A Real Kick In The Guts.
Sep 18th 2004, 12:25 am
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Re: A Real Kick In The Guts.
Originally Posted by soapy
hope your head hurts in the morn lol. jokin 
You are so Nasty!!!!!!!! LOL How can u wish that on me?????? What have I done to U?!!!! Nuthin!!!!!! exactly, rest my case and all that!!!!!!
Cheeky, (head hurts already!!!!!)
Sep 18th 2004, 12:26 am
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Re: A Real Kick In The Guts.
now u get some sleep, u will feel better in the morn. nite nite
Sep 18th 2004, 12:28 am
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Re: A Real Kick In The Guts.
Keep your mouth closed when eating soapy & have better luck with your lunch 
Donna.
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Sep 18th 2004, 12:28 am
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Re: A Real Kick In The Guts.
Originally Posted by Cheeky
You are so Nasty!!!!!!!! LOL How can u wish that on me?????? What have I done to U?!!!! Nuthin!!!!!! exactly, rest my case and all that!!!!!!
Cheeky, (head hurts already!!!!!)
Cheeky, (head hurts already!!!!!)
ha ha nite nite to u too, im off pool shoppin lol
Sep 18th 2004, 12:29 am
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Re: A Real Kick In The Guts.
Originally Posted by madsad
Keep your mouth closed when eating soapy & have better luck with your lunch
Donna.
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Sep 18th 2004, 12:32 am
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Re: A Real Kick In The Guts.
Originally Posted by soapy
now u get some sleep, u will feel better in the morn. nite nite
OK, Ok, Ok, Soapy get the message and yes I will feel better in the morn, thankyou for your concern (LOL). I dont get hangovers!!!!!!!
Cheeky
Sep 18th 2004, 12:36 am
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Re: A Real Kick In The Guts.
Originally Posted by Cheeky
You are so Nasty!!!!!!!! LOL How can u wish that on me?????? What have I done to U?!!!! Nuthin!!!!!! exactly, rest my case and all that!!!!!!
Cheeky, (head hurts already!!!!!)
Cheeky, (head hurts already!!!!!)
Kala
Sep 18th 2004, 12:41 am
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Re: A Real Kick In The Guts.
Originally Posted by kala
Have another drink and have it quick, it's the only way to stop the hangover getting in
Kala
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If I have anymore booze I wont be able to see screen!!!! (LOL)
Ive so gotta go, never mind got a lie-in in the morning
Cheeky!!!!!!
Sep 18th 2004, 12:44 am
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Re: A Real Kick In The Guts.
OK I have just checked on easyjet and anyone down south who wants to go and be nasty to this woman be it shouting or whatever you can fly from luton to Glasgow fro £6.49 plus tax each way.
Well worth forking out for the next BE meet in glasgow where we can all hold banners and everything outside bitches stupid money counting office.
K
Well worth forking out for the next BE meet in glasgow where we can all hold banners and everything outside bitches stupid money counting office.
K
Sep 18th 2004, 12:53 am
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Sorry Madsad, gone completely off topic here!!!!!!!!
Tryin to cheer u up
I know if I were you I would be bloody blazing with whats happened. I have 2 children and were kids are concerned woe betide!!!!
The thing is its not until you come away from 'certain situations' and think about what just happened and then it really hits you that someone has done you wrong!!
Cheeky
Tryin to cheer u up
I know if I were you I would be bloody blazing with whats happened. I have 2 children and were kids are concerned woe betide!!!!
The thing is its not until you come away from 'certain situations' and think about what just happened and then it really hits you that someone has done you wrong!! Cheeky
Sep 18th 2004, 12:54 am
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Re: A Real Kick In The Guts.
Originally Posted by kala
OK I have just checked on easyjet and anyone down south who wants to go and be nasty to this woman be it shouting or whatever you can fly from luton to Glasgow fro £6.49 plus tax each way.
Well worth forking out for the next BE meet in glasgow where we can all hold banners and everything outside bitches stupid money counting office.
K
Well worth forking out for the next BE meet in glasgow where we can all hold banners and everything outside bitches stupid money counting office.
K
Good idea, Cheeky
Sep 18th 2004, 1:22 am
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Re: A Real Kick In The Guts.
Originally Posted by kala
OK I have just checked on easyjet and anyone down south who wants to go and be nasty to this woman be it shouting or whatever you can fly from luton to Glasgow fro £6.49 plus tax each way.
Well worth forking out for the next BE meet in glasgow where we can all hold banners and everything outside bitches stupid money counting office.
K
Well worth forking out for the next BE meet in glasgow where we can all hold banners and everything outside bitches stupid money counting office.
K
Please Donna, make sure you complain, even if its only a letter and you can't be bothered to go through any official procedure. She needs a rap over the knuckles before she does it to someone else.
Sep 18th 2004, 1:59 am
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Re: A Real Kick In The Guts.
Originally Posted by madsad
Hi Guys,
We had an appointment today with a Clinical Psychologist to get an IQtest done for our son Andrew.(Dimia had requested this to be done because Andrew has ADHD.)
Brief background...Malcolm is not Andrews natural dad,but has raised Andrew since he was a baby,Andrew has always thought malcolm was his dad, why would he think any different.
On arriving at the Nuffield Hospital today,we were called & went into a room,(hubby,me & Andrew)the phychologist introduced herself,told us what the tests involved,read through Andrews specialist report,school reports etc...
She wanted some background info on Andrew from birth so her opening sentance was,
"So Malcolm you are not Andrews natural father?"....(Stunned)
Her next line was to me,
"I assume Andrews father is no longer on the scene?" (our world fell apart)
We left the room for Andrew to continue the tests,dont know how we managed to get up & out the room we were both gobsmacked,numb,wanted the ground to open up & swallow us both.
Andrew came out 1/2hour later done extremley well,scored above average for all the tests,knew he would anyway.
We asked if we could have a quiet word,so back into her room, hubby explained to her that until today Andrew was totally unaware that i was not his father,fair enough she apoligised but in no way sympathetically,her coment was" he needs to be told anyway"( which i do agree with & were fully prepared to explain the situation- one day)I replied "yes but you have forced us into a situation & that decision was ours to make" apoligy again from her & her saying so sorry grovel,grovel & all that!
She asked when we were leaving for Oz as she thought it was soon, she wondered how we were going to pay the bill?! We paid in cash £160 & she even counted it & comented on how she loved to count cash.
£160 for her thoughtlessness & shes turned our world upside down.
Whatever happend to tact? Psychologist or not.
Donna.
We had an appointment today with a Clinical Psychologist to get an IQtest done for our son Andrew.(Dimia had requested this to be done because Andrew has ADHD.)
Brief background...Malcolm is not Andrews natural dad,but has raised Andrew since he was a baby,Andrew has always thought malcolm was his dad, why would he think any different.
On arriving at the Nuffield Hospital today,we were called & went into a room,(hubby,me & Andrew)the phychologist introduced herself,told us what the tests involved,read through Andrews specialist report,school reports etc...
She wanted some background info on Andrew from birth so her opening sentance was,
"So Malcolm you are not Andrews natural father?"....(Stunned)
Her next line was to me,
"I assume Andrews father is no longer on the scene?" (our world fell apart)
We left the room for Andrew to continue the tests,dont know how we managed to get up & out the room we were both gobsmacked,numb,wanted the ground to open up & swallow us both.
Andrew came out 1/2hour later done extremley well,scored above average for all the tests,knew he would anyway.
We asked if we could have a quiet word,so back into her room, hubby explained to her that until today Andrew was totally unaware that i was not his father,fair enough she apoligised but in no way sympathetically,her coment was" he needs to be told anyway"( which i do agree with & were fully prepared to explain the situation- one day)I replied "yes but you have forced us into a situation & that decision was ours to make" apoligy again from her & her saying so sorry grovel,grovel & all that!
She asked when we were leaving for Oz as she thought it was soon, she wondered how we were going to pay the bill?! We paid in cash £160 & she even counted it & comented on how she loved to count cash.
£160 for her thoughtlessness & shes turned our world upside down.
Whatever happend to tact? Psychologist or not.
Donna.
That is appalling - Is there someone you can complain to?
AND on top of that the language she used is dreadful - NATURAL father - well of course you husband is his natural father, he's just not your sons BIOLOGICAL father. My husband and I are the natural parents of all our three children, but only the biological parents to two of them.
We are in a situation where our daughter will grow up knowing she is adopted, she is asian and we are not. She will also know we are her REAL, NATURAL, loving parents. She will also know she has biological parents somewhere in this world who for whatever reason were unable to look after her.
Good luck talking to your son. I'm sure he knows you both love him and will be fine.
Take care
Rudi
Sep 18th 2004, 3:30 am
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Re: A Real Kick In The Guts.
It never ceases tro amaze me at how insensitive some people can be, but this just takes the biscuit. If I were you I would have probably walked out without paying her! I would have been so cross.
Dad you sound like a fantastic Dad to have and Andrew is a lucky boy, and I am sure you feel lucky to have Andrew as your son.
It should be worth it in the end. Chin up!
Dad you sound like a fantastic Dad to have and Andrew is a lucky boy, and I am sure you feel lucky to have Andrew as your son.
It should be worth it in the end. Chin up!
Sep 18th 2004, 4:33 am
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Re: A Real Kick In The Guts.
woe betide!!!!
ha ha . brill ive not heard that for ages
really cheered me up
ha ha . brill ive not heard that for ages
really cheered me up