the person who feels they are wrongly accused of bullying. I don't profess to have the answers, its just a far more complex and insidious issue than it appears.
I am also appalled to think that children as young as that have unfettered access to the internet for such lengths of time. If the PC is in the bedroom then while the parents are asleep it is inevitable that games junkies are going to get their fix.
It is a much wider issue but the family unit seems to be breaking down everywhere as separate eating times, PC's and TV's in bedrooms etc proliferate. Does bullying of parents by children take place - for 8 and 9 year olds to have their own PC in their bedroom? "Jason and Kylie have a PC in their bedroom, I want one, I want one, I want one!!" Some parents also use their children as status symbols (chips off the old block as it were with the latest this that and the other to reflect upon themselves).
I'll just get my crash helmet on in preparation for some responses!
OzTennis
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Re: Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
Originally Posted by OzTennis
Many important issues are raised in this thread.
My gut feeling and experience of having taught in both countries and seeing the evidence is that bullying seems an equally serious problem in the UK and Australia.
The person who thinks bullying only occurs in the really bad areas of the UK is seriously mistaken. Bullying ranges from I've got the latest mobile phone and you haven't, I passed my test and you didn't, I'm slim and you're not, I play on my computer until the early hours of the morning, my mummy will tell you off (no reference to OP intended), I don't want you to be in my gang (no reference to Paul Gadd intended) right up to physical bullying. If you think the physical side only goes on in deprived areas, again wrong. Look in any playground, any corridor, anywhere.
The tendency in both countries is to 'cover your back' by having an anti-bullying strategy in writing and staff identified to deal with incidents but let's just hope nothing happens because it is a difficult thing to prove. If it gets as far as court, the British and Australian legal systems both rely on the principle of innocent until proven otherwise so witness statements, video evidence etc are required. Bullying also can take the form of children falsely accusing others of bullying (again not in OP's case).
Another point is that probably following the lead of the US (!) both societies have become increasingly litigious. Schools and authorities fear being taken to court over bullying, not being given adequate learning support, not being allowed to wear religious clothing and so on. For example, there were 3 court cases in Britain in the news just this week.
Case 1 - and I am not joking with this! A deputy headteacher in England is suing her local authority for £1 million damages. Reason? She had a chair in her office which made rude noises every time she sat on it and it became a joke amongst pupils, staff and parents. Apparently she was off work with stress and missed out on promotion because of this and is suing for loss of earnings and pension rights. You may ask why she didn't change the chair, put a cushion on it etc but she claimed it was the employer's responsibility under health and safety regulations.
Case 2. A lady was phoned up to come into her child's school. When she arrived she was asked to put a plaster on her daughter's finger which she had cut slightly. Why didn't you do that she asked the teacher? Local authority policy (Derbyshire)! If I put a plaster on the child's finger and she got an allergic reaction to the plaster the authority could be sued big time.
Case 3. The girl in Luton who was excluded from school for wearing Muslim clothing (jibab?) Won a court case to be re-instated, school appealed and it went to the Lords, decision overturned. Not an easy one as it is possible to see the school's and the individual's point of view.
Think about it also from the school/authority/education department point of view also. A lot of PC'ness which seems silly stems from fear of being taken to court or being seen to discriminate. You can also be sued by the person who feels they are wrongly accused of bullying. I don't profess to have the answers, its just a far more complex and insidious issue than it appears.
I am also appalled to think that children as young as that have unfettered access to the internet for such lengths of time. If the PC is in the bedroom then while the parents are asleep it is inevitable that games junkies are going to get their fix.
It is a much wider issue but the family unit seems to be breaking down everywhere as separate eating times, PC's and TV's in bedrooms etc proliferate. Does bullying of parents by children take place - for 8 and 9 year olds to have their own PC in their bedroom? "Jason and Kylie have a PC in their bedroom, I want one, I want one, I want one!!" Some parents also use their children as status symbols (chips off the old block as it were with the latest this that and the other to reflect upon themselves).
I'll just get my crash helmet on in preparation for some responses!
OzTennis
My gut feeling and experience of having taught in both countries and seeing the evidence is that bullying seems an equally serious problem in the UK and Australia.
The person who thinks bullying only occurs in the really bad areas of the UK is seriously mistaken. Bullying ranges from I've got the latest mobile phone and you haven't, I passed my test and you didn't, I'm slim and you're not, I play on my computer until the early hours of the morning, my mummy will tell you off (no reference to OP intended), I don't want you to be in my gang (no reference to Paul Gadd intended) right up to physical bullying. If you think the physical side only goes on in deprived areas, again wrong. Look in any playground, any corridor, anywhere.
The tendency in both countries is to 'cover your back' by having an anti-bullying strategy in writing and staff identified to deal with incidents but let's just hope nothing happens because it is a difficult thing to prove. If it gets as far as court, the British and Australian legal systems both rely on the principle of innocent until proven otherwise so witness statements, video evidence etc are required. Bullying also can take the form of children falsely accusing others of bullying (again not in OP's case).
Another point is that probably following the lead of the US (!) both societies have become increasingly litigious. Schools and authorities fear being taken to court over bullying, not being given adequate learning support, not being allowed to wear religious clothing and so on. For example, there were 3 court cases in Britain in the news just this week.
Case 1 - and I am not joking with this! A deputy headteacher in England is suing her local authority for £1 million damages. Reason? She had a chair in her office which made rude noises every time she sat on it and it became a joke amongst pupils, staff and parents. Apparently she was off work with stress and missed out on promotion because of this and is suing for loss of earnings and pension rights. You may ask why she didn't change the chair, put a cushion on it etc but she claimed it was the employer's responsibility under health and safety regulations.
Case 2. A lady was phoned up to come into her child's school. When she arrived she was asked to put a plaster on her daughter's finger which she had cut slightly. Why didn't you do that she asked the teacher? Local authority policy (Derbyshire)! If I put a plaster on the child's finger and she got an allergic reaction to the plaster the authority could be sued big time.
Case 3. The girl in Luton who was excluded from school for wearing Muslim clothing (jibab?) Won a court case to be re-instated, school appealed and it went to the Lords, decision overturned. Not an easy one as it is possible to see the school's and the individual's point of view.
Think about it also from the school/authority/education department point of view also. A lot of PC'ness which seems silly stems from fear of being taken to court or being seen to discriminate. You can also be sued by the person who feels they are wrongly accused of bullying. I don't profess to have the answers, its just a far more complex and insidious issue than it appears.
I am also appalled to think that children as young as that have unfettered access to the internet for such lengths of time. If the PC is in the bedroom then while the parents are asleep it is inevitable that games junkies are going to get their fix.
It is a much wider issue but the family unit seems to be breaking down everywhere as separate eating times, PC's and TV's in bedrooms etc proliferate. Does bullying of parents by children take place - for 8 and 9 year olds to have their own PC in their bedroom? "Jason and Kylie have a PC in their bedroom, I want one, I want one, I want one!!" Some parents also use their children as status symbols (chips off the old block as it were with the latest this that and the other to reflect upon themselves).
I'll just get my crash helmet on in preparation for some responses!
OzTennis
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Re: Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
Originally Posted by Breezey
Wow-thats what I keep thinking-Australia never ever changes. Maybe thats a good thing- I remember reading an old letter by my grandfather-"went down to neilsons bay for the day-had Ice cream-sunbaked-went to the Watson hotel for a beer and then into town for a movie before heading to the RSL.."-that was in the 1940's
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Re: Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
Originally Posted by Breezey
The one about the chair truly is the UK of today-and its the ones who complain about PC that end up being the ones who always rort the system!
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Re: Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
Originally Posted by OzTennis
I'll just get my crash helmet on in preparation for some responses!
OzTennis
OzTennis
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Re: Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
Originally Posted by Breezey
The one about the chair truly is the UK of today-and its the ones who complain about PC that end up being the ones who always rort the system!
OzTennis
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Re: Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
Originally Posted by OzTennis
I am also appalled to think that children as young as that have unfettered access to the internet for such lengths of time. If the PC is in the bedroom then while the parents are asleep it is inevitable that games junkies are going to get their fix.
It is a much wider issue but the family unit seems to be breaking down everywhere as separate eating times, PC's and TV's in bedrooms etc proliferate. Does bullying of parents by children take place - for 8 and 9 year olds to have their own PC in their bedroom? "Jason and Kylie have a PC in their bedroom, I want one, I want one, I want one!!" Some parents also use their children as status symbols (chips off the old block as it were with the latest this that and the other to reflect upon themselves).
I'll just get my crash helmet on in preparation for some responses!
OzTennis
It is a much wider issue but the family unit seems to be breaking down everywhere as separate eating times, PC's and TV's in bedrooms etc proliferate. Does bullying of parents by children take place - for 8 and 9 year olds to have their own PC in their bedroom? "Jason and Kylie have a PC in their bedroom, I want one, I want one, I want one!!" Some parents also use their children as status symbols (chips off the old block as it were with the latest this that and the other to reflect upon themselves).
I'll just get my crash helmet on in preparation for some responses!
OzTennis
They are each limited to one hour only on "technology" (PC, Playstation, Gameboys) a day.
We (mostly) sit down to dinner together (without the TV) because I believe (rather old fashionedly(?)) that "the family who eats together stays together". It is not always easy - for this reason I miss my English Sunday lunch!
We do have cousins who have PC/DVD players/TVs in their bedrooms and their grandparents are horrified because when the children stay over they have to sleep in the lounge because the only way they can go to sleep is in front of the TV!
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Re: Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
Originally Posted by Jensen Healey
So, does anyone have a feel for just how prevalent bullying is in Oz schools?
We're fairly interested as we have a 4 and a 7 yo who'll both need to be in school when we get there.
We're fairly interested as we have a 4 and a 7 yo who'll both need to be in school when we get there.
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Re: Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
Originally Posted by OzSheila
Even tho we can afford it, my children will never have either a TV or a PC in their bedrooms!
They are each limited to one hour only on "technology" (PC, Playstation, Gameboys) a day.
We (mostly) sit down to dinner together (without the TV) because I believe (rather old fashionedly(?)) that "the family who eats together stays together". It is not always easy - for this reason I miss my English Sunday lunch!
We do have cousins who have PC/DVD players/TVs in their bedrooms and their grandparents are horrified because when the children stay over they have to sleep in the lounge because the only way they can go to sleep is in front of the TV!
They are each limited to one hour only on "technology" (PC, Playstation, Gameboys) a day.
We (mostly) sit down to dinner together (without the TV) because I believe (rather old fashionedly(?)) that "the family who eats together stays together". It is not always easy - for this reason I miss my English Sunday lunch!
We do have cousins who have PC/DVD players/TVs in their bedrooms and their grandparents are horrified because when the children stay over they have to sleep in the lounge because the only way they can go to sleep is in front of the TV!
Obviously customs and habits change over time and we would expect things to be different in our generation compared to those of our parents or grandparents. However, we have to ask whether there may be a link between these changes and other things. Were people happier and was there less crime and so on when the family unit was stronger? Or perhaps there isn't a link?
OzTennis
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Re: Schools- Better watch yourself for PC behaviour
Originally Posted by OzSheila
Even tho we can afford it, my children will never have either a TV or a PC in their bedrooms!